New to this forum appreciate some help

[juliovonmatterhorn]

Well pretty much I had pof(plenty of fish) a couple years ago ****ed a 6 broke my dry spell and left. Couple days ago I said **** it and got back on been having moderate success about 8 phone numbers ranging from 5-7 but just today I hooked a 9 In and ended up getting her number quickly without learning much about her......

Her last message on pof was "you better not turn out to be a weirdy ill be upset! "
and she gave me her #

I Told her that I was thinking the same thing about her

Then about 20 minutes later i texted "This is Steve you better not forget my # Im a very important person "

She replied with "I believe it thats why i gave you mine )


Now the fact be told I know once we hang out once ill be ok I just some times have problems setting up the dates on pof with the actual hot chicks on there even if you have their number. So the question is how should i play this 1 should i phone her in a couple days and freestyle it or should i line up a few good texts over the next week or so then make the phone call? and the final option would be ask her to facebook me because I have a good account set up lots of DHV


Aprreciate the help boys

[The_Jester]

First off - I'd avoid Facebook. Do it later, after a few dates, preferably after you sleep together, if possible. Don't do it at all if you can manage it. Why? Because chicks who troll your page never have good intentions. They're just looking for an excuse to pull the plug. If I ever get FB requests, I ignore them. If it's mentioned, I ask them "Why do you want to demote me to being your pen pal? We've got a great connection going in person, don't you think?" and that typically shuts them up.

As for how to play it, why do things any differently than you've done them before?

Make sure you don't overdo it and contact her too much. Leave several days between each time you contact her. Make sure she knows you have a life that's too full to waste time chasing her like a lost puppy.

She's busy too. And if she is a 9, she knows she has options. Make sure to do little things like ending each text with a question (one worth answering) so she is more likely to reply. Bait her.

And get to scheduling asap. Once you do, get a solid yes for a specific date, time, place, etc. Leave nothing unspecified.