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03-25-2008, 12:07 PM
I met a girl in florida over the internet a long time ago.
i went to go visit the girl this march while i was in her city for a few days the other day. she is a really nice , sweet, caring, really cute / hot kind of girl.
she always has something to say or ask, and the whole time she would show me major IOI's, rubbing my leg and asking me things about myself that i wouldn't really answer :rolleyes:
but eventually, after the second night of hanging out with her, i fucked her.
i had to. it was too hard not to. and usually after having sex with girls i don't care as much and its perfect, but not in this case. this girl seriously has my heart right now, maybe it's the way she is so kind? maybe it's the distance thing and i want it because i can't have it? maybe it's the way she .. uhhh, yeah. i don't know but it's driving me insane because i live in eastern canada currently, i'm moving to toronto in the summer, but there's absolutely NO
way of having a relationship right?
why am i posting this? because i want to know what you would do in this situation
i want a relationship with this girl.
what do i do

Cro
03-25-2008, 03:34 PM
Face up to reality, you said it yourself, this won't work.

Long distance, not worth it. Either one or both will cheat eventually.

Decibel
03-25-2008, 04:12 PM
I would get in my car, start driving to where she lives, and sarge every girl I met in between. Then half way across the country, I would realize that the girl isn't all that special, turn around, and come home.

azazels_wolf
03-25-2008, 10:52 PM
Other than moving (which would be dumb to do so early on), all you can do is keep in touch as much as you can, and visit each other as frequently as possible.

You can keep the emotional connection going over the distance if you two are both intent on doing that. Communication is key. If you two find that it's really working over the long-term, bigger steps can be taken. But for now, keep in touch, try to schedule another meet-up, even if it's weeks or months down the line, and see what happens. Just take this one step at a time. Even if you never get into a true LTR, she could become a long-term f-buddy who is there for you every time you visit her area.