View Full Version : The community is waaay too big
Ok guys i'm in this community for almost two years now and it really changed my life and it should be tought to all the nice guys out there.
The thing is, the community is so big that overused oppeners are not our major proplem anymore. Now they are shit tests like "Oh not those weird questions again..." and "are you like mystery?"
Its good that the community is growing but it should be taken out of the media or else,there will be a point that we will be just like other guys again...
Please tell me i'm wrong
drpua
03-17-2008, 03:07 PM
Oh my fucking god. Another one of these threads and i swear..... Stop panicking man, just because woman know that "game" exists does'nt mean they don't want to be fucked/dated/talked to/interacted with. Be a man don't be a pussy. Since the beginning of men there have been many beta males and few alphas, and with that talk you're beginning to drift towards betaness, so snap out of it grow cojones get a solid frame and go out there and make me proud GODAMIT!!!!
Nuff said~!!!!
ratisse
03-17-2008, 03:08 PM
u r wrong....I welcome these things.
5 weeks ago I wore a pimp hat just like mystery's and welcomed the challenge.
I was called out 13 times but I didn't let it stop me. I wound up by the end of the night almost pulling one chick and fingering another in a park.
Tks guys, i'm not freaking out it was just some thoughts i had that i wanned to discuss about i know a difference between beta and alpha males and o lot of guya don't belive on methods and stuff, but what if a hb 10 says to you "oh... not one of those mystery's guys again, you should be more creative..."
This has been a constant topic of fear and dread since the VH1 show aired...seriously dudes - the Game didn't die back then, and it sure as hell isn't gonna start anytime soon. This is about attracting women, flicking her pre-wired attraction switches!! No amount of "uncovering" the community will really affect that - all it means is we have to all be smart enough to evolve our own Games that are congruent with who we are, and avoid being a social robot. Stop pissing your pants every time you get called out...if you get called out, it's either because you're quoting verbatim from the books (thus you're not congruent with your material at all), or it sounds too similar - don't be afraid to be your own person!!!
Tks guys, i'm not freaking out it was just some thoughts i had that i wanned to discuss about i know a difference between beta and alpha males and o lot of guya don't belive on methods and stuff, but what if a hb 10 says to you "oh... not one of those mystery's guys again, you should be more creative..."
Then, simply put, you should be more creative! :)
Decibel
03-17-2008, 07:52 PM
Hmmm, 1000+ sets later and I'm still waiting to be seriously called out on this. One girl asked me about The Game, and I acted like she was nuts and she apologized for even bringing it up...and that was the extent of that. Be congruent and anything'll fly.
azazels_wolf
03-17-2008, 11:30 PM
You want to get over your fear of this?
Open 100 sets with "So, did you ever see that Pickup Artist show on VH1?"
EVEN THEN, if you're congruent and have game, you WILL attract the girl.
who cares, your still better then most guys out there, don't worry, be alpha, be a MAN! Next time someone asks you or calls you out just ignore it and go with it
checkers
03-18-2008, 12:15 PM
I've been called out a few times about being a pua and I tell them that I am. Then I keep plugging away. Who cares if you get called out. If your worried about potentially being called out you might as well not even go out and sarge man. Thats like saying that you won't drive to the mall because you might get into an accident.
Plus, whats the fun without a little "risk" in ones life right?
you can stop viewing them as shit tests and see that she is "calling you out" because she is liking you and wants to see if you are a real man
alternatively you can drop all the canned game and go natural and not worry about being called out
Decibel
03-19-2008, 05:02 PM
I've been called out a few times about being a pua
Yeap, if you sarge with goggles on your hat, you're bound to get called out!! Like checkers said, just stand your ground.
TKDLover79
03-20-2008, 08:33 AM
Being called a pua sure beats being called an afc
Fortunehooks
03-20-2008, 10:33 AM
I am with wolf on this one, you can go straight for what they think they know, and proceed from there. Personally, I don't think the community is getting bigger at all. There are over about 6b of people in the world, and I with my math, I think there is a couple of chicks who may not have heard a thing about mystery method.
Vedran
03-23-2008, 07:15 PM
I find that people who are afraid of the community getting too big are usually those that are AFC's.
girlinnyc21
03-29-2008, 09:07 PM
Oh my fucking god. Another one of these threads and i swear..... Stop panicking man, just because woman know that "game" exists does'nt mean they don't want to be fucked/dated/talked to/interacted with. Be a man don't be a pussy. Since the beginning of men there have been many beta males and few alphas, and with that talk you're beginning to drift towards betaness, so snap out of it grow cojones get a solid frame and go out there and make me proud GODAMIT!!!!
Nuff said~!!!!
So if two PUAs or TWO THOUSNAD puas want your girl, it's the same thing? If women always wanted to be fucked, why did guys ever fail and wind up here? Women were having sex while they were failing.
People still win at Blackjack. Does that mean card-counting still works?
The bottom line is simple: if you didn't invent it, it wasn't yours to keep secret, and if you got in on the secret before it was overexposed, you were lucky.
Even if everyone playing a game of musical chairs gets "cjoones" to compete, someone's going to be left standing when the music stops.
It's a tougher game now, it'll never be as easy as it was, but it's easier now than it will be in the future.
girlinnyc21
03-29-2008, 09:10 PM
Oh my fucking god. Another one of these threads and i swear..... Stop panicking man, just because woman know that "game" exists does'nt mean they don't want to be fucked/dated/talked to/interacted with. Be a man don't be a pussy. Since the beginning of men there have been many beta males and few alphas, and with that talk you're beginning to drift towards betaness, so snap out of it grow cojones get a solid frame and go out there and make me proud GODAMIT!!!!
Nuff said~!!!!
This has been a constant topic of fear and dread since the VH1 show aired...seriously dudes - the Game didn't die back then, and it sure as hell isn't gonna start anytime soon. This is about attracting women, flicking her pre-wired attraction switches!! No amount of "uncovering" the community will really affect that - all it means is we have to all be smart enough to evolve our own Games that are congruent with who we are, and avoid being a social robot. Stop pissing your pants every time you get called out...if you get called out, it's either because you're quoting verbatim from the books (thus you're not congruent with your material at all), or it sounds too similar - don't be afraid to be your own person!!!
How do you get her if the PUA who got her before you already flipped those switches?
One of the switches is originality, and if she learns you aren't original, the switch is UNFLIPPED.
Another switch is thinking you mean what you say and aren't using routines. Learning where you got your game unflips yet another switch.
A lack oif guys calling her on her shit causes you to flip a switch when you do it...until other guys do it and unflip the switch, etc.
girlinnyc21
03-29-2008, 09:12 PM
I find that people who are afraid of the community getting too big are usually those that are AFC's.
if they know the material enough to call you out on it, why aren't they already with the PUAs who used it on them before? Did those guys fail or something?
Argo navis
03-30-2008, 03:49 AM
girlinnyc, I truely think you're missing something here : while agree on originality and stuff - women are HARDWIRED to respond to some things, just as men.
Conscious thought only goes that far in that regard, that's why frame/inner game are so important. Do you select mates more based on the words they say, or on something else?
BishopDon
03-31-2008, 08:04 AM
you're so called 'game' is mainly inside and is who you are not what you say
Chesco
04-05-2008, 01:48 PM
Im new to the Game, but agree to your concerns. I think in order to keep the community legit, ppl should understand the concepts and come up with our own material so we are and sound original and as individual PUA's.
Also, by consistantly sharing techniques, storys and lines, we can keep evolving our game at such speeds where woman we p/u in the future will never hear the old lines come out of our mouths as we only use the fresh-newly created ones.
Chesco
04-05-2008, 01:51 PM
I find that people who are afraid of the community getting too big are usually those that are AFC's.
lmao!...........
nanoelite007
04-10-2008, 09:47 AM
wow dude.. i hear this shit way too oftne. read badboys book.. i recomend it to everyone.. canned shit is the problem and we all know it.. so fucken get your ass into gear and make your own shit.. dont live in the shadow of sucsess.. the bet game is played on a whim and spontaniously. i got a copy of Badboys book if you would like for me to give you a few pages then buy it yourself
-TruTh-
04-10-2008, 02:37 PM
Who cares community has 75,000 people out of what 16billion?? jeez
checkers
04-11-2008, 09:38 PM
Look at it this way...
Mystery, Style, and all the other gurus out there ARE naturals. The difference is that they market their material and sell it to you guys. Mystery himself said that the routines in the book are to get you started. Guys, you seriously need to work on your own material, and if you're getting called out it's because you do the same things over, and over, and over, and over... Yes, a strong re-frame will get you out of jail, but once that same material is gone you'll be stuck out in the wind and going home alone.
Take the TEMPLATE of a routine and make your own. Don't open with "hey guys, I just gotta second but..." anymore, and figure some stuff out yourself. Since joining the community in January, I've gone cold turkey from routines and routine stacking simply because it was boring. Did I see a slump in my success rate after I did that? Sure, however...
Not only am I socializing better once the converstaition seems to slow down, but I can use the same routines you guys get called out on and they won't be none the wiser because its just another part of a great conversation that we're having. Run routines as little games!
I'll eventually write some kind of thing on this but for now, take ONE routine that everyone does, take the template, and change it. It will get the same results, and you won't be known as a social robot. My wingman uses the same X ammount of routines over and over and people who frequent the same venues say that he just says the same stuff over and over. Me, I never get that, nor do I ever get called a "pickup guy" (unless I wear the goggles =-P ).
Be creative, be origional, and be yourself. Be your best self guys.
BishopDon
04-12-2008, 10:53 AM
Mystery, Style, and all the other gurus out there ARE naturals
No there aren't. Guys like Zan and Brent are naturals. Just because someone is (or says they are) a guru doesn't mean they are a natural.
-TruTh-
04-12-2008, 11:36 AM
No there aren't. Guys like Zan and Brent are naturals. Just because someone is (or says they are) a guru doesn't mean they are a natural.
Agreed Mystery spent 10years cold approaches. Neil is like a Mystery Greatist hit and so fourth. A natural is a guy who is successful just by himself.
Seduction
04-13-2008, 04:22 PM
HAHA. The funny part is that where I'm from, no one knows about the community.
My friends, you're welcome anyday to pick-up women here. Even with the jealous girlfriend opener :)
-TruTh-
04-13-2008, 04:31 PM
HAHA. The funny part is that where I'm from, no one knows about the community.
My friends, you're welcome anyday to pick-up women here. Even with the jealous girlfriend opener :)
Your in Finland I doubt you even need tight game everyone knows european chicks are less bitchy then Americans.
Espio
04-14-2008, 08:28 AM
This is starting to feel like an arms race. Us trying to come up with new shit vs ppl catching on.
-TruTh-
04-14-2008, 10:59 AM
Lol shouldn't PUA should already be themselves at all times lol.
Your in Finland I doubt you even need tight game everyone knows european chicks are less bitchy then Americans.
I'm sure they are not as bitchy as the brazilian chicks we have here, i don't know why they have such a "whore" reputation
checkers
05-05-2008, 12:42 PM
No there aren't. Guys like Zan and Brent are naturals. Just because someone is (or says they are) a guru doesn't mean they are a natural.
Mystery created this stuff from his testing and theorizing, therefore, he came up with it and it's natural for him to use it. He could have been amazing with women and not told anyone how he did it, and guess what, people would call him a natural.
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