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05-28-2007, 11:50 AM
I've noticed some people aren't aware of what The Cube is, and I'm sure some people would like to get a clearer description of it. I'll detail the stages that you need to know as a PUA, and give some examples of a girl's answers, and how they can be translated. If anyone else has anything to add, please do, and we can make this a source of reference for the routine.
Secrets of the Cube, author: Annie Gottlieb
Most people have heard about it from Neil Strauss' book The Game, and indeed The Cube is one of the most utilized cold-reading techniques in the community. It is a series of questions that allows you to tell a girl a hell of a lot about herself. It's proven to be accurate and is an accepted psychological technique, but you don't need to read the book to learn it, just this post :P The only things you need to know are the 5 main headings and their sub-questions, and you can bullshit the interpretations (in fact that's exactly what you should do to achieve best results). Best used in isolation and during comfort, ask the girl first if she is intuitive (able to allow her mind to settle on something immediately, as you only need a basic intuition here), and use an example if she is unsure as to the meaning of this word: 'For example, if I was to say 'red letterbox', what's the first image that comes to your mind? And you should also be able to hone in on finer details of that image, without changing the original image at all, such as the scenery around the letterbox, correct?', and also ask her if she has a good imagination. She will reply in the affirmative, it just means she is now ready to use that imagination. Here's the routine:-
1) Imagine you are driving through a desert, and you see a cube
Allow her a moment to picture this, then ask these questions one at a time, not all at once!
a - What size is the cube?
b - What colour is it?
c - What is it made of? Can you see through it or not?
d - Is it on the ground or floating?
e - Where is the cube in relation to you?
Answers and interpretations:
The cube relates to her interpretation of herself, and reflects her ego.
a - It's pretty big / it's fairly small Ask them how big, or how small first, ask them to compare it to something else so you have an idea. Generally big will mean she has a big ego, but you can make this sound good by saying it also shows she is able to fend for herself and stand up for herself when she needs to. She doesn't feel the need to rely on others. A small cube likewise refers to a small ego and insecurity, but saying this may not be appreciated. So also/or say something along the lines of 'a small cube indicates that you are a very self-sufficient girl, that you don't require all the attention and glamour that louder girls require.
b - blue/red/yellow Colours are very simple to cover. A bright colour will suggest that she is happy, energetic, and easy-to-befriend (also outgoing if she had a big cube), whereas colours such as blue and green will suggest that she is natural, down-to-earth, and enjoys time spent with friends. Don't say blue means she is a dull, boring, depressed person, but if you sense she genuinely is depressed, then you can say that it indicates this. Basic truisms all the way through!
c - Glass and can be seen through / Thick plastic and can't be seen through. Material isn't all that important, except that it can reflect 'how fragile or strong' her current mentality is. If it's see-through, then she is able to be read easily by people when they meet, as she doesn't feel the need to keep up a constant guard or act like someone she isn't. If it isn't see-through, she has aspects of herself that she doesn't reveal to anyone but those she feels closest to, and that she has quite a few secrets. (who doesn't?)
d - On the ground / It's floating You should comment that a levitating cube shows she feels ‘above and beyond’ her surroundings. It indicates a strong will and reserve of confidence that can be tapped into when she needs to or feels pressured. A cube on the ground shows she is very aware of her surroundings, and is quite literally ‘sure-footed’. You are just conveying the same things here, so long as they are congruent with previous reads. If you have already told her she isn’t confident, then don’t contradict yourself here, instead tell her that a floating cube would indicate she isn’t sure of her current situation, and hasn’t yet become adjusted with a current situation well enough to be able to walk through life 100% comfortably. Likewise, a grounded cube should be described as just that. ’You feel grounded in a current situation.’
e – nearby / on the horizon / in the mid-ground The cube’s location to herself, literally shows how ‘connected’ she feels to herself right now. Cube far away – she feels disconnected, occasionally feels as though she is just drifting through life. Cube close – she feels very aware of herself, often taking control of situations quickly when they involve her personal affairs.
2) Now we are going to add a ladder to the scene
Allow her time to picture this, then ask the following questions:
a – Where is the ladder in relation to the cube?
b – What position is it in? (flat on the ground/leaning/vertical etc)
c – What is it made of? Is it in good condition?
Answers and interpretations:
The cube represents her aspirations, some people like to say it represents her friends. You can use either, so long as you make it believable.
a + b – Near the cube / far from the cube / under the cube / on top of the cube / leaning on the cube Most of the time questions ‘a’ and ‘b’ are answered as one. A ladder near the cube shows she feels that her aspirations are close to her heart, she takes them seriously. Far from the cube shows she ‘isn’t yet thinking about her aspirations, and is putting them on hold.’ Do not say she is failing in life and her aspirations are out of reach! Just a temporary barrier is preventing her from continuing up her ladder at the moment. This can easily be explained as ‘school/college/uni is currently taking precedence, and this is ‘very common amongst students.’ If she has a child, then that is also a perfectly good explanation. If her ladder is vertical, she is looking to climb it, if it is horizontal, she is happy where she is ‘at the moment’, but may be considering setting it up again soon to continue ascending. If it is under her cube, she is feeling ‘on top and in charge of her aspirations’, if it is on top of her cube, she occasionally feels overwhelmed by the goals and aspirations she sets herself or wishes to achieve. If the ladder is leaning on her cube, ask her how high it reaches. All the way up suggests her aspirations and goals are at an achievable level, where as half way up suggests she is not setting them high enough and that she probably isn’t working very hard on them moment. Of course this may be a temporary lull as she has other things that require her attention first (school etc).
c – Wood / Metal. Good condition / Poor condition Personally I don’t ask the ‘what is it made of’ question, as I believe it will made of whatever material they generally associate ladders to be made of. But it is said to represent how stable their career and goal aspirations are. Metal ladders are better signs than wood. Wood is not a bad sign so long as it is in good condition, but metal is better. The condition of the ladder represents the same thing, and how they currently feel about their aspirations. Good condition – progressing well, optimistic about their ascent. Poor condition – finding it difficult to achieve her goals, and difficult to fond a way up in her career path / aspirations.
Secrets of the Cube, author: Annie Gottlieb
Most people have heard about it from Neil Strauss' book The Game, and indeed The Cube is one of the most utilized cold-reading techniques in the community. It is a series of questions that allows you to tell a girl a hell of a lot about herself. It's proven to be accurate and is an accepted psychological technique, but you don't need to read the book to learn it, just this post :P The only things you need to know are the 5 main headings and their sub-questions, and you can bullshit the interpretations (in fact that's exactly what you should do to achieve best results). Best used in isolation and during comfort, ask the girl first if she is intuitive (able to allow her mind to settle on something immediately, as you only need a basic intuition here), and use an example if she is unsure as to the meaning of this word: 'For example, if I was to say 'red letterbox', what's the first image that comes to your mind? And you should also be able to hone in on finer details of that image, without changing the original image at all, such as the scenery around the letterbox, correct?', and also ask her if she has a good imagination. She will reply in the affirmative, it just means she is now ready to use that imagination. Here's the routine:-
1) Imagine you are driving through a desert, and you see a cube
Allow her a moment to picture this, then ask these questions one at a time, not all at once!
a - What size is the cube?
b - What colour is it?
c - What is it made of? Can you see through it or not?
d - Is it on the ground or floating?
e - Where is the cube in relation to you?
Answers and interpretations:
The cube relates to her interpretation of herself, and reflects her ego.
a - It's pretty big / it's fairly small Ask them how big, or how small first, ask them to compare it to something else so you have an idea. Generally big will mean she has a big ego, but you can make this sound good by saying it also shows she is able to fend for herself and stand up for herself when she needs to. She doesn't feel the need to rely on others. A small cube likewise refers to a small ego and insecurity, but saying this may not be appreciated. So also/or say something along the lines of 'a small cube indicates that you are a very self-sufficient girl, that you don't require all the attention and glamour that louder girls require.
b - blue/red/yellow Colours are very simple to cover. A bright colour will suggest that she is happy, energetic, and easy-to-befriend (also outgoing if she had a big cube), whereas colours such as blue and green will suggest that she is natural, down-to-earth, and enjoys time spent with friends. Don't say blue means she is a dull, boring, depressed person, but if you sense she genuinely is depressed, then you can say that it indicates this. Basic truisms all the way through!
c - Glass and can be seen through / Thick plastic and can't be seen through. Material isn't all that important, except that it can reflect 'how fragile or strong' her current mentality is. If it's see-through, then she is able to be read easily by people when they meet, as she doesn't feel the need to keep up a constant guard or act like someone she isn't. If it isn't see-through, she has aspects of herself that she doesn't reveal to anyone but those she feels closest to, and that she has quite a few secrets. (who doesn't?)
d - On the ground / It's floating You should comment that a levitating cube shows she feels ‘above and beyond’ her surroundings. It indicates a strong will and reserve of confidence that can be tapped into when she needs to or feels pressured. A cube on the ground shows she is very aware of her surroundings, and is quite literally ‘sure-footed’. You are just conveying the same things here, so long as they are congruent with previous reads. If you have already told her she isn’t confident, then don’t contradict yourself here, instead tell her that a floating cube would indicate she isn’t sure of her current situation, and hasn’t yet become adjusted with a current situation well enough to be able to walk through life 100% comfortably. Likewise, a grounded cube should be described as just that. ’You feel grounded in a current situation.’
e – nearby / on the horizon / in the mid-ground The cube’s location to herself, literally shows how ‘connected’ she feels to herself right now. Cube far away – she feels disconnected, occasionally feels as though she is just drifting through life. Cube close – she feels very aware of herself, often taking control of situations quickly when they involve her personal affairs.
2) Now we are going to add a ladder to the scene
Allow her time to picture this, then ask the following questions:
a – Where is the ladder in relation to the cube?
b – What position is it in? (flat on the ground/leaning/vertical etc)
c – What is it made of? Is it in good condition?
Answers and interpretations:
The cube represents her aspirations, some people like to say it represents her friends. You can use either, so long as you make it believable.
a + b – Near the cube / far from the cube / under the cube / on top of the cube / leaning on the cube Most of the time questions ‘a’ and ‘b’ are answered as one. A ladder near the cube shows she feels that her aspirations are close to her heart, she takes them seriously. Far from the cube shows she ‘isn’t yet thinking about her aspirations, and is putting them on hold.’ Do not say she is failing in life and her aspirations are out of reach! Just a temporary barrier is preventing her from continuing up her ladder at the moment. This can easily be explained as ‘school/college/uni is currently taking precedence, and this is ‘very common amongst students.’ If she has a child, then that is also a perfectly good explanation. If her ladder is vertical, she is looking to climb it, if it is horizontal, she is happy where she is ‘at the moment’, but may be considering setting it up again soon to continue ascending. If it is under her cube, she is feeling ‘on top and in charge of her aspirations’, if it is on top of her cube, she occasionally feels overwhelmed by the goals and aspirations she sets herself or wishes to achieve. If the ladder is leaning on her cube, ask her how high it reaches. All the way up suggests her aspirations and goals are at an achievable level, where as half way up suggests she is not setting them high enough and that she probably isn’t working very hard on them moment. Of course this may be a temporary lull as she has other things that require her attention first (school etc).
c – Wood / Metal. Good condition / Poor condition Personally I don’t ask the ‘what is it made of’ question, as I believe it will made of whatever material they generally associate ladders to be made of. But it is said to represent how stable their career and goal aspirations are. Metal ladders are better signs than wood. Wood is not a bad sign so long as it is in good condition, but metal is better. The condition of the ladder represents the same thing, and how they currently feel about their aspirations. Good condition – progressing well, optimistic about their ascent. Poor condition – finding it difficult to achieve her goals, and difficult to fond a way up in her career path / aspirations.