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    how do guys on here approach strippers? i need full game reports as i am visiting a strip club next saturday and its my ambition to pick up a stripper in the club

  • #2
    If you haven't done it before, don't expect much. Strippers are HG's (Hired Guns) and hired gun gaming takes tight game.

    Some words of advice:

    1. Do NOT flirt with them, every AFC does that, they expect it, if you do, you will be BLOWN out.
    2. Realize that just about ALL of their IOI's are FALSE and designed to get into your WALLET not your pants. It's their job to make you think they like you so you'll give them a lot of money.
    3. Don't buy them drinks and don't buy dances. They will try like hell, even harder when you say you're not interested. As soon as you give in, they have stolen your frame and you're BLOWN out.

    Just go out and have fun. Having full game reports will do NOTHING for you, you can't simply regurgitate someone else's game and expect results, it won't be congruent with your personality/avatar and you WILL get BLOWN out.

    Make sure that you've read BOTH The Mystery Method and The Game by Neil Strauss but even then, HG gaming requires a LOT of in field experience and calibration.

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    • #3
      I havent personally pulled a HG, but here in miami its very possible and ive seen it happen. just like ^ said dont fall for IOI's, and most important get them out of stripper mode. Alot of them have routines and you have to shut it down and run the show(DHV up the ass). My friend is a natural and he bounces strippers all the time. Except hes more direct. When they approach him and start giving them IOI's he pushes them away and says some thing like

      "id love to talk to you but I dont plan on spending money so i really dont want to waste your time" and rolls off. He kind of makes them feel sorry and then starts running game. Im not saying this works now but for some reason he pulls it off all the time and hes not aware of MM. Man i hate him, lol

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      • #4
        In the mind of a stripper there are two types of men:
        1. Customers.
        2. Everyone else.

        The three most important things to keep in mind when gaming strippers are (in order):
        1. Strippers don’t go out with customers.
        2. Strippers don’t go out with CUSTOMERS.
        3. STRIPPERS DON’T GO OUT WITH DATE CUSTOMERS!!!

        If you spend any money on them in that venue, you are seen as a customer, so don’t do it. You can buy drinks for yourself, but if you buy her one, you become a customer. If you sit near the stage and give the girls dollars, you become a customer, and if you buy a lap dance, you become a customer……and guess what?…….strippers don’t go out with customers!

        Early in the interaction you want her to know that you are not a customer so she can put you in the “Everyone else” category. My favorite ways of doing this are to tell them that “I use to be a bouncer at a strip club”, and “My ex-girlfriend was a dancer”, which I say while I’m running routines on them. By saying this you become “stripper approved” in her mind because if another stripper dated you then you must be ok, but be alert for congruence tests. Keep in mind that if you pursue the “Strip Club Insider” approach, then you must call them “DANCERS”, because they never refer to themselves as “Strippers”.

        Always use an FTC, and have a reason for being there, like “I’m meeting someone, but if he’s not on time I have to leave because I have other friends waiting.” Or “I’m meeting a friend who is trying to get a job here.” Don’t stay more than one hour. (45min is best.)

        Palm reading is ok, but don’t touch the dancers in an intimate way, don’t trust any kino they give you, and don’t stare at they’re boobs. These girls are very sexual so doing a same night F*...close is possible if you can get them to leave the club, and the best time to do this is during the week, when things are slow. Weekends are they’re biggest money making opportunities, so if you’re gaming them on the weekend try doing it around closing time. Have fun!
        Last edited by Hugz; 01-20-2008, 03:00 PM.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by crazyoney2k View Post
          how do guys on here approach strippers? i need full game reports as i am visiting a strip club next saturday and its my ambition to pick up a stripper in the club

          Stripper game is very easy:

          Just act friendly and invite them to do some speedballs with you after work, and you're gold!

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          • #6
            Treat them like a hired gun just as Bang said.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by MachineElf View Post
              Stripper game is very easy:

              Just act friendly and invite them to do some speedballs with you after work, and you're gold!
              i LOL'd...

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              • #8
                Some good tips here guys.
                I especially like your post Hugz.
                Was at a couple different clubs last night with some friends and though we won't make a habit of it, I'll probably go again with some other friends in a couple week's time or so.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Hugz View Post
                  In the mind of a stripper there are two types of men:
                  1. Customers.
                  2. Everyone else.

                  The three most important things to keep in mind when gaming strippers are (in order):
                  1. Strippers don’t go out with customers.
                  2. Strippers don’t go out with CUSTOMERS.
                  3. STRIPPERS DON’T GO OUT WITH DATE CUSTOMERS!!!

                  If you spend any money on them in that venue, you are seen as a customer, so don’t do it. You can buy drinks for yourself, but if you buy her one, you become a customer. If you sit near the stage and give the girls dollars, you become a customer, and if you buy a lap dance, you become a customer……and guess what?…….strippers don’t go out with customers!

                  Early in the interaction you want her to know that you are not a customer so she can put you in the “Everyone else” category. My favorite ways of doing this are to tell them that “I use to be a bouncer at a strip club”, and “My ex-girlfriend was a dancer”, which I say while I’m running routines on them. By saying this you become “stripper approved” in her mind because if another stripper dated you then you must be ok, but be alert for congruence tests. Keep in mind that if you pursue the “Strip Club Insider” approach, then you must call them “DANCERS”, because they never refer to themselves as “Strippers”.

                  Always use an FTC, and have a reason for being there, like “I’m meeting someone, but if he’s not on time I have to leave because I have other friends waiting.” Or “I’m meeting a friend who is trying to get a job here.” Don’t stay more than one hour. (45min is best.)

                  Palm reading is ok, but don’t touch the dancers in an intimate way, don’t trust any kino they give you, and don’t stare at they’re boobs. These girls are very sexual so doing a same night F*...close is possible if you can get them to leave the club, and the best time to do this is during the week, when things are slow. Weekends are they’re biggest money making opportunities, so if you’re gaming them on the weekend try doing it around closing time. Have fun!
                  This is pretty much spot on. I do have 1 friend that pulls strippers a lot and actually boned one in VIP due to his spending copious cash and acting all cocky. But he is very wealthy and can pull off the "Pretty Woman" thing.

                  You have to be loaded to pull this routine though. He thinks nothing of spending $700 a pop.

                  Good blow works too but I don't condone that and it's not PU so I'm not going to discuss it here. That approach is kind of a no brainer.

                  For a PUA you want to come off as Donald Trump or as a bad boy and since most of us lack the funds to do the Trump thing the bad boy thing is your best bet. Aside from that follow the advise in the quote.

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                  • #10
                    OK, maybe I just need to try again. I've been to these clubs and a number of times I've done [I]almost exactly[/I] what Hugz and JS have described...minus the getting invited somewhere or sex later. Dammit! I always called them dancers, many times I wasn't a customer (waiting for a friend who was, big-time), I talk to them with genuine interest (the interesting ones at least). I would have had to lie to claim "stripper approved" status, so I never did.

                    Oh, shit! What about paying the cover charge? doesn't that make me a customer?

                    StuckInC2 gave an example of what his friend said, but Johnny, what did you tell them when you didn't want a dance? or were you (always) a customer and pulled them anyway?

                    (Johnny, I can see how you can have such a good attitude if you've been doing this since you were 20! OK, I know it's more than just that, there are other areas of your life that you have developed, but they all connect. And I don't know of anyone successful in most other areas except sex who is happy and self-satisfied (oh, maybe Christians because they have The Lord and therefore might not be as interested in sex)).

                    Originally posted by The Sheriff View Post
                    This is pretty much spot on. I do have 1 friend that pulls strippers a lot and actually boned one in VIP due to his spending copious cash and acting all cocky. But he is very wealthy and can pull off the "Pretty Woman" thing.
                    I thought the saying was, "There is NO sex in the VIP room."

                    -sK

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                    • #11
                      Probably not worth wasting time, but if you insist... just remember after reading what everyone says here there is no such thing as an ABSOLUTE NO. I would actually wager that most guys who have successfully gamed strippers had built a relationship with them over many months of being a customer or frequent visitor to the club. Pulling a stripper for a ONS at your first time at the club? Sorry buddy, most likely not gonna happen. Take this with a grain of salt as I don't know enough of them for it to be meaningful statistically, but of the very few people I know who have taken down a stripper, all purchased a dance from her.

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                      • #12
                        SpecialK, it all depends on the place and girl. Here in the Detroit area we get away with a lot. Most of the girls I have been in VIP let me do pretty much what ever I want. My boy is a lawyer and makes over 500K per year so he is playing a different game. But ya many will sell you whatever you are willing to pay for.

                        But that isn't PU. If you are talking gaming them that's something else. To straight up game them you have to have your shit together.

                        Go on a slow night. If you go when they are busy they won't be able to chat with you.

                        Make up a story that makes you stripper approved - just do it.

                        When they ask for a dance, smile as if they are cute little things and you are amused by the notion of you paying them to dance for you. Tell them you are there for xyz. Tell them to come back and chat if they aren't busy.

                        Then when they do DHV like a SOB - just don't make it obvious. From there on in it's going to be pretty much MM by the book. Know your stuff.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by specialK View Post
                          Oh, shit! What about paying the cover charge? doesn't that make me a customer?
                          Not in the eyes of the dancers.

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                          • #14
                            there are two schools of thought regarding strippers and tipping:
                            1) don't give strippers any money. it's dlv in their eyes
                            2) treat a stripper like any other working employee. create your own types of dhv with them

                            I tend to stick to #2

                            I can use the "I used to date a dancer" statement legitimately 20 times over and can shape it to any situation that happens while she is on stage. if i tip her a dollar, and just seem chatty but interesting, she'll approach me later to find out more about me. And when I tip, I ALWAYS look a dancer in the eye! I don't stare anywhere else.


                            If you don't tip them on stage, a lot of these girls have no reason to approach your table other than to ask for a dance. (i.e your money)

                            Even though they are HGs, they lose money by sitting with you, and by you being in the club and not spending money there, you can gain the wrong type of reputation . you wouldn't go to Las Vegas and spend hours in a casino NOT gambling.


                            table dances and drinks are strip club currency. this is a different environment from regular nightclubs. buy a table dance for someone else from this girl. if you appear disinterested in her sexually, she becomes more intrigued. and she will want to know more about you.

                            my .02

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