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MGriff
12-31-2007, 04:33 PM
I have a question about nonverbal resistance. Sometimes I feel like girl's body language is negative so I stop pushing, only to find out later that I was just being paranoid or even not aggressive enough. I would consider myself more of a sensitive guy so I want to be attuned to what a woman is comfortable with, and would hate more than anything to push her to do something she didn't want to. The other night I kiss closed and was looking for some sort of positive feedback or reaction to give the go ahead, and ending up pulling back, only to hear later that she didn't feel like i really "wanted" to kiss her.

Also, has anyone ever noticed a phenomenon wherein a girl with smaller breasts is very reluctant to let your hands up her shirt, but welcoming to anything else? It's an issue i've had since usually I go for the breasts before exploring anything else and when she pushes my hand away from under her shirt I usually consider it a red flag. Any thoughts?

Decibel
12-31-2007, 05:01 PM
I don't know what nonverbal LMR is. Unless a girl verbalizes LMR I plow.
The breasts can bring up resistance more than other areas, so you may want to avoid them until during sex.