open while two+ set is talking?

[LeSavant]

hey

if theres a two set or larger and it looks like they are either talking to each other or talking to an employee at some store, do you open then? ive only been opening girls when they havent been talking and im not sure if im right about it

let me know

[Decibel]

Sure. Wait for a lull and then get into set. If they're deeply engrossed in convo you may get blown out.

[Inferno]

I don't agree with you Decibel i have succseefully gamed sets that were engrossed in the conversation but i also contributed to the conversation and they kept going like i was always there

[Decibel]

I have too, but I've also been blown out plenty. By deeply engrossed I mean the two are talking about BF troubles, or haven't seen each other in a while and are catching up. I don't mean lighthearted banter where you can smoothly contribute to the convo.

[Inferno]

Ok with that comment Decibel i go agree but i will say that if she looks at you in the conversation and smiles at you, not smiling she looks at you, i take it as a invite no matter what the conversation is about.

[Fortunehooks]

No matter how it's approach, it is still an experiment. I used this tactic before I was even remotely close to finding this community of gentlemen, and trying to learn how this game is played. Really, some sets we just won't be able to gain entry to and that's okay, because we can take that and learn from it. So I say give off a comment and see and if it hooks.

[Inferno]

I totally agree Fortune on opening. We still have to remember that all girls are not the same and that some are having bad days or are simply just that mean at that moment. You can't assume it was your fault that set didn't work out you don't know every detail that is going on in there head. This is were a fellow PUA is helpful in telling you whether your approach was off or not.

[tony77]

You can open sets no mater what they are doing! I had to talk one of my wings into opening a set because he was of teh opinion that they were having a private conversation and probably didn;t want to be disturbed but when you learn to live in your reality, you should not care! Hell are you goign to avoid such girls? you could be missing out. Eventually he opened with "do you know if there are any live music events?"

[sublime]

just come in strong and frigging loud! If you play it right and get ioi's they will enter your thread. If you do it sloppy, they will use the "im in an important conversation" shittest