About Cross Into Ljbf!!

[jedi mind]

Ok so ive been perusing this girl for awhile now. This is the same girl as my previous post in the Online game forum. and i thought things were going well, i thought the attractions switches were flipped into my favor, but then her phone got taken away, which is practically the only means of communication between us (besides myspace comments). I just recently talked to her, after awhile, and then shes telling me about how she thinks shes falling in love with some guy...i didnt wanna get too much into how or why or anything, because i didnt wanna cross into the LJBF zone! What do I do to make her stop thinking of me as a *dread*friend? Im thinking the next time we meet, im going to run one of Ross Jefferies SS patterns. What do you guys think?

[Hotspur]

Obviously, the attraction is cooling of because she's not seeing you or talking to you.

You need to get in a room with her, now, and remind her of why you're an attractive person.

If you can't get into a room with her, it doesn't really matter that much, does it?

Some of your problem probably has to do with too much phone time and not enough face time. Talking on the phone every night can veer into friend behavior very easily.

[jedi mind]

Hmmmm, youre right. So what I should do next is see her more than we talk. Should I run routines on her when we do to hang out to generate the attraction again? Or demonstrate that Im still intrested in her so it shows that i am not a girlfriend with a dick? Shes "falling" for this "guy", and she doesnt want to persue him as of yet...so technically shes not romantically involved.

[Hotspur]

I have zero experience with Ross Jeffries' routines. I'm under the impression it's not very effective, and quite frankly most of it strikes me as creepy, even if it does work.

You need to get back to whatever you did to get her attracted to you in the first place. What was that? It worked. Use it some more.