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Ashe
03-12-2008, 11:56 AM
So i've known this girl for about 7 months now, through a friend of a friend. We didnt start hanging out regularly until December or so. Ive always said that if a girl was going to tie me down to just 1, she has the type of personality to do it.

Several times since ive known her, we have gone out and flirted heavy, grinded on the dance floor pretty hard core, made out a few times, but nothing happened really. NYE it started again, and since it was a party at my house, i had a place to go.... so we boned. That was that, nuff said... Later i find out she is/has been kind of seeing someone for the past year or so. We havent messed around since i found out, but still hang out a couple times a week and TM all the time. The more i hang out with her, the more i think i like her, and have been thinking of possibly trying to pursue something once again, but the other dude is in the picture.

Im not exactly sure, if i should try to get more out of it, or if i should leave it alone, and if i decide to go for it, what steps should i take, to blow this guy outta the water?

Ashe
03-12-2008, 02:06 PM
huh, guess this is similar to this thread: http://www.venusianarts.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9583

but slightly different seeing how there is that physical attraction, but also another dude in the picture...

dirtroad
03-12-2008, 11:38 PM
the other dude isn't in the picture unless she mentions him as an excuse not to see you - just keep doing your thing with her and don't worry about things out of your control. don't forget to hit her attraction switches, especially the jealousy routine.
i know what you mean about those types, though. finding them is tough and it seems like they always got someone else in their life when you find them. story of my life.
you'll kick yourself if you don't make a play for her, but take it slow cause she might be figuring out if you are better than her current bf. don't scare her away, just throw out some hints about what your thinking and see how she responds.


or we could just go out this weekend and meet some new strange...

Ashe
03-13-2008, 06:42 AM
haha, didnt say i was stopping to pick up chicks in the mean time, or in the long run... just wanted advice with this one case ;P

ever heard of the yard house? 200 beers on tap? i think after the flogging molly concert we are gonna go check that place out, interested?