What I haven't seen being discussed in PUA forums is the anxiety you experience in a set not by approaching but by escalating... It's too often that I experience that anxiety when I've made the contact with an HB and I want to escalate to a level good enough to achieve a *close. The really tough moment is when we have achieved a good connection and I find it time to move for the kiss or set the mood for it. How am I supposed to deal with that kind of anxiousness that has so many times ruined many of my really well set-up games.