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Old 03-24-2009, 02:04 PM
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Hey guys is it unhealthy to masturbate too much??....like several times a day everyday...ive been jerking it since like 14 yo and times when it was like 5 times a day and for a while i just been tired through out the day lost interest in accomplishing anything...They say in the east that it's your lifeforce and to hold it in when you orgasm during sex to shoot it up your spine and into your brain to rejuvenate you. When you spill your seed its something precious and depletes your energy. Or so I hear...
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Old 03-24-2009, 09:49 PM
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Old 03-25-2009, 01:11 AM
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It's true, Junior. Ejaculating too often will deplete your energy and motivation, especially as you get older.

Pick up a copy of The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia and apply the teachings. That will solve your problems with this issue and also greatly enhance your pleasure and your future sexual experiences. I also highly recommend looking into tantra and the concept of "full-body orgasm".
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I knew it! That's what mystery said and Style among other people. Thing is I've recently realized Im kidn addicted to it. But I need to stop or at least cut back. My energy sometimes is low for no reason at all even when I've slept for 9 or 10 hours and motivation....I don't feel likedoing anything....careerwise, hobbywise or even sarging. Its affecting my life. I'm going to look into those books. The full body orgasm and not losing energy and motivation appeals to me. Thnx man
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Old 03-31-2009, 02:20 AM
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Yeah, a lot of guys end up addicted like that, and it becomes very detrimental to their lives and overall health. And then they struggle with feelings of guilt, wrongness, and similar.

Retaining your energy as desired and experiencing full-body orgasm is an extremely rewarding, healing, and pleasurable practice. I think you will find it well worth the effort, and your future partners will thank you too.
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I knew it! That's what mystery said and Style among other people. Thing is I've recently realized Im kidn addicted to it. But I need to stop or at least cut back. My energy sometimes is low for no reason at all even when I've slept for 9 or 10 hours and motivation....I don't feel likedoing anything....careerwise, hobbywise or even sarging. Its affecting my life. I'm going to look into those books. The full body orgasm and not losing energy and motivation appeals to me. Thnx man
Maybe this is the result from sleeping too much.
back in the days I also thought that I need at least 8 and 1/2 hour to sleep, and was wondering why I am tired the whole day. Then I tried to sleep not more than 7 and a 1/2 hours and got a lot of more energy. Its not easy to get up at first, but when u do it, u will feel defintely better. sleeping too much (more than 9 hours) is very bad for your state and can effect even depressions beacuse of having low energy.

and thanks to azazels_wolf for the infos!!
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Yeah, a lot of guys end up addicted like that, and it becomes very detrimental to their lives and overall health. And then they struggle with feelings of guilt, wrongness, and similar.

Retaining your energy as desired and experiencing full-body orgasm is an extremely rewarding, healing, and pleasurable practice. I think you will find it well worth the effort, and your future partners will thank you too.
I feel no guilt or wrongness
I feel no shame in saying that I enjoy it
I agree that it may somehow deplete your energy if you do it too much
but I find it hard to cut back because holding it in makes my nuts hurt

how do you hold it in azazel
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:20 PM
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Yea i dont feel guilt or shame either. Myabe some people but i defintly feel more tired and less motivated to do things. Now that i tried hard to cut back and started sarging and got laid on sat. i feel more energetic motivated and happier. But its still hard to cut back i guess only way is to keep yourself busy dont stay at home all day. Go out everyday, come home late, and go traight to sleep. Dont give yourself time to beat it. That way has helped for me. Like they say.... Idle hands are the devil's playground...
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If you think you are addicted and feel the need for help to break the addiction, check out http://www.newlife.com/

It is a Christian website, and you may find some ideas you disagree with, but they are accommodating, not tyrannical, in their treatment of masturbation, like some old time religions.

Their focus is to help men defeat addictions to porn and masturbation, and to teach men how to be honorable husbands.
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dr webber:

By realizing that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate phenomena, and learning how to consistently separate them.

You should get the book I mentioned above, since it also includes some energy techniques that will lead you to much greater pleasure and sexual potential, as well as many other benefits, but you can read these to get started right away:

http://sexuality.about.com/od/orgasm...emultiples.htm
http://www.associatedcontent.com/art...nce.html?cat=5

You might find one or the other more clear for you, so take a look at both (second one has multiple pages you have to select).
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