Strange how for some men, their sex drive will force them to do better, because they NEED to, yet some are opposite!
Mystery would say to try not to touch yourself until you get a girl, because your natural sex drive and desire will push you more to get up, get out, and get working! Kind of unfortunate that it makes you angry though.
Maybe you need to try to transform it into drive! So instead of getting angry and frustrated, use it to force you to work harder and harder, and do better and better to really get those 8s and 9s!!
I CAN be what I WILL to be
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got