the perfect blowjob, from a guy's point of veiw

[Lea]

i was just wondering what it's like from the other end. i hope it's not weird to ask. :rolleyes: b/c i actually never thought about what it's like for a guy to go down on a girl and those threads were pretty interesting.

[CrimsonKing]

I'll tackle this one.

The perfect blowjob in my opinion has to take in a lot of factors. A girl's mouth should be big enough so that you NEVER feel her teeth. She should have nice, full lips and a decently long tongue for teasing. It's good to have a little teasing with the tongue and lips to get things up and running, and then move into long deep strokes with the mouth (the deeper the better in my opinion) with one hand stroking what isn't covered by the mouth. I find a combination of mouth and hands are fantastic. She can pause every now and then to catch her breath and tease with her tongue to draw things out. When I'm getting close, she should speed up and continue until I'm done. The strokes will tend to get shallow when this happens, but still, the deeper the better. I personally don't care if the girl spits or swallows, but it's just better if she at least takes it in the mouth.

Hope that helps. ;)

[JohnJohnJohnson]

The ideal girl has a lot of saliva. I did not realize this until I compared notes with other girls who have blown me. The best one I've ever had, in retrospect, yes she always had a lot of spit. I remember because when she was making out with me and she was on top, there was a lot of spit coming down.

She also either has a mouth organized to avoid biting, OR enough experience not to tooth me. Ever.

Those are just the fundamentals. Most guys will agree with any of the above.

Here's something you also need to know for general purposes: depending on the guy, the penis (the tip especially) can get VERY VERY sensitive directly after cumming. That means you have got to be extremely gentle after ejaculation, possibly even during ejaculation. Don't just go licking at it if you're not sure it's okay. In my case, once I am cumming, it feels way better if the girl is not going hard and fast, but rather soft and fast.

All of the above is basic shit you need to know in general.
• Wet mouth
• No teeth
• Some guys have sensitive cocks after cumming

In addition, I will explain below how I personally like blowjobs. This is useful because it helps you see different perspectives.

A full blowjob is unfortunately incomparable to a partial blowjob (where I do not cum in the girl's mouth, but rather in her hand or in my own). A partial blowjob is USEFUL as a way to turn me on prior to sex but that is all. It's not memorable. Those last few seconds of stimulation on the other hand ...

Now I'm a huge fan of blowjobs. I wasn't much of a fan at all, until a girl finally kept me in her mouth while I was cumming. Those orgasms sometimes are retarded. I've had all of my body shudder, and other cool shit, from the intensity. Which for some reason I just cannot get from masturbation.

I don't care that a girl spits. I'm not trying to feed her and she won't have cum breath from her throat.

The best ones are where the girl takes genuine pleasure in sucking on my dick. I've had girls tell me no one takes pleasure in that, but later I found out that they were just saying that because the idea of a girl out there who actually enjoyed giving head was threatening to their sexual confidence. These top ones I'm talking about are caring, giving, affectionate blowjobs. (They can be fast or slow).

I have found that while the hand is useful for a girl who is not doing very well with her mouth, because she can control the penis more easily with her fist, the really skilled ones just use their mouth alone. Place their hands on my ass, press me against them, also pressing my cock into their mouth. Sometimes the girl does it in such a way that I can feel her tits against my thighs or balls - that is hawt. I like to feel her breasts while she's doing it.

[El Diablo]

I had a great one last week, and I'll try to think what made it great:

She was on her back, and I just moved up to her face. She took my penis in one hand, and spent a lot of time licking and putting the head in her mouth. She had this great technique for licking, she would do the sides, always moving her tongue.

A lot of the greatness, honestly, was her looking up at me (she was a young Japanese woman, whose eyes during a bj are intoxicating at some deep level!). She would look at her work, then look up at me, it gave me chills.

Soon she was putting more in, a little deeper, but by that time I was all buttered up and it was great.

Her technique wasn't so special, I think, and the licking isn't terribly difficult. It was more about timing, and a certain eagerness-to-please she seemed to have.


One thing she didn't do that others do is to cup the balls, and occasionally give them a little squeeze. It's scary for a guy (balls = life), but when you see you can trust her, it's ecstatic. The fear is part of the fun, as long as there's no actual pain.

And no damn teeth!!

[Mild_Seven]

Lea, don't guys TELL you how to do it and TELL you what feels good? If a girl of mine doesn't know how to do it, I teach her.

Well, I'm a minimalist and I like a simple hand-mouth combination, with both moving together at the same tempo.

Everything beyond that can only be taught in-field!!

[junkyfungus]

Tell you what Lea, for the sake of helping you out I'll go ahead and take one for the team and personally be willing to let you practice on me till you get it just right. :p Remember I'm only trying to help you out here.

[CarltonBanks]

Some girls like to start off slowly into it as I assume the way they like their own pussy eaten---that's cool, especially if I'm starting out completely limp and she's making me hard. A good thing to do is LIGHTLY suck on the balls. Let me emphasize that again...LIGHTLY suck. Let me say that again in a different way--suck LIGHTLY on the balls. Let him feel the warm and wet of your mouth on each ball with a slight pucker as you move on.

While she's still moving slowly, I think a highly skilled girl (and I mean like 5th degree blackbelt in giving head) can lightly brush the shaft with her teeth, at most.

[Showcase]

Personally i like a little teeth in the bj's i get...of course not too much. I like when the girl keeps me guessing and switches between all lips and tongue, then a little drage of the teeth...remember LIGHTLY :p

[NiteTime78]

I probably shouldn't be here, cuz I've never had one. It's a very interesting topic though. Something to look forward to after getting through a1/a2/a3/ c1/c2/c3 s1/s2

[Luxberry]

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[relics]

No teeth, and its rude not to finish

[Surreal Satyr]

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[Wahooka]

I really like it when the chick is dedicated and keeps going no matter what... if she gets tired, or feels like stopping, that ruins everything. I appreciate when she will just continue and keep me in her mouth the entire time,... I also really enjoy playing with her hair, or touching her breasts during it..

Receiving handjobs just arent the same, although they can be interesting..

Wahooka

[caveman86]

I know this post is out of date (although it never should), but I gotta use this opportunity to get this off my chest, and for any other girl reading this from now on:

-Go as DEEP as you can.
-SWITCH SHIT UP! Monotonous up & down with her mouth is the reason it's taking too long and she/you (hopefully no PUA:D ) get's tired/sore jaw, etc.
-I've had 5 min bj's and 45 min bj's...The best ones are 10-20 minutes. Because they're long enough to enjoy but it means you're so good that I actually don't have to try to cum. I'm fighting it rather than trying to. Fuck.
-You don't have to keep it in your mouth the whole time, just take it out, use ur hands for a while, lick it, put it back in.

The rest has been mentioned and it's ALL true.

Thanks for reading & caring what ur man wants. You're :D ok in my book