I'm glad I was helpful to you. But you need to understand something. I did try to write that in a humorous way, and I'm glad you found it funny, but you gotta know brother; that it is neither unrealistic, nor absurd. Not in the least. That is for real. It is for real for lots and lots of people. It's not just some cool, bad ass secret thing I got going on, it's the way it is for anyone that knows how to have a healthy sexual relationship. I encourage anyone on here to back me up on this to show Darwin how true it is. I'll tell you what though, those cats that think women are just sex objects don't get to have that. Which would you rather have, a few drunken' guaranteed one nighters, or a lot of wildly passionate experiences for the sexes. Hell, I'm in Iraq right now, and when I masturbate I don't need porn, cause I got memories that are far superior to anything in a movie (mostly cause I was there).
Sex is fun, that's why it's not degrading, why would something everyone wants to do be bad? Your head must be to locked into this idea that if a woman has sex she's a slut, and should be ashamed of her self, so you don't want to take her innocence. But it's not true, they like it too, and they should, its fun!
Here's an example. I'm in Iraq and I was having an email conversation with one of my girlfriends about staying at a hotel when I get back, and I said I didn't want to lock myself in a hotel the whole time because at some point I'm going to want to treat her like a lady, and there will be none of that in a hotel room (remember, this is a playful conversation. Were just joking around). Her reply was: “I want a hotel! Treat me like a lady when we are around your family. When we are in our room, let me act like a slut.” And this girl is so classy you would be shocked to know she said that. Getting the idea yet?
Another thing, reading books is all fine and dandy, I encourage you to read, and read a lot. But you gotta get out their man. You won't meet a girl in a book. Go to a party, hang out with your friends, pay attention to yourself, and keep your eyes open. This is where you will do the most leaning. Forget about game for a little while, it'll cause you to over think. Lots of people get laid without it. Just go out and build your social intelligence, be around people, be fun, be nice, be interesting, BE AWESOME, and be awesome to everyone. You'll get a girl tonight. But you'll never get one if you don't go out. Learn from the field, that's where the game is played. You can't stay in the locker room and read the play book all season and expect to win the super bowl. Go out there, go and fail, fail a lot (every no brings you closer to a yes). Get rejected, get so close and loose it, get to second base on a beer soaked couch only to have her never call you back. But also succeed, Call that girl that was following you around all night, bang some cougars, prematurely ejaculate. HAVE FUN!!! I love you man, you'll do great, just stop thinking about it, throw caush into the wind. Put on your armor and go to battle! With this advice I swear you will slay the dragon. Then...after that, hone your game razor sharp...and be dangerous. In no time my friend, you will be...a pick up artist.
I think I want to become an instructor
BTW, what happened to easyvibe? Did he give up on his own thread? Did he not get as much support as he thought he would?