Jens
04-10-2007, 12:10 AM
my wing's point of view:
Hey, this is my side of the report. I'm Scott by the way. So we went to go to FX and on the way we passed a lot of bums, it was a little scary... We got there and there were a bunch of people outside standing around. We overheard that they weren't letting anymore people in , and we knew the zone was near by, but we didn't know exactly where.
I gamed this guy in the group for social status, it didn't seem like we'd have a lot in common so I ran through a couple of silly comments and got the guy laughing, then I immediately proceeded to approach a two set, both girls. I opened with "do you know where the zone is?" (It's yes or no question I know, but I really just wanted the info) She started to give directions but messed up a couple times and I teased her a little about it, meanwhile her friend was staring right at my crotch (very unnerving by the way), and I wasn't sure why. After she gave directions I said thank you and we headed off. I was trying to loosen Jarred up a little by showing that it was ok to just talk to people there and you won't get hit or anything (Most of the time).
We got to the zone and after we went in we walked around looking for seats for a little, probably too long. We found seats in a louder part of the room and sat there for a little, and then when I saw the seats I wanted clear up we decided to strut to the quiet part of the place in the comfortable overlooking place. Me and Jarred sat bsing for a little making sure to keep our BL as good as we know, I haven't really been critiqued, but I try to emulate what I've seen in youtube and posture videos. I asked him to approach someone, but I put a little too much pressure on him and he didn't feel ready, so I decided that I'd get us a safety group to help him be more comfortable and DHV to the rest of the club.
I tapped Jarred on the shoulder and told him I'd be back in a minute. I started walking looking for a lonely set and saw a two set (One really HB blond 9 or 10 and her 7.5ish friend) on these comfortable booths, so I approached as if I was going to sit on the far side of the booth facing away from them when I turned over my shoulder and asked the 7.5 if she could help me with something. She agreed and asked me what my problem was. Now I asked Jarred before we even got to the club if I could use his shyness to open a set, and he said it was 100% ok, so I wasn't trying to be an ars or anything. I open by saying "Say you have this shy friend, and he's a really cool guy who works with casinos" Her: "Ok..." ME: "now you have this friend and you're just trying to make him more comfortable" she cuts me off. Her: "You Want me to dance with him!!! :D" Me: "Ok but he may not be ok with that" (I was a little shocked at the sudden "I'll do whatever you want" feeling I got from her, I don't even think I built attraction...) So I walk her over in Jared’s direction and just before we get to the crowd we have to walk through I hold out my hand and she grabs and squeezes, and I lead her through the crowd. (She left her really HB blonde friend without even thinking about it.
When I pulled up to Jared and saw his calm I was very surprised, I didn't know he thought it was my friend. I introduced them and we sat down and talked for a little bit, then she asked him if he wanted to dance. Jared looked at me and the quote "Avoid the dance floor like the light from the poltergeist!" ran through my head... For a second I was off, but then I thought "well maybe it isn't so bad, this girl ran all the way across the room to dance with my friend, maybe a DHV..?" I leaned into Jared and whispered something in his ear, I think it was something like "it might be ok to dance, go for it if you want." and then looked at the girl and smirked as I leaned back into my chair. Her: "I don't know why, but I just got the urge to hit you" *Smile* ME: "Oh really!? What if I hit you first?" :P *light punch to the arm* Her: *Smile*
They got up to go dance and I followed to tell Jared I'd be over in the booth.
So I walked over and asked her HB blond friend if I could sit here *Pointing at clear opposite side of the booth* Her: "Sure" *half smile* Me: "Your friend is really nice, is she like that all the time?" Her: "She's not usually this friendly" (I go a little blank as I think I was scrambling for convo ideas) I think I asked her why she was just sitting there, but I'm not sure. After a little nice conversation I paused and she reinitiated (Sorry again about the blank, I'm really hurting myself here...) When the convo was dieing down again I said "I'm bored, I have an idea!" Her: Instantly perked back up smiling and all "What!" ME: I pulled out a flashcard and a pen "Write down your name" Her: "Why..?" Me: "You'll see, it'll be fun." (help rolling into this one would be loved) Her: "Ok..." she writes it down and I look at it for a second. ME: I talk about how the how her little and big letters indicate her drive/motivation, and how the roundedness of her letters indicates that she is generally a friendly person, then I play with the fact that one of her loops is way big and the other is stunted meaning she has a high sex drive but may be sexually frustrated. Her: She laughs and looks up at me (I think I may have gone to personal) She asks me how I know all this stuff. ME: "I read all kinds of silly stuff for fun. What do you do for fun?" Her: "Party" :) (Realization that I was losing her hit now, though I probably did something earlier)
Jared and miss 7.5 came back and sat down. I asked HB blond "What's the most spontaneous thing you've done lately?" Her: *Smiles* shit test for sure "Had sex at the dressing room at Macys" ME: shit test failed, hesitate, try to look somewhat displeased by too much information "You do that often..?" Her: "No"
At this point I got a little worried that we would be dumped by our comfort set, so I jumped straight into DHV with the 7.5 to win over more positive attention. I ran part of the esp opener as part of a DHV and got her to guess 3, what I wrote on the paper, and she was stunned. I told her that I wasn't going to tell her how I did it, and she gave me a "Humph!" I said I had to go to the bathroom and I left them there to talk about it. When I came back and sat next to the 7.5 she instantly said "you had the numbers on different sides of the paper huh?" ME: "No you want to see the paper?" *Hands her the paper* I lean over to Jared and ask him if he wanted to do a few approaches now that we were comfortable, he agreed and went and approached someone.
After he came back and described what happened I realized that he'd approached someone already uncomfortable, from the BL he described from her, and he seemed really pleased that he just approached someone. after I'd finished talking to him we came back and we did high fives. Jared did his card trick and amazed the two (I got to learn some magic guys...), we talked some more, and 7.5 was getting really keno with me, and a group of other friends approached us mixed. One really, really HB 9.5 Brunet sitting on this guys lap, and another blond who talked to HB Blond who was being neglected. The Brunette opened me "So are you going to read my mind?" ME: I couldn't resist the neg "Oh... silly there's nothing to read..." *Smile* Her man friend: *smile* laugh under his breath. Her: Opens mouth a little and plays I'm mad at you hard to get BL, but I had already looked over to her man friend and asked "You play basketball?" Man friend: "Yeah! how did you know?" *Smile* ME: "I could just tell, you have the right build for it, I bet you were good." Him: "Yeah, but I don't play it much anyone. Do you play basketball?" ME: "I used to, but I sucked ever since I grew two feet in one year, I'm like a retard on the court now!" *My silly screwed up retard face* Him: "Haha, " starts another question but she cuts him off. Her: "I like football." ME: Looks over for a second *Smiles* "Oh... that's nice..." Him: laughs Her: looks confused and gets off his lap and goes to dance. The guy stays and talks with me and asks how I know these ladies. I said we just met them tonight. He got this strange smile like he didn't know what to think. We kept talking for a while, but I couldn't hear him so I asked him to stand up and he did, and we talked a little more and he went to dance with his lady friend. I kept talking to miss 7.5 and several times after the guy was gone from view, the HB Brunette came back and danced seductively at the table, which I just ignored because I was having fun talking. (I get the feeling I was missing out or being shit tested...)
Jared and I (Curse English teachers) left, because I felt that I had been neglecting what we were there for, to get him out of his shy bubble, and we headed over to the bar area and sat and talked there a while. After we decided to open and this time I would follow and critique as best I could, we went to other booths and saw some girls and Jared’s covers that one pretty good, he opened, but I couldn't find the routines to keep it going past fluff. I teased and reopened with the same question, and we got in and talked for a while (I really go blank here guys)... and I say we got to go, but I'd like to talk to her again. So I whip out half a note card and my pen and ask her to pt her e-mail on it. She says "I don't give my e-mail out, so you put yours." ME: "I don't give my e-mail out either." Her: "why don't you give yours out?" ME: "why don't you give yours out? just ask your friends" (I think I forced myself on her, but I didn't plan on e-mailing her, and I just wanted Jared to see that it wasn't too hard to get simple info.) She put it down, no sure if it was fake or not, but we had to go and I was tired, so I said "it was great meeting you guys, even if this is a fake e-mail" and we left. (Help cleaning up for the "I don't give out my ..." please)
Ps I hate spell check…
Hey, this is my side of the report. I'm Scott by the way. So we went to go to FX and on the way we passed a lot of bums, it was a little scary... We got there and there were a bunch of people outside standing around. We overheard that they weren't letting anymore people in , and we knew the zone was near by, but we didn't know exactly where.
I gamed this guy in the group for social status, it didn't seem like we'd have a lot in common so I ran through a couple of silly comments and got the guy laughing, then I immediately proceeded to approach a two set, both girls. I opened with "do you know where the zone is?" (It's yes or no question I know, but I really just wanted the info) She started to give directions but messed up a couple times and I teased her a little about it, meanwhile her friend was staring right at my crotch (very unnerving by the way), and I wasn't sure why. After she gave directions I said thank you and we headed off. I was trying to loosen Jarred up a little by showing that it was ok to just talk to people there and you won't get hit or anything (Most of the time).
We got to the zone and after we went in we walked around looking for seats for a little, probably too long. We found seats in a louder part of the room and sat there for a little, and then when I saw the seats I wanted clear up we decided to strut to the quiet part of the place in the comfortable overlooking place. Me and Jarred sat bsing for a little making sure to keep our BL as good as we know, I haven't really been critiqued, but I try to emulate what I've seen in youtube and posture videos. I asked him to approach someone, but I put a little too much pressure on him and he didn't feel ready, so I decided that I'd get us a safety group to help him be more comfortable and DHV to the rest of the club.
I tapped Jarred on the shoulder and told him I'd be back in a minute. I started walking looking for a lonely set and saw a two set (One really HB blond 9 or 10 and her 7.5ish friend) on these comfortable booths, so I approached as if I was going to sit on the far side of the booth facing away from them when I turned over my shoulder and asked the 7.5 if she could help me with something. She agreed and asked me what my problem was. Now I asked Jarred before we even got to the club if I could use his shyness to open a set, and he said it was 100% ok, so I wasn't trying to be an ars or anything. I open by saying "Say you have this shy friend, and he's a really cool guy who works with casinos" Her: "Ok..." ME: "now you have this friend and you're just trying to make him more comfortable" she cuts me off. Her: "You Want me to dance with him!!! :D" Me: "Ok but he may not be ok with that" (I was a little shocked at the sudden "I'll do whatever you want" feeling I got from her, I don't even think I built attraction...) So I walk her over in Jared’s direction and just before we get to the crowd we have to walk through I hold out my hand and she grabs and squeezes, and I lead her through the crowd. (She left her really HB blonde friend without even thinking about it.
When I pulled up to Jared and saw his calm I was very surprised, I didn't know he thought it was my friend. I introduced them and we sat down and talked for a little bit, then she asked him if he wanted to dance. Jared looked at me and the quote "Avoid the dance floor like the light from the poltergeist!" ran through my head... For a second I was off, but then I thought "well maybe it isn't so bad, this girl ran all the way across the room to dance with my friend, maybe a DHV..?" I leaned into Jared and whispered something in his ear, I think it was something like "it might be ok to dance, go for it if you want." and then looked at the girl and smirked as I leaned back into my chair. Her: "I don't know why, but I just got the urge to hit you" *Smile* ME: "Oh really!? What if I hit you first?" :P *light punch to the arm* Her: *Smile*
They got up to go dance and I followed to tell Jared I'd be over in the booth.
So I walked over and asked her HB blond friend if I could sit here *Pointing at clear opposite side of the booth* Her: "Sure" *half smile* Me: "Your friend is really nice, is she like that all the time?" Her: "She's not usually this friendly" (I go a little blank as I think I was scrambling for convo ideas) I think I asked her why she was just sitting there, but I'm not sure. After a little nice conversation I paused and she reinitiated (Sorry again about the blank, I'm really hurting myself here...) When the convo was dieing down again I said "I'm bored, I have an idea!" Her: Instantly perked back up smiling and all "What!" ME: I pulled out a flashcard and a pen "Write down your name" Her: "Why..?" Me: "You'll see, it'll be fun." (help rolling into this one would be loved) Her: "Ok..." she writes it down and I look at it for a second. ME: I talk about how the how her little and big letters indicate her drive/motivation, and how the roundedness of her letters indicates that she is generally a friendly person, then I play with the fact that one of her loops is way big and the other is stunted meaning she has a high sex drive but may be sexually frustrated. Her: She laughs and looks up at me (I think I may have gone to personal) She asks me how I know all this stuff. ME: "I read all kinds of silly stuff for fun. What do you do for fun?" Her: "Party" :) (Realization that I was losing her hit now, though I probably did something earlier)
Jared and miss 7.5 came back and sat down. I asked HB blond "What's the most spontaneous thing you've done lately?" Her: *Smiles* shit test for sure "Had sex at the dressing room at Macys" ME: shit test failed, hesitate, try to look somewhat displeased by too much information "You do that often..?" Her: "No"
At this point I got a little worried that we would be dumped by our comfort set, so I jumped straight into DHV with the 7.5 to win over more positive attention. I ran part of the esp opener as part of a DHV and got her to guess 3, what I wrote on the paper, and she was stunned. I told her that I wasn't going to tell her how I did it, and she gave me a "Humph!" I said I had to go to the bathroom and I left them there to talk about it. When I came back and sat next to the 7.5 she instantly said "you had the numbers on different sides of the paper huh?" ME: "No you want to see the paper?" *Hands her the paper* I lean over to Jared and ask him if he wanted to do a few approaches now that we were comfortable, he agreed and went and approached someone.
After he came back and described what happened I realized that he'd approached someone already uncomfortable, from the BL he described from her, and he seemed really pleased that he just approached someone. after I'd finished talking to him we came back and we did high fives. Jared did his card trick and amazed the two (I got to learn some magic guys...), we talked some more, and 7.5 was getting really keno with me, and a group of other friends approached us mixed. One really, really HB 9.5 Brunet sitting on this guys lap, and another blond who talked to HB Blond who was being neglected. The Brunette opened me "So are you going to read my mind?" ME: I couldn't resist the neg "Oh... silly there's nothing to read..." *Smile* Her man friend: *smile* laugh under his breath. Her: Opens mouth a little and plays I'm mad at you hard to get BL, but I had already looked over to her man friend and asked "You play basketball?" Man friend: "Yeah! how did you know?" *Smile* ME: "I could just tell, you have the right build for it, I bet you were good." Him: "Yeah, but I don't play it much anyone. Do you play basketball?" ME: "I used to, but I sucked ever since I grew two feet in one year, I'm like a retard on the court now!" *My silly screwed up retard face* Him: "Haha, " starts another question but she cuts him off. Her: "I like football." ME: Looks over for a second *Smiles* "Oh... that's nice..." Him: laughs Her: looks confused and gets off his lap and goes to dance. The guy stays and talks with me and asks how I know these ladies. I said we just met them tonight. He got this strange smile like he didn't know what to think. We kept talking for a while, but I couldn't hear him so I asked him to stand up and he did, and we talked a little more and he went to dance with his lady friend. I kept talking to miss 7.5 and several times after the guy was gone from view, the HB Brunette came back and danced seductively at the table, which I just ignored because I was having fun talking. (I get the feeling I was missing out or being shit tested...)
Jared and I (Curse English teachers) left, because I felt that I had been neglecting what we were there for, to get him out of his shy bubble, and we headed over to the bar area and sat and talked there a while. After we decided to open and this time I would follow and critique as best I could, we went to other booths and saw some girls and Jared’s covers that one pretty good, he opened, but I couldn't find the routines to keep it going past fluff. I teased and reopened with the same question, and we got in and talked for a while (I really go blank here guys)... and I say we got to go, but I'd like to talk to her again. So I whip out half a note card and my pen and ask her to pt her e-mail on it. She says "I don't give my e-mail out, so you put yours." ME: "I don't give my e-mail out either." Her: "why don't you give yours out?" ME: "why don't you give yours out? just ask your friends" (I think I forced myself on her, but I didn't plan on e-mailing her, and I just wanted Jared to see that it wasn't too hard to get simple info.) She put it down, no sure if it was fake or not, but we had to go and I was tired, so I said "it was great meeting you guys, even if this is a fake e-mail" and we left. (Help cleaning up for the "I don't give out my ..." please)
Ps I hate spell check…