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    So...i dont really want to go into detail and i want to make this a general question . Anyways, what should you do if someone's (guy or girl) mad at you and has been calling you names recently? Like he/she not only give you the slient treament, but has been pretty hostile to you.

    From what i know, i am suppose to not care that much because it shows that I highly value the relationship right? Any other strategies or advice.

  • #2
    Ultimately, it depends on what you did to deserve it.

    An appropriate reaction depends a lot on context. Acting unaffected could be the absolute wrong thing to do. Doing nothing could allow your reputation to be tarnished, which could hurt you badly in the future.


    • #3
      If they are mad at you because you unintentionally hurt another person, or committed a serious social violation, then the gentlemanly, high-value thing to do is to apologize for your mistake, and move on.

      If they are mad at you because you deflated their ego or they're being petty/mean/antagonistic, then being nonreactional is often a good route. Take the high road.

      If you don't understand WHY they're mad at you, then you need to find out why they're feeling that way, then react appropriately.