Building Trust

[Stunt]

I need some advice on how to make a girl trust me more. I'm a really nice guy and although I obviously want to bone this girl I'm not trying to hurt her in anyway. Unfortunately, she must have had some fucked up past experiences. She's told me about some abuse in her family (her dad and brother have physically hurt her), which makes me constantly question if i'm moving too fast.

She was my server at a restaurant that I picked up and we've spent 9 or 10 hours together in a 2 day span. While alone with her on the first night, I pulled a "do you want to kiss me?" line and she didn't (btw the "looked like you had something on your mind" line really does work much to my surprise). A few hours later when we parted ways I pointed to my cheek with a "kiss goodnight?" line and she suggested a hug instead.

At the end of the second night I ask if i made her nervous. She said that boys make her nervous (she definately came off as incredibly nervous the entire time). I can tell that she likes me, I've gotten 3 IOIs. Her eyes dialate, she touches her hair a lot, and she squeezed my hand back when I squzeed hers.

I could just try and kiss her but honestly I think that isn't going to work with this particular girl. My feelings are that what I need to do is simply build up her trust and comfort around me. I'm VERY new to this game and need some advice from experienced players. What are some solid ways to build trust and comfort?

-Stunt

[husky]

you blew it , as soon as you get 3 IOIs you begin light kino (non-sexual touching )and kiss close the girl right away
its like she s saying " i am giving you the permission to kiss me , you better fucking do it "
anyway try other girls , dont fall for one ,

[A.J.]

Unfortunately, she must have had some fucked up past experiences. She's told me about some abuse in her family (her dad and brother have physically hurt her), which makes me constantly question if i'm moving too fast.



At the end of the second night I ask if i made her nervous.


What are some solid ways to build trust and comfort?

-Stunt

ouch ok lets start from the top. firstly ive delt witha few girls with messed up pasts, you need to keep everything as fun and playful as possible and amp attraction then close

secondly WTF you asked her if you made her nervous? whyyyyyyy? dont ask that, its in the same lines as "do you like me?" "do you think im funney?" "do you think i could be anymore wussy and ask a question liek this?" dont ask that again case closed

also for comfort theres something called "the movie star moment" (thats what i call it but im sure its repeated somewhere) where you show a slight weakness and she trusts you more knowing your not perfect, i do this in c3 generally but i can make it work in c2 as well.

and ya i agree with husky, you blew it, either become 100% playful and get a close or just forget it and make her your friend

[oscarkool2]

whats up A.J., can you elaborate a bit on your movie star moment?

[A.J.]

whats up A.J., can you elaborate a bit on your movie star moment?

sure no problem, basically its a suddle way of showing your not 100% perfect. it shows your not just manipulating her and that your realie just being human and being real with her. its a part of the "youv hi jacked my brain" campain that you do for LMR later on.

for me when i do this unless its a specifically designed story for LMR (im not going to explain the structure its in the video series and other sources) i also do it by my body language. since girls are so perseptive you dont need much to make this work, sometime in comfort imagine yourself as an AFC for a SPLIT second, where you absolutely adore the girl, you may feel nervous and feel butterflies ext. if you do this properly for a second it should shift the interaction ALOT, and then go back to the way you were, if you do this too much she will become unattracted so be careful.

if you dont get what im saying or think im saying BS then sorry but this is a very body language orented theng, its hard to describe on the forrum, when you have it ul understand.

[David24]

dont be an AFC to much, just for the split second... now I just realised why I blew it with the last girl:P thanx AJ=)