It never ceases to amaze me how, in life, the majority of people want something for nothing and then complain or blame outside influences when they don’t get it or it just doesn’t happen. Then they either settle for mediocre results or just give up completely. The road to success can take time and includes many pitfalls. Only a select few rise above the rest and make it to the end... The ones that work at it. I will always remember Michael Jordan’s last official championship game playing for the Chicago Bulls. They were one point down I think, with the clock ticking, time was running out...12 seconds counting... MJ, with the ball, welcomes the defender following directly in front of him then expertly and unexpectedly changes direction, crossing the ball over to the side leaving him in the dust, the defender almost falling over …8 seconds left… only to spectacularly and gracefully score a jump shot that he had probably practiced a couple thousand times to perfection. The Bulls win. Many other good players would have missed that shot, being under so much pressure and knowing what it would mean on many different levels. But MJ was one cat that had SERIOUSLY put the effort in and could, when push came to shove, really perform and execute when required (I’m sure some of you, even if you’re not basketball fans, know who MJ is and feel what I’m saying. Maybe you remember that game too, youtube it). You have to really put the effort in… pickup is no exception. Follow the steps below and GET READY FOR SUCCESS. Btw, I have applied all of them at one point or another and am still applying them today. They have worked for me and I hope they work for you or at least point you in the right direction to success.

1. Set goals. Have a game plan.
2. Ok, now set realistic goals.
3. Get out of the house at least 4x a week.
4. Speak to people, preferably women, all the time. Be friendly and exude warmth, (not in a wishy-washy way but allowing the Model to serve you-get a stack) practice your delivery…be an artist. Go to clubs, bars, museums...where ever there are women, whatever your taste is. Give yourself a target, say 10-12 sets a day and get good at it.
5. Have a role model and learn from them. Do whatever it takes. If this means doing a boot camp or a 1on1 then just do it.
6. Make notes or keep a journal of you progress, high and lows. Learn from it. If something isn’t working, understand why and move on.
7. Get a competent wing. Not just anybody. Choose carefully. You should complement each other.
8. Keep fit and eat good food. Look after yourself. Girls always notice this in my experience.
9. Have passions and interest outside of GAME. Whatever it is. Don’t be a boring person. Be someone with a love for life (not just pussy). What ever it is that tickles your fancy, be it art, music, football, baking cakes, helping the old lady across the street every Sunday morning lol.
10. Enjoy it because it IS fun.

Here are a few points that have really stood the test of time and more importantly work when it comes to winging. I have had the pleasure of being in the company of some great wings who have, on more than one occasion, helped me get the girl. The following points are highly recommended and have all been applied by myself and my wings.

1. Be good friends first.
2. Have things in common outside of game.
3. But also have differences that contrast each other in a positive way. This makes for great accomplishment intros.
4. Enjoy each others company when in-field…let everyone see two cool cats having a great time.
5. Understand and apply the wingman rule of etiquette, i.e., your wingman comes first. PERIOD.
6. Really, genuinely help your wing get the girl…even if it means sticking with the not so good-looking friend, engaging her with fun games and interesting stories whilst your wing isolates his target.
7. Encourage each other…don’t hate. If one of you has a higher skill level, help your buddy get up to speed.
8. Know each others manoeuvres along with some variations to avoid clashing in-field.
9. Work as a team.
10. When you get good enough, actually game for your wing. Enter a venue or go to a social gathering…and the objective is to get a girl for your wing, he deserves it.

Happy Holidays everyone!

In the spirit of giving I thought I'd share with you an easy little kino gambit that you can quickly use to escalate to a kiss-close. It builds sexual tension and uses triangular gazing to get her thinking about the kiss. It also gives you a number of different directions to stack or multi-thread if you don't get the compliance you need right away.

Triangular Gazing, if you've never heard of it, is when a woman will look from one eye to the next, then at your lips, then back to an eye, and so on and so on. When a woman is thinking about kissing you, her gaze moves in a triangle in this way. But when we have a woman emotionally engaged, we can get her to start doing triangular gazing by doing it ourselves. So as we look from eye to eye to lips and repeat, she will begin to do the same. And as a result, she will start to think about kissing you!

I've mostly been using this routine when I'm isolated, which means Ive seen some IOIs and have qualified her a bit. By this time I have usually tested compliance with some hand-holding, hugging etc. You can lead into this routine through any routine or gambit that involves talking about any of senses. Food, music, human experience, and art are all great topics to launch into this routine from:

The 9 Senses Kiss Gambit

Prophet: "Most people think humans have only 5 senses. The reality is that we have 9. We have hearing [point to your ears]… sight [look into her eyes]… taste… [point to your lips, this can queue triangular gazing]… touch [hold her hands]… and smell [if you can do it without being creepy, smell her hair - if not, just joke that you won't try to smell her]. But we can also have parts of our body that sense balance and acceleration, temperature and pressure, pain, and what is called the Kinesthetic sense… which is being AWARE of the parts of your body… and where they physically are."

Start the first bit of the next line a little dramatically, to build some tension (as she'll think you're going to try to something "smooth") then the last bit playfully to release:

Prophet: "For instance… if you close your eyes… [playfully] can you touch... your finger to your nose?"

Get her to do it, if she can't do it, neg her for being drunk and tell her she would totally end up in the drunk tank with all the other weirdos.

Do you have enough compliance?

If you haven't sensed any resistance with the hand-holding and smell, or if you've noticed her doing triangular gazing, you can go for the kiss (below). If not, you need to build more kino compliance, so you can stack into something a little lighter, like the Body Back Writing Game:

Prophet: "It's that sense... that allows you to find the right spot on your body with your finger... It's also why it's impossible to tickle yourself. A tickle comes from an unexpected touch in sensitive places. If you already know... that you are going to touch yourself... there is no tickle. Did you every play the back-writing game back in grade school? Where you draw letters on your friend's back and they guess what word you wrote?"

then play body back writing and calibrate from there.

Escalate to the kiss

If you haven't sensed any resistence in the handholding, and she doing the triangular gasing, continue doing the same leaning in very slowly as you talk. If you notice that she pulls back while you do this (and IOD) then she may not be ready to kiss pull back as well and finish the routine and then either stack into something that either builds value, like a DHV routine, or compliance, like the Body Back Writing bit above.

Prophet: "It's that sense that allows you to find the right spot on your body with your finger. It's also what ALLOWS.... US... TO KISS…[look at her lips as you say this] you actually cant see your lips... and as you get... closer to a person [lean in a bit if she's also doing triangular gazing]... you cant even see their lips… so you have to rely on your other senses…[if she hasn't pulled away, or is leaning in closer as you lean in, kiss her either on the cheek or the lips, depending on how much compliance you get] …just to show the most fundamental form of affection. Isn't that fascinating?"

Invisible threads

You'll note that there's a lot of sexual undertones throughout the whole gambit, particularly suggestive phrases that sound like I'm talking about her touching herself. Every now and then someone will call attention to this, sometimes positively, and sometimes as a shit test. If they bite on those innuendoes and it seems like a shit test, or if they just seem them getting a look on their face that you can misinterpret as such, you can bust on them with something like:

Prophet: "Oh my god get your mind out of the gutter. I'm totally not in that headspace right now."

Or, if they bite on it in a positive way, such as by talking about touching themselves, you can multi-thread into something a little more sexual, like the Masturbate in the Shower gambit or something like:

Prophet: "Ok Cosmo survey time… have any of you guys ever faked an orgasm? Why?"

You can always come back to this thread (and ultimately the kiss) after you have built more sexual tension.

Merry Christmas Sarging!

Prophet

1. Practice smiling in front of a mirror
2. Choose the smile that looks most natural and pleasant
3. Go out in field and work it.
4. MAKE SURE you smile when you first open a set and in-between sets whilst constantly portraying a warm, friendly vibe.
5. If you are not confident about your teeth for whatever reason, pay a quick visit to a dentist. It’s worth it.

This is part three of my series on phone game.  Click here to view my previous articles.

If your game is tight, and you follow the guidelines I outlined in my previous articles on texting and calling the women you meet, you’ll find that a surprising number of them will call you faster than you may have previously thought (make sure you TRADE numbers when you close her).  As with my previous articles, everything mentioned below is a guideline only.  These rules are not set in stone!  You have to adapt and calibrate your actions as you go.

If she calls you, there are a number things to be mindful of such as your current circumstances, at what stage you are in the set, and what you think will work best with her.

First, make sure you don’t pick up on the first ring. The right time to answer is on the third ring. This can be hard to gauge if you have custom ringtones and such on your cell (and who doesn’t these days), so just wait a few seconds before you answer. I personally like to sing aloud with whatever ringtone I have assigned to the woman in question for a few lines because it ups my energy level when I answer the phone. It sounds silly, but no matter what else is happening, it always means that I answer the phone with energy.

When I answer the phone I typically just answer it with an enthusiastic and warm “Hello!”, or by calling her by her nickname: “Hello darlin’, how’s my Attack Kitten today?”. Depending on your identity, you may want to answer the phone with something different. If we already have inside jokes, I’ll sometimes answer the phone with a reference to that (so I would literally pick up the phone and say something like “I just swam here from FUCKING Pittsburg!”). My wing Wild Card, who has a very flamboyant and zany personality will always answer with “You’ve got GREG!” while a more professional person might answer with a professional “Brian Richards speaking”, as if they are expecting one of their million dollar clients to be calling them. This all depends on your avatar and personality. Just don’t make it sound corny or childish if that kind of humor isn’t part of your game.

Another thing that I think a lot of people don’t consider is how enthusiastic you sound when people call you. When your friends and girlfriends call you, its good social vibing to sound enthused that they called. Have you ever called up one of your buddies and had him sound almost annoyed that you called him? This is bad vibing. You’re calling up your friend to chat or invite him out, and not only isn’t he glad to hear from his so-called friend, but he actually sounds annoyed that you called! And he may not even realize that he’s being like this. He really could be happy to hear from you, but he’s just not showing it in his voice. There’s no energy, no inflection, no enthusiasm. You need those things when you answer the phone regardless of it’s your target, your wingman, or even your mom.

If your target calls you, it is an IOI. If you don’t accept that IOI and she gets a negative vibe from you, you will be reinforcing the idea that you don’t want her to call you. Now, I don’t know about you guys, but I want my targets to call me. I want them to send me funny little texts and call me to shoot the shit and invite me to hang out. Hell, I want them to call me when I’m out with other girls so I can build some jealousy. It makes your job a hell of a lot easier when they call you, so make sure you are happy to hear from them when they do!

Note: that doesn’t mean act supplicative and needy when she calls you. Don’t be like “OMG I’m so glad you called, I was just thinking about you last night and it’s really good to hear from you…” Instead, sound like “Hey babe! How are you? … Awesome! I’m fabulous as usual! I’m heading over to meet my friend Kayla, we’re going shopping to find me a top hat! What have you been up to?”

Now, once you answer you have the option, depending on what you are personally doing at the moment and what you think she would respond most positively to, to get involved in a conversation or to simply say “I’m kind of in the middle of something at the moment. How about I call you back [in an hour/this afternoon/tomorrow/whatever]?”

For instance, if I’m with a bunch of friends and we’re all hanging out and having fun, I’m not going to stop what I’m doing to talk on the phone. I’m going to say “Hey, how’s it going? Awesome! Listen, I’m out with some friends at the moment. How about I call you when I get home?” Or if she just has something quick to say, I’ll tell her “Ok, but I can’t talk long my friends are waiting on me.” This can be a very powerful thing to do every now and then because it conveys non-neediness and shows that you are a social person.

Alternatively, you don’t even necessarily HAVE to answer at all. If you are genuinely busy with something/someone, or you really just don’t feel like talking, don’t pick up and call her back later.

If you miss her call or just decide not to pick up, be sure to wait a little bit before you call her back. Unless you are both in a rush for some reason, ten minutes should be the minimum, but you could realistically wait for hours or days depending on the situation. Once again, you have to calibrate based on the situation.

If, for whatever reason, she doesn’t get you on the phone, you should make sure she has the option of leaving you a voicemail. This way you can check it whenever is most convenient for you and decide when you should call her back. You voicemail can also be very useful way to convey a little more of your personality. We’ll cover that in a couple weeks!

Next week: how to handle the time between your first call and you day-2!

This is part two of my series on phone game.  Click here to view my previous articles.

The hardest part of phone game is getting her on the phone (see my previous article on that).  Once you’ve gotten past that hurdle, things can move pretty smoothly if you’re smart and adaptable.  As with my previous article, everything mentioned below is a guideline only.  These rules are not set in stone!  You have to adapt and calibrate your actions as you go.

The most important factor here is your voice.  You should sound confident and self-assured in your tone.  You should speak slowly, deeply, and with pausing, just as you would in the field.  Sounding as cool as you did in the field when you met her while your on the phone is a commonly ignored concept in this field, but it is absolutely vital.  Too many aspiring pick-up artists can run fantastic game in the field, but snap right back to their old selves on the phone and become needy, supplicative, and sometimes downright creepy.  She can never sense any inconsistencies in your personality on the phone.  This is key.

Once you’ve got her on the phone, you have to think of a phone call as sort of a mini pick-up. You start with a quick DHV, qualify her briefly, and then build comfort. I like to immediately tell her about something funny/crazy/interesting that happened later on in the night after my friends and I left the club that we met at but you could use any routine you want as long as it seems relevant to the phone call somehow (i.e. starting the routine with “So I just go this text from my friend and…”). When it’s time to qualify, try to qualify her based on something that has come up in the conversation that the routine has started if you can. Just saying “So….can you cook?” out of nowhere sounds kind of weird.

Here’s a generic example:

“So get this: as we were leaving the club on Friday, my friend Adam was getting literally DRAGGED away by this…not so attractive girl, but Adam is a REALLY nice guy and just couldn’t figure out how to get away from her without hurting her feelings.  So Jamie (you met her, she was the blond in the corset) just trots right over and starts to pull Adam back to us, saying he’s gotta come home with us tonight.  Well the other girl just LOOSES IT and starts freaking out on Jamie.  She gets all in her face and starts trying to shove her and get physical.   Now normally I’d be all like “Yeah catfight!”  But that’s only when it’s people I don’t know, and Jamie doesn’t take shit from ANYBODY so we all rushed in and literally drag Jamie out of there before things got really out of hand. That’s why I love my friends though: everyone’s always watching out for each other, no matter what. From what I gathered though your friends are like that too, am I right?”

From there, you build comfort as normal. You let the conversation flow normally as you both get to know each other better. Just have a conversation. This is something so many PUAs just cant seem to get into their heads and I cannot stress this enough. Whether its ten minutes or two hours, your target should hang up the phone want to immediately call her friends and tell her about this phone conversation she had with this amazing guy who she really connected with. Talk to her, get to know her and above all, appreciate her.

I like to use the phone as an opportunity to talk about what’s going on in my life at the moment. It’s almost as if I’m catching up with an old friend and by creating that vibe, it creates the unconscious illusion of familiarity. See more about the art of conversation in my article about How To talk to girls

You don’t even have to set up the Day-2 on the first call. In fact, unless she brings it up, you probably should wait until at least the second phone call. If you want, you can seed a potential hang-out during your conversation (I would, for instance, mention something about my friends and I all getting together for our weekly wing-night, or maybe that we’re all going to a certain event on such an such a day) and then just not invite her to it until your next call. By not immediately going for the date the first time you talk to her, you convey non-neediness, and may even just leave her thinking “Why DIDN’T he ask me out after we had that great conversation?” Anticipation is a very powerful thing. Use it to your advantage whenever you can.

After your first call, wait two days or so and follow the same pattern above. If she seems really eager to hear from you again, you can call her the very next day if you want, and if the phone call didn’t go as perfectly as you had planned, maybe wait and call her on the third day.  Again, it’s all about calibration here.  You have to gauge how much value/compliance/comfort you have when deciding on what move to make next.

Next week: how to handle a call from her the proper way!

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