"She's such a SLUT!"

[relics]

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[claudius]

She's not an mLTR unless you've fucked her. Sex will completely change your relationship.

In that conversation she was disguisted, pissed off. All you seem to be doing is dodging her emotions, that's why she continued saying "slut." The thing is, she IS one of those people who is diguisted by sex (or appears to be from what you've told me). So if you say you "hate them" you're saying you hate her.

There are token beliefs she has. Certain emotions are arising that mak her say these things. They have nothing to do with rationality. You need to agree with her. Show her you're not "dirty." Because it sounds like she won't be interested in you if you're "dirty." Humour her beliefs and she'll open up to you in the bedroom.

[relics]

My bad, I've left out some details, but from what you say I'll keep that in mind. thanks

[claudius]

My bad, I've left out some details, but from what you say I'll keep that in mind. thanks

Don't sweat it dude. I'm trying to help you get laid.

She has a core set of beliefs. One of them is that sex is dirty. If you directly oppose this belief in normal "rational" conversation, it's going to make it less possible to get laid. Agree with her system of beliefs and she'll act against them; just because she's comfortable with you.

[Thor]

Hey thanks bro I just used your situation as an opinion opener and it worked amazingly. I told them your story and asked them what their definition of a "slut " was. 15 minutes later we were making out. :)

[relics]

hahaha

I used this as an opener once too!

[Suspect]

You're 15 right? This girl is younger than you... so I'm guessing she's a sexually inexperienced (most likely virgin) 14 year old. She does not sound intellectually ready for sex.