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dvb05
11-26-2007, 09:10 PM
Here is something I've been trying to find more info on. Can all of this stuff apply to say women who you are interested in, possibly still have a shot with, or once had a shot with...and be effective? i'm very curious about this.

mystery says forget about who you have been pining on and later come back with higher proof, well so far i've been doing well witih pickup but would like to explore some past relationships or possiblities that almost happened.

Ex: You meet someone who has indicated IOI's with you and is willing to go out with you. However she does not initiate anything (calls, emails), I do all the work. We will be going out this weekend to a hockey game and she sounds very excited about it.
My first guess would be that in this situation, negs would not work and would cause negative compliance, since female to male has been established (or so it seems). What tools do you use in A2, A3? does it start in C1?

this is just an example but if this stuff is so effective with pickup some of it has to apply with non-pickup. my game has gotten much better w/ people i know. I'm no longer needy, i can wait days to call if needed, i do the short answer thing in email (showing dis-interest), and sometimes cut conversations off at their peak, and it does work, but there must be a more effective way....just my belief since this stuff works excellent w/ pickup.

i just want to master this sh*t lol....who wouldn't want to?

Deft9
11-30-2007, 09:43 AM
One-itis can really limit people from advancing in pickup. I think it occurs when you have basically ONE option and you are clinging to that option. You put that girl up on a pedastel and become very NEEDY and supplicating, willing to do anything she wants. One-itis puts you in a very WEAK position in the relationship and it's VERY unattractive.

However, if you don't think you have a One-itis attitude for this girl, you merely find her attractive and think she finds you attractive, I don't see anything wrong with trying to escalate the relationship. Also, some playful tease negs are always fun. Just don't put her up on a pedastel; she's not your ONLY option.

CrazyWilly
11-30-2007, 05:03 PM
Even better than applying it to girls you already know, how about during business meetings...

Anyway, use what you know. I always build A2 to make everyone around me like me more. The stories I tell are calibrated to ensure that I get a favorable response. When you master A2 and to some level A3, you'll see your life with your old friends change and those that want to follow you, will.

dvb05
11-30-2007, 08:17 PM
thanks for feedback, she definitely is not One-itis...i stopped that a while back, just a notch that i want on my belt, not regarding pickup, but for women i already know and possibly failed with before. I fortunately suffer from 100-itis :0) hehe

i think sniper negs are very useful in this situation. shotgun or hardcore negs would portray me as a different person as far as personality and she (they) will see that all of a sudden i'm an ahole. sniper negs are caused by God....so i believe those are better to use

dvb05
11-30-2007, 08:20 PM
good thought Crazy Willy...i see myself applying it to others lately a bit more. i'll try it at work in meetings