Bellini
11-17-2007, 08:07 PM
FYI, this is with an HB8 who I'd known 4 years earlier but haven't really hung out with since. She moved away to college. We were never together. 1 month ago, I noticed she changed her hair color so I figured it was the perfect opportunity to neg her on Facebook:
Bellini (1 month ago): "Cool hair. When are you going back to brunette?"
HB8 (1 month ago): "i AM brunette!! haha it just loooooks kinda blonde. ill never be a true blonde....! how r u?"
I choose not to respond because I figured either she'd get in touch or I'd find another reason later, I had no reason to keep an online discussion going when she lives far away from me in college. Sure enough, my gf and I break up 1 month later (saw it coming) and I change my status on Facebook to:
"Bellini is newly single after 3.5 years, he's feeling :) :/ :(."
HB8 (recently, 1 hour after my single status): "Bellini!! im going to be home [from college] for the next week and a half. we should get together and go to lunch or coffee. let me know!"
Bellini (still going with the hair neg): "hey HB8. getting together sounds great. i only do lunch with brunettes so we might have to settle for coffee."
HB8 (same day): "well lucky for you i went back to brunette three weeks ago. ill give you a call when i get into town!"
Bellini (same day): "haha! talk with you then"
Definitely looking forward to meeting up with the HB8. If you have any any constructive feedback, I'd definitely appreciate it.
Bellini (1 month ago): "Cool hair. When are you going back to brunette?"
HB8 (1 month ago): "i AM brunette!! haha it just loooooks kinda blonde. ill never be a true blonde....! how r u?"
I choose not to respond because I figured either she'd get in touch or I'd find another reason later, I had no reason to keep an online discussion going when she lives far away from me in college. Sure enough, my gf and I break up 1 month later (saw it coming) and I change my status on Facebook to:
"Bellini is newly single after 3.5 years, he's feeling :) :/ :(."
HB8 (recently, 1 hour after my single status): "Bellini!! im going to be home [from college] for the next week and a half. we should get together and go to lunch or coffee. let me know!"
Bellini (still going with the hair neg): "hey HB8. getting together sounds great. i only do lunch with brunettes so we might have to settle for coffee."
HB8 (same day): "well lucky for you i went back to brunette three weeks ago. ill give you a call when i get into town!"
Bellini (same day): "haha! talk with you then"
Definitely looking forward to meeting up with the HB8. If you have any any constructive feedback, I'd definitely appreciate it.