The Five Prinicples of Female Pleasure

[Argo]

Renaissan, I am actually starting a thread on that. Or rather, on keeping your erection, holding your ejaculation, still orgasming, and doing it all night long (and the next day if you please).

Part of the trick is - exactly what you posted here, being in the now, in the moment of pleasure and just focused on the sharing. On being together with her. A less important part of the trick are technicalities such as PR muscles training, "start-stop" techniques, etc. Look them up, they work a threat, but the whole thing is a matter of mindset (the ghost and the flame, presence, etc. applies to sexuality the same way it applies to the whole romantic and sensual interaction).

Which brings me to the fact that: most of your post, kudos for that gem, applies to women who have "performance anxiety" as well.

I have become selective and less inclined on "PUA for numbers" than ever, I am happily enjoying my lady, but I have experience which shows, and tends to generate performance anxiety (I have been called a "mindfuck" recently).

Questions of presence, of being together, playing, giving attention and time to foreplay, and increasing arousal gradually as well - well, they all apply to both genders.

[Renaissan]

Great point, Argo. Your point extends even outside the bedroom, too. Women definitely have mucho insecurities and anxieties. When you're on a coffee date or whatever, chances are she's nervous, too, all worried about what you think of her. When you think about it, how many guys suffer from anorexia? Exactly.

By the way, definitely familiar with the stop-start techniques. That's a great one.

Another one--one of my favorites--is relaxing the muscles around the groin area. It's that tension in that area that puts us over the edge, right? So, just by relaxing those muscles it can help us to last way longer. Deep breathing (versus shallow breaths, which most people tend to take) does nothing but relax the muscles and focus us on this particular woman in front of us here and now.

And yeah, Argo, I'd definitely say relaxing applies not just to guys but to the human race in general. Definitely. Haha. In fact, I'm still learning it.

`Preciate the kudos, man.

[subzero]

I mean, wouldn’t you prefer to enjoy the taste of your food making the experience last rather than wolfing it down?

actually i really do prefer to wolf down my food, totally serious! LOL.

Anyway, great thread.....great points!

[Renaissan]

Believe me, there's definitely a time and a place for wolfin'. LOL

Great to hear from you buddy