Here are a few points that have really stood the test of time and more importantly work when it comes to winging. I have had the pleasure of being in the company of some great wings who have, on more than one occasion, helped me get the girl. The following points are highly recommended and have all been applied by myself and my wings.
- Be good friends first.
- Have things in common outside of game.
- But also have differences that contrast each other in a positive way. This makes for great accomplishment intros.
- Enjoy each others company when in-field…let everyone see two cool cats having a great time.
- Understand and apply the wingman rule of etiquette, i.e., your wingman comes first. PERIOD.
- Really, genuinely help your wing get the girl…even if it means sticking with the not so good-looking friend, engaging her with fun games and interesting stories whilst your wing isolates his target.
- Encourage each other…don’t hate. If one of you has a higher skill level, help your buddy get up to speed.
- Know each others manoeuvres along with some variations to avoid clashing in-field.
- Work as a team.
- When you get good enough, actually game for your wing. Enter a venue or go to a social gathering…and the objective is to get a girl for your wing, he deserves it.
