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  1. #1
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    New Years pickup (2 number closes)

    Hello everyone and happy new year!!!! I have a situation with a girl I picked up on saturday. My mid game is needs work but she just really liked talking to me and cause I am interesting and I was able to keep a conversation going for 30 mins back and forth. I felt I built enough comfort so I decided to go. I didn't kiss close just number close.
    I opened her with -- why are you standing?! Simple and effective. I didn't introduce myself till the end. We were deep into conversations about cool shit. Super smart chick and sweet as can be.
    I was social proofed at a private party case I knew the host and he is super alpha.
    Plus I went with a chick on my arm.
    Her response to my opener was - I sit all day, but that didn't stop her from coming and to sit and talk to me for the remaining time. 😂 I took it super slow and easy. I am building comfort still.
    So this is one of two good pickups from New Years. My big question is do I chat with her via text? For me, I always did that to build comfort but chicks get bored and its like slowly killing the set.! Should I say a few things and set a meeting time. i feel the beginning of the communication was good that we texted but I feel I will ruin it if I just text her everything. So I must met her to have the same conversations I would text with her. That way I can touch and vibe with her. Kiss her when the times correct.
    So are first dates just for comfort building. I wont have sex with her for 7 to 10 hrs. I want her to not just think of me for sex. It needs more power. Anyway I'm all over the place. Im add so if you followed this awesome. And thanks for reading it.

    1. My questions are what a good first date? Im 1 hr in with this chick.
    2. How and when do I text her? Do I wait till a night I want to see her or do I text her and make plans? The irons hot and I don't care to fuck it up on my end. 😂😂
    3. Will texting normal conversation stuff with her kill my game? I do really enjoy talking to her but I don't want to ruin anything. Jamie prolly went over this in VIP but I forgot. 😬
    4. Did I make any mistakes in my pickup?
    Any help would be great!!

    Btw I opened everyone at the party. All the people knew who I was. I NEVER do that. So a big thanks to jamie and all you guys for helping me so far. 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻
    It made for a more sociable evening. I use to be he guy in the corner. I stayed sober also. My game is compromised with anything that effects my thoughts.


  2. #2
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    i'm just to see that you're improving. Also, i'm curious to know if you used a routine stack. The reason I ask is because you talked a lot about building comfort and the 7 hour rule but I didn't hear anything about attraction. Also, remember the point of the routine stack: to have a in advance presentation in advance to give you the highest percentage of success.

    As far as texting I think it would, that's something I'm trying to get rid of myself. also, remember that building comfort should be done in person not through a electronic device.


  3. #3
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    Yes, I am having much more success but I do not have a routine stack. We I do have stories to up my level. There are certain things I talk about that give me higher value but as far as a set routine I'm not that far. Just having fun and trying to do the best I can with what I got. Thank you for the response!!!

    Btw I do this to get phone numbers. I usually take a photo together then comment on the photo and then have them send it to me. Now I have there photo and number. ��Now its up to me To demonstrate my quality.

    Last edited by pornstar; 01-03-2017 at 04:19 PM.

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    Cassadon do you ONLY text logistics? Do you wait on texting from the initial meet. How do you handle this?


  5. #5
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    1. My questions are what a good first date? Im 1 hr in with this chick.
    Any place can work if you come in with great energy. Don't start with 'hows was your day' (boring!)....better to just come in and start talking about all the exciting things you have going on.

    2. How and when do I text her? Do I wait till a night I want to see her or do I text her and make plans? The irons hot and I don't care to fuck it up on my end. ����
    Ideally it doesnt sounds like a date, you invite her to something you are doing anyway. So if she shows great, and if she doesn't no big deal.....you were doing it anyway.

    3. Will texting normal conversation stuff with her kill my game? I do really enjoy talking to her but I don't want to ruin anything. Jamie prolly went over this in VIP but I forgot. ��
    You can't think that way man. You can't be concerned with 'messing it up.' Either way you ARE going to benefit. You'll either win or you will learn. Your attitude (as per Chris Lovedrop) needs to be "I know am going to get laid, it doesn't need to be by 'her' specifically. Focus on the process, not a specific outcome with a specific person.

    Jamie
    Director of Operations / Coach
    “Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own.”
    ― Bruce Lee
    “As one advances, one does not accumulate but eliminate. The height of cultivation is really nothing special. It is merely simplicity; the ability to express the utmost with the minimum. The more complicated and restricted the method, the less opportunity for expression of one’s original sense of freedom. Though they play an important role in the early stage, the techniques should not be too mechanical, complex, or restrictive. It we cling blindly to them, we shall eventually become bound by their limitations.” - also....Mr. Bruce Lee

  6. #6
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    So talking via text is cool as long as your energetic and engaging!! Good to know. I am learning so much Jamie. Im having a blast. I laugh at the rejection cause they are so programmed to act that way. I have learned not to personalize this. Thanks to this program and this forum.
    The quote "no one owes me anything" is what I live by. Its so fucking true. Nor do I owe anyone anything. There's beauty in freedom. ��

    Btw guys I have a wingman now. Fun times ahead.


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