How honest in a realtionship are you?

[Diebold]

I'm curious to what level of honesty the other guys here take their relationship with a woman (after having sex with them. I realize some methods require "streeeeeeeeaching" the truth to reach the intimacy state, but after that is there you can usually unfold the rest of the oragami that is yourself)?

Myself I've always been blunt force honest "Yes, you look fat in that dress, yes you are getting a double chin, yes I've thought about banging your mother." but I counter it with compassion and love (if possible).

[silk_elite]

Even after sex I always sugar coat everything, there's no point in punishing a woman who's doing her best to satisfy you.

[Affection]

I am completely honest with all of my women. That doesn't mean that I'll volunteer that I fucked her sister the other night, because that's a douche bag move... there's no reason to say that other than to hurt her. ...but if she asks? Yeah.

I'm curious to what level of honesty the other guys here take their relationship with a woman (after having sex with them. I realize some methods require "streeeeeeeeaching" the truth to reach the intimacy state, but after that is there you can usually unfold the rest of the oragami that is yourself)?

Myself I've always been blunt force honest "Yes, you look fat in that dress, yes you are getting a double chin, yes I've thought about banging your mother." but I counter it with compassion and love (if possible).

~~Affection

[Diebold]

In all relationships that I have, I tend to be 100% honest.... but I won't volunteer information unless I think it's important. My two FB/mLTRs know not to ask about the other woman, because I will tell them everything they ask.

Just curious how other people handle honesty in a relationship after the sex bomb has dropped. :)

[Tha Gangsta]

Just like everyone else, I'm honest, but I don't volunteer. Even before the sex. But that's me.

OG

[Rich]

Just like everyone else, I'm honest, but I don't volunteer. Even before the sex. But that's me.

OG

Errr aaa, If they don't ask I don't tell... ;)

[Tha Gangsta]

That's what we all have said. It looks like the consensus is the same.

OG

[GoldeN]

I tend to be more honest possible...
but sometimes is impossible

[Johnny.Vegas]

I'm all about being 100% honest in a relationship, but of course like mentioned, there are times when your not going to 'volunteer' certain information. They say the truth shall set you free, but sometimes the truth can also be a great emotional kick in the arse. There's times when 100% honesty will just makes things worse.....

[Yoda]

It goes to say you never want to volunteer info anywase.

You want her to be curious.

[Demo]

As is the common concensus here i am totally honest. 100%. The only main difference is that i am this. ALL THE TIME i can be this simply because i don't put myself in a compromising position ever. If i can't tell people about it hence i must think its wrong. Therefore why the hell would i do it then i just dnt wish to compromise my integrity in such a why that would cause me to lie to a woman. EVER

[IslandHeat]

I'm curious to what level of honesty the other guys here take their relationship with a woman (after having sex with them. I realize some methods require "streeeeeeeeaching" the truth to reach the intimacy state, but after that is there you can usually unfold the rest of the oragami that is yourself)?

Myself I've always been blunt force honest "Yes, you look fat in that dress, yes you are getting a double chin, yes I've thought about banging your mother." but I counter it with compassion and love (if possible).


A girl once told me that only the gay guys can tell the girls these blunt comments. She said that's because they understand women. I disagree, most women are just stupid. Hehe, blunt there. I don't understand women, but I do know how to play with their head. We both decided to do a little experiment. I would would pick up two women. She would pick up two men. We would both pick up one being gay, and another one being straight. While being with these two women, I would say blunt comments to them. The same exact ones, and in the same environment. Being gay, I was never criticized. It was always, "You are such a good friend". Whereas the straight guy, "You're a dick". I came to the conclusion that women only like gay guys because they don't feel like they're being picked up. Gay guys are just as clueless as the rest of the men. They were still born men. This is the exciting part. When I was done playing gay, "I decided I was bi." I eventually told her the truth about our little experiment. She is now convinced that gay guys do not understand women. Even to this day, we have sex with no strings attached. She's actually become a very good friend, and I'm fine with that. There's no easier way to pick up girls then have a hb herself help you pick up other hb's. There was a very simple explanation to the girls experiment. The guys liked her either way and were attracted even more when she insulted them. While I'm still her friend, she now thinks the majority of men are pigs. But at the same time, she wants to date me. That's another thing, her friends are hot and I've picked them up because they I'm awesome. Imagine this, a girl who hates guys because they're pigs. But yet there's one who catches her eye, a bad boy with a little respect to give to women. That's quite appealing. Hehe, getting better and better every day.

[Bassman]

I've come to the conclusion that women don't think about honesty in the same way as guys... they think they're being 100% straight & honest provided they act in accordance with their feelings at any given time

so telling them their ass doesn't look fat (when it does), actually ISN'T a lie in womanese, provided you can sufficiently convince yourself you feel it's the right thing to say to her :)

[relics]

Even when she asks be reluctant to tell her, and when you do, be vague. I made the mistake of once telling an FB my conquests and she soon requested me to sarge girls in front of her. Bad bad bad.

[Ridiculous]

Don't be too honest but play the game well. If you're honest about everything, the girl will sometimes get an idea that this guy is a bit boring. Put a little mystery to your side...

[relics]

That's why I said be vague....>.>

[aviking]

I’m honest up to the point it will hurt or haunt me.. Meaning shit she can return back to me in a fight or things that will hurt her deeply.

Other things also that i don't want her friends to know, her work to know, her parents to know, her grand parents to know , her cat to know.. Pretty much things I don’t want to get out. as you know women like to talk.

for example.. hey babe i made a bet with my ass and lost at work today.. i sharded in my pants at work, had to clean up and went comando the rest of the day.

[The Saint of Sin]

I'm completely honest in relationships. I've learned from past experience that its always better to tell the truth and be honest or else it'll come around to bite you in the ass.

yes I'm the guy that says "yes" if she asks "do these jeans make me look fat?"