Making a girl squirt

[Psych_]

If anyone has ever done this I'd like advice on that as well? Is there anything special I'd need to do to make that happen and what should I tell her to be doing?.....Any knowledge on how to make this work would be appreciated

[claudius]

Get some David Shade stuff. "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" has this in it...I think. Basically, as you tickle her gspot you tell her to push out and that it's not pee...and eventually she'll squirt. But there are more steps and it's more complicated than that...so make sure you read his stuff.

[The Saint of Sin]

alright guys heres what my girlfriend says on this. shes studying to be a doctor so trust me that she knows this stuff


"although it's a real phenomenon, it's usually fake. apparently those chicks are actually peeing. female ejaculation originates from the urethral sponge inside the urethra, it still look mostly real but you can tell by how far it shoots out. real female ejaculation doesn't shoot out more than 3 or 4 inches. I've also been fascinated by it, but am I glad I don't experience it - it's just too messy"

shes a great girl:D

[shooter]

I find this phenomena to be pretty damn interesting to tell you the truth. I know alot of guys think its messy, or gross etc, but to me, the idea of making a girl cum so hard that she squirts... is pretty appealing. Think about it, most guys cant even make a girl have a legitimate orgasm, not to mention the best orgasm of their life (or best multiple orgasms of their life). Anyway, I have been looking in to it for a while and am pretty confident I know what to do. But here is the deal. Stimulating the g-spot honestly does make a girl feel (and think) that she is going to pee. Therefore, there's no way she will squirt, unless she is ok with it, and does understand that it is honestly not pee. Once you are on the same page however, its on. Here is what I have learned so far, take from it what you wish.

1) Make sure she is very excited. Just as with most all sexual practices, you have to spend some quality time building up her excitement. Enough said.
2) Once you have done this, spend some time eating the muff so to speak. Make sure her clit is getting the attention it needs.
3) While you are doing this, slide in a finger or two and make the search. I have found in my experience the g-spot to not be as deep as I originally thought it was. I believe a good reference point is directly behind the clit, to give you an easy visual.
4) Now I know everybody says that the g-spot feels spongy and swollen. Personally I dont think these are the correct terms but whatever works. To me it is like a larger size bump that is kind of rough when you slide your fingers around/on it. At any rate, it feels quite a bit different from everywhere else and you will know when you have the right spot. (If your girl seems down, ask for feedback, talk a little while you are trying things out. Find out what really feels good to her. Trust me this will pay off.)
5) Once you have the g spot located, you have to warm it up a little. I have found circular motions work well, while every now and then applying a good amount of pressure (easy rambo..... dont go too hard) and slowly sliding from the very back to front. Its all kind of preference I guess, but just get it warmed up. You should feel it expand a little and she should be giving you some serious verbal and physical signs your doing alright. Now this is the crucial period where she normally feels like she has to pee. Again, if she doesnt want to squirt or doesnt know whats going on, its most likely not goint to happen.
6) Ok.... finally the last stage. Now this is important. Dont use your index and middle finger, rather use your middle finger and ring finger to apply pressure to the g spot (the use of these two fingers applies both a stronger and more consistant force). Do the "come hither" motion with those two fingers, or in other words, move them like you are trying to touch your palm. You may here a kind of sloshing/sucking noise (sorry really dont know how to describe it) which means she is close. Tell her push really hard when she feels close to cuming and increase your speed and pressure.....

Take these steps, experiment a bit, and you should be golden...... but not from pee. Anway, thats what I know. If anyone else has better/different suggestions, I would love to hear them as well.
Best of luck....
Aloha

[The Saint of Sin]

Hey Shooter i already covered this in my Oral Technique thread.

[Cedar]

4) Now I know everybody says that the g-spot feels spongy and swollen. Personally I dont think these are the correct terms but whatever works. To me it is like a larger size bump that is kind of rough when you slide your fingers around/on it.

It's different on every girl. Sometimes its a hard bump, sometimes its spongy.

[Silver]

Shooter's post is right on. I'd add that if she feels like she has to pee, let her go. Then pick up where you left off. Once she is empty, that will let her relax. The most important thing is for her to relax and feel secure that you won't chastise her for making a mess. She has to feel confident that anything that happens will be accepted. Including, not squirting. The real goal is for her to have a major G-spot orgasm.

As she gets closer, you can feel the Skene's glands that are under the G-spot swell up with fluid. Once they get to that point, if you stimulate her G-spot enough with your fingers or a nice long fuck, they will empty. It likely will just ooze out, few girls have a porn movie squirt.

Silver

[The Saint of Sin]

yeah but still thats a spill i don't want to have to mop up.

"for guys sex is like a race. you see the finish line and then you cross it"

[CarltonBanks]

I think whether she squirts depends a lot on the girl. I had it happen once and frankly dont care if it happens again. As cool as it sounds it totally soaked my sheets WAY worse than the average wet spot. I dropped her off and slept on my recliner that night.

I will say this, based on our conversation I can speculate on some factors that contributed
1- she was clearly very excited and horny as hell
2- I think it was a long enough time since the last time she climaxed for her to build up enough fluid
3- I was pounding it hard in missionary when it happened

[John the Baptist]

CB,

Lol, that happened to me. We were friends that fucked, and fucked like rabid wilderbeasts. That was her thing with me.

I'd had a gf before that who I'd practiced ESO on, and I was able to keep her in waves or orgasmic states for almost an hour once. It was phenomenal.

I didn't know much about the squirting thing (this was years go, and I'd seen something on the subject in ESO and a few articles in Playboy and the like about female ejaculatory fluid), but I worked this girl with the tongue and fingers/g-spot techniques and had her orgasm a couple of times, and I noticed MUCH more fluid than normal wetness when she came, and kind of heard something like a squishing sound. We proceeded to go rabid woodchuck on the bed, and it was so wet when she came and we were done, I had to change the sheets, wipe off with towels, place towels on the mattress, and resheet the whole thing. I was a jerk, and didn't talk about it with her. It wasn't pee, obviously, but I didn't know what to say. Pretty wild stuff.

I have a copy of the WHite Tiger Tantra. Haven't watched it all, but I think Steve P. covers squirting. It doesn't do me much good, because I'm in a ltr, and she only likes to have one orgasm at a time.

[Tony La Motta]

HAHAHAHAH you won't believe it but I'm actually in that situation right now. A few hours ago when i was having sex and she leaked all over the sheets....my suggestion is to start a change jar so you have wash money....that or just lay down some towels

[VincentChase]

Long time PUA..just getting into the whole online forums side of it.

A few months back I came across a video on www.youporn.com that was a guy giving instructions as he made his gf (or some girl..whatever) squirt. I am trying to find the link and as soon as I do I will post it on here..its actually a really good video..

[Moto]

Dude i may be wrong but from what ive gathered only some girls can actually squirt...and by squirt i mean turn ur bed into a fkn pool !!!!!! All girls can orgasm and if ur trying to reach that point then its pretty simple actually, you dont need a huge penis all u need is stamina, and lots of pre-sex sensual actions, to get her amped up for it....If u just hop into bed and stick it in, its not gonna be nearly as good for her as if theres at least 20-30 minutes of forplay (fingering, oral, touching, kissing)....

as far as squirting some girls do some girls dont......

I speak from experience and word of mouth, I could be wrong

[Yang]

I had a great girlfriend who had really developed her g/spot sensitivity. She always cumed all over the place and I loved her for this.

Now, I noticed that even though female ejaculation is said not to contain piss, it sometimes smells a little like it, and sometimes it doesnt. I have found that when my girlfriend used the bathroom just before sex, her cumm was much more transparent and had no funny smell.

In any case, I never cared. Making her cumm, making any woman cumm is sucha a great experience that you will never care about cleaning up.

As for letting your girl know that this can happen and its ok, I think its all about comfort and conection with each other. Sometimes you can talk to her when she is getting close to orgsm, wisper in her ear, using nlp type stuff> It feels good doesnt it? concentrate on how good it feels, better each moment!! etc

[Th1rtEeN]

Wait wait wait a second.....

So lemme get this straight......the gspot is a swollen muscle barely inside the vag???

Is this g spot a kind of circular swollen flesh muscle?? It feels smooth and possibly round or circular?? The thing I am talking about isnt exaclty at the front either, its more or less 3-4 inches in, and up.....basically 3-4 inches behind the clit on the insie of the vag....I guess let me know if I am right??

Thanks.

[Lionheart]

I'm seeing a lovely adorable nymph right now, who taught me how to make her squirt....
she discovered her own self squirting abilities....

to give you an overview of what she taught....
which is real sexy by the way....

no man needs to lie and say he was born with the skills to make a girl squirt...

best to humble yourself...pay attention..and let her show you some valuble skills to add to your repertoire...

she lay on the bed, legs spread...I sat in front of her....

admiring the view...

she told me to insert my middle finger on my right hand palm up inside her...

and here is the keys to the kingdom...

to take your finger inside her and beckon with it....

to make the "come here" motion with your finger....

which I'm sure you can imagine what that looks like...

so the spot on the top of the vagina where you want to be...

will have to be determined when you are there....and feel for it..

every girls zones will feel different to your fingers....but you will notice similarities...when you feel up top.....

I don't believe all girls can do this...by anymeans...


just like some girls have emotional blocks to having an orgasm....
nothing wrong with their genitals...it's a mental problem..

the squirting thing...is something that all women may physiologically be able to do...I have no idea...but the majority can't, that I've seen and been with...mostly because of a mental block to it....

half of them would look at me wall-eyed if I asked to try it on them...

in any case....

if you sense you may have a squirter...the "come here" beckoning motion may lead you to a wet hand/ bed....

motion, speed, and smoothness will all factor in as well...

good luck,

[L-Train]

Hey guys, here is a video that teaches the art of making her squirt, it is called Squirters 2. it is a stand alone video. one thing i have noticed is that you have to get the girl to trust you completely. first tell her to go pee before you begin, then tell her that during the course your relations she will get a strong urge to pee.

(if it is her first time: keep Telling her not to fight it because its natural, normal, not pee, and she is safe with you)

i can't stress this enough u have to get her to trust you BEFORE DURING and AFTER even if she doesnt squirt. Your goal has to be to make her feel good.

Tell her not to fight.
Its natural. Its normal. Its not pee, and she is safe with you

follow SHOOTER's Steps 1 thru 6 while developing her trust.

when she is getting close HOLD ON for dear life, Squirters LMR, HOLD ON coz u will be witnessing a the most beautiful thing that most people will never get to experience in their life time. when she is done tell her that Its natural. Its normal. Its not pee, and she is safe with you

[Ashe]

its all good advice, ill try it next time i get some :P

its happened to me once , just at random. this chick i was sleeping with regularly had orgasmed pretty hard 3 times in the session one night, she got on top (lot of energy that night) and i just sat back on teh couch and let her ride me with her feet on the couch and using the top of the couch to hold on, then bouncing straight up and down... she orgasmed again, but she pulled off my dick and its like she locked up and i could see the stoumach muscles contract... she never had it happen before, but she just let it rip all over my stoumach... it wasnt a whole lot and actually looked like a dude coming, except more. it was pretty thick and came in just a quick squirt of stuff and i could feel it had some force behind it..... none of this peeing stuff you see all over porn these days.

[Deft9]

Here is a diagram. See the picture under "Manual G-spot stimulation" Notice how his fingure is curled AROUND the pubic bone and is pushing up against the front wall. Although they say to stroke with a come-hither motion, I think it may work better with a quick wiggle motion, like the first part of "come-hither" only back and forth rapidly.

Shade recommends Seymore Butt's Squirters 2 (now called Female Ejaculation: A complete Guide" and a book called "The G-spot: and other discoveries about human sexuality." However, I'm not sure you need these. Just try what I've posted.

http://www.crystaladultpleasures.com/gspotfemalepage.htm

Sadly, my girl keeps making me let her up so she can "go pee." She has a mental block preventing her from releasing in bed.

[Deft9]

I dl'ed this squirt 101 video for free from here. I had to dl the uTorrent program to get it though. The guy leading the instruction seems to know what he is doing....even though the other guys don't listen to him very well.

He says use middle and ring finger. Quick flicking motions up against the front wall, and he moves his whole arm back and forth really fast sometimes while he's doing it. His index finger and pinky are pointed down at the chair. At 22:50 of the first video he demonstrates the exact motion for the camera. He also massages the abdomen telling the girl's to relax. Also at 13:10 of the second video. Ok, and second video 21:00 (best example)

2 guys tried before him to get this girl to squirt for the first time and then he goes in and gets it in about 10 seconds at the 21 minute mark of the first video.

http://www.btmon.com/Video/Other/Squirt_101.torrent.html

EDIT: LOL this video is CRAZY. This guy is the fuckin man! I really can't describe the exact techniques in text as well as they just show them. I think the trick to finishing her off is locking the fingers in place and moving the whole arm UP and DOWN, hitting that top wall with the two locked fingers.

Here is the guy's website. The video can be purchased legally here, and he made a whole series of them. He also has a little free tutorial on the site, but it wasn't nearly as helpful as watching him do it to a bunch of women in the video.

http://www.axelbraun.net/squirting.php

[Deft9]

Has anyone seen any of Axel Braun's other videos? The first Squirting 101 video was excellent, but he also has Squirting 201. There are many videos in both series.

I'm looking for technique/instruction, not just Cytheria shooting like a firehose. Anybody that's seen these, are they worth checking out?

[Deft9]

I finally received Seymore Butt's Guide to female ejaculation in the mail. The special features section has him giving instruction.

Typically if I get one new technique that really works I'm happy. Seymore advises using the index and middle finger instead of middle and index, which is different from Axel, although Axel's technique is also used in the DVD.

One cool thing Seymore did differently was he had the girl put her legs up. This actually does make a big difference. He also demonstrates his technique for a girl on her hands and knees.

[AndersonPUA]

Killer post shooter. Dead on!

[eight]

Just one thing that nobody has covered here. Doesn't matter if you push stroke pull or whatever, if you want this to work effectively, the girl has to be turned on, turned on good and wet and hot. Talk dirty to her! And the other very important thing is to tell the girl to push down. Put your middle and ring finger inside and curl it up, hold it, tell your girl to push down her muscles. You'll know she did it properly once you feel flesh, almost like her uterus pushing your hand out, then do the motions. The most effective technique i found is like Axel Braun describes, curl fingers and do up and down, but I also do a little bit of the come here movement with both of my fingers.

IMPORTANT: You may have the technique figured out, but if the girl isn't turned on, or if you start too soon, like first thing you do is start pumping her, your chances of making her squirt are very low. Girls in the video do it quickly, because they know how, they're turned on, and ready for sex.

CAUTION: Use towels, make sure she isn't aimed at your nice big screen TV. Or any other electronics for that matter.

[Ril]

I have.

For her I think it was mostly mental; she was very, very comfortable with me AND very turned on by me. We'd be having sex and I'd order her to squirt "I want to you SQUIRT baby" and she would, we'd orgasm together and it was awesome. Best sex I've had. I was 19 and she was 28 (and married but separated, hehe)

[Chesco]

"change jar" rofl!!!

[-TruTh-]

I like to be the towel for female ejaculation. Nothing like the swelling pride of female funbox juice all over me "Tear"

[Deft9]

The stuff that comes out of my g/f is so much like urine, I'm still not entirely convinced it isn't at least part urine.

I get enough of it on my face and arms just from the drops flying.

[-TruTh-]

The stuff that comes out of my g/f is so much like urine, I'm still not entirely convinced it isn't at least part urine.

I get enough of it on my face and arms just from the drops flying.

Lol I don't know either but its fun