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Fidelity
11-28-2007, 07:55 PM
The Intro: I"m a decent looking 16 year old with decent game.

The Scenario: Ok, there is this girl, obviously. She's a 17 year old gymanast that is a grade ahead of me. This chick is definately an HB10... not just my opinion. I've never even spoken to this girl, and to be honest I didn't care much to meet her until I had this dream about her last saturday.I feel something about her is special, I've looked at her myspace profile and I like what I see. I would speak to her in real life, but there isn't really enough time alotted to go anywhere with my game, like I said, she's a grade ahead. I'm thinking about either decking out my page out and opening her, or making a creative, anonymous myspace page and speaking to her through that and eventually revealing my identity. ~Here is what I mean by a "creative, anonymous page".... This girl solved a mixed up rubik's cube twice in a row in front of a bunch of students and put everyone in awe(sounds nerdy, but she's not at all, lol).
And I was thinking about making a page and putting "Rubik's" as my display name, and then putting a picture of a rubik's cube as my default. Then I'll open her and continue from there. I know this sounds a bit wuss, but I wouldn't do it out of fear, I'd do it out of creativity and maybe being mysterious for a while would keep her interested. It could go either way. I'm confident that I won't get "shot down though," no matter which I choose.

There are pros and cons to this. Your advice would be appreciated.

-Fidelity

P.S. This girl isn't like most 10s, she has a shitload of friends, of course, but half the time I see her at breakfast sitting by herself and she walks with 1 girl on the catwalk to lunch (we don't have the same lunch =/).

Insomniac
11-28-2007, 09:52 PM
coming up with an elaborate scheme with myspace doesn't sound realistic. Really sounds pretty afc to me. If you are that confident why don't you approach her at breakfast whens shes by herself. That should be an easy 5-10 minutes to start something.

Rampage
11-28-2007, 10:18 PM
I agree with Insomniac, remember you are a high worth male, you should not have to go out of your way, like changing your myspace page for her. Just open her, or her set next time you see her. I personally don't like myspace, facebook, etc... I like meeting people the old fashioned way.

BackintheGame
11-28-2007, 11:14 PM
Avoid online....I screwed up a potential pickup with a girl I know online because of the lack of body language/tone.....if it's just the words...you can't really 'do' C&F, etc.

Tsfen
11-29-2007, 12:03 AM
Hey mate, I havent posted much on these boards, but I came into the community at 16, like you. At your age, approaching her quickly, without fear, or mumbling or any bullshit, with good bodylanguage, tonality etc That in itself is a 'DHV'. Cut the myspace crap out now, its ridiculous, ive tried it, it works with girls who have ISSUES, are ugly, fat or stupid, no hot girl goes for that, and even if you get her online, when u meet up, you really are starting from scratch again as mystery says, true story. you ARE sounding afc 'this girl isnt like most 10's etc' all 10's have friends, and no 10's have friends around them 24/7. Shes hot, and can do rubiks cube...wow...dont come across as some little fanboy, be a man. As a matter of fact, thats the best advice i can give you, girls want a MAN, they dont want someone pussyfooting around on myspace. Be assertive, dominant, hold your own, and show that youve got it together, be nice to them, negs are overrated, smile+being nice+humour+kino=easy A1-A2. Dont get too caught up in community ideas, its ok to buy a girl a drink or whatever, it shows you have the money to spend, which means you have your shit together, but dont use it to boast, thats tryhard, and dont use it to buy ur way into her panties. SMILE motherfucker, smile+eye contact=KEY, i know it sounds basic, but a master at martial arts doesnt beat the student because he knows some flying scissors deathkick, its because he knows the basics really well, punches, kicks, blocks etc. He beats the student because he gets all the basics right, the flying scissors deathkick is just an extra. That being said, keep in mind she may well reject you, being a year older, age matters, like it or not, you have to deal with it, and understand that there are plenty of other girls out there, at 16, I suggest you just use this as a learning experience and see how far you can take it. Good luck.

Fidelity
11-29-2007, 01:15 PM
Thanks a ton for those of you that replied. More advice would be greatly appreciated.

Meaning
11-29-2007, 01:31 PM
In my experience Smiling/being nice tactics work pretty well with most girls, but not with the most attractive ones. In those cases it seems better to work them for a while, becoming friends first so that you can trust each other and do stuff together. But the trick is not to get to comfortable in this "Friends phase" and wait to long before making a move, because then she will probably only see you as a friend.

Timing is of the essence here and it takes a few tries before you get it right.

L+Rob
11-29-2007, 02:07 PM
Well.... these guys have all given great advice. But none of them know you personally. haha. Since I do, I know that creativity is the way you wanna take things, and that's cool. But these guys got me thinking a bit and i agree that "the old fashioned way" is the way to go. Either way, you'll do well. :D Remember, don't be a Ricky. Be... an Uncle Tom. ;) Good luck man.

ZipperBoy
12-15-2007, 05:42 PM
Isn't the reason she's sitting by herself at breakfast, is because she's an HB10? The other girls are jealous and the guys are too timid to approach.

I'm not saying I'd have the balls to approach, but sounds like she's just asking to be approached sitting by herself.

Machu
12-18-2007, 03:14 PM
IME, when I ask girls why they're dating a younger guy, they say that they were attracted to the guys boldness/confidence. I remember when I was in HS that the guys that were dating girls older then them were the really alpha guys... either jocks or class clowns that were always fucking with people