dinning hall tactics

[Artemis]

Forget what I wrote before. That was fucking stupid. The real potential lies in meeting girls in class. Think about it. She's sitting there trying to pass the time just like you are. She jots a few notes now and then trying to stay focused because she logicly knows she should. But what she would give for something fresh to come along and break the monotony. And then there he is. The PUA.

The following is my first official field report on this site. It occurs over 2 class periods of American History and a few texts. If any one has any input, advice, or pointers on this pick up then feel free to post them.

CLASS 1 I walk in with no intention to lay any serious game. I was slightly out of it to say the least. I walk in sit down at a desk towards the back. From here I spotted her. I noticed a guy walk over and sit next to her. From his body language you could read he intended to make moves on her. For some reason my game just kicked in and I went into autopilot. I got up walked over as people filled into the room, and sat on top of a desk next to her. After an exchange about forming a study group with the guy sitting next to her I walked away with her number.
I then text her about TWENTY MINUTES INTO CLASS. I will record the exact exchange off of my phone.

ME: Busted, i hope u turned off your ringer.
HER: I did. u got me
ME: Think youre smarter than me?
HER: Maybey i dont know u
ME:Boring
HER:Yea hst sucks
ME:I was talking about u. kidding
HER: Haha u r so funny

NEXT DAY
ME: What day do u want to meet to study?
HER:Um i dont know. just let me know
ME: so not only are u boring youre also indecisive. just kidding. whats youre e mail.
HER: Im not boring! how about 2morrow im donw with class at 1 and dont go 2 work til 7
ME: How about tuesday and whats youre e mail its to expensive to text.
HER: Tuesday i have class from 330-6:15, oh yea sorry.
SHE GIVES ME HER EMAIL

I comenced to send her 2 emails. The first fluffing, the second leading into the qualifying routine. This I cut and pasted bellow. Watch the transaction between these last emails.

MY EMAIL: You shouldnt take things so seriously. That "may be YOUR fatal flaw." After talking to you today I realized your not THAT boring. To me you are by definition strange because I do not know you. How about this for "neutral ground". What are three things that set you apart from the croud?

She sends me this TEXT reminding me about the study sesh. I DO NOT ATTEND.
HER TEXT: HER: So u coming 2night or what? sorry i just used a text but i didnt know if u were in class or not

LATER TONIGHT
HER RESPONSE: 3 things that set me apart....
1. I know how to spell crowd--it sure isnt croud :)
2. I really don't take things seriously, apparently e-mail has a bad way of showing emotions
3. I dont automatically judge people and call them strange just because I don't know them. i give them a chance and get to know them

MY FINAL EMIAL FOR TODAY:
1. I guess youre smarter than me after all.
Now I can't even hang out with you. Or maybey
I'm smarter but just cant spell or do math. Now well never know.
2. The last thing we need to do is bring emotion into this.
3. Think of the word Stranger and how strange is used in it.
That is what "strange" originally portrayed. Another useless bit of info.

Good night stranger

HER FINAL EMAIL :
1. We could just both agree we are smart in our ways, equally, and leave it at that.
2. I wasn't meaning we needed emotion. I was saying you can't tell if i am laughing as i type something or serious.
3. Well you can call me a stranger (although we are slowly crossing that line too) but not strange.
Good night to you too stranger.
by the way you missed an awesome study session at the library, i feel so smart now :)

The majority of these emails were sent thruought today. I still have a long ways to go and any suggestions would be welcomed. I sit here tonight and offer it to you. Some of the best minds in the game. Do with it what you will.

Artemis

[khenak]

I think you did great throughout the whole convo. Definately kept up with the cocky and funny part. A problem that I find is that maybe you should not say Just kidding, every time you try to bust her balls. You are alpha and if she can't get a joke like that, she is being way too sensitive.

[Thor]

I agree. The "just kidding" kills the cocky funny. The most you should do is to put a :) after every 5 or 6 CF lines to let her know that you are just messing with her. And try to keep the CF down to a minimum if you are texting, try to use texting only as a means to timebridge.

[relics]

and this seems like my first relay in junior high (before VA). Too much (from what I can tell) things done on email/text. TB her as said only on texts or email. Give her the gift of missing you and tb her for a study session at your place(wink wink).

However if your kino escelation isn't there yet (and her comfort thresholds in consideration to atleast make out) as I'm geussing, build some comfort and get your kino up to little pecks on the lips. etc...

[Tori]

Just so you know, I'm a gal and if a guy said mean things to me, I'd be pissed! Maybe i'm too sensitive or what, but I'd still be pissed! Especially if I just met the dude. I think saying "just kidding" makes just about anything acceptable, unless like your mom just died and you told her that you'd see her in hell one day.

Well anyway, this guy I work w/ says stupid shit like that to me all the time and I just think he is so annoying and a huge dick b/c of that!!!

[Hero]

Tori, ur right in certain cases where the guy is a dick.

But girls sometimes have this "Automatic Assumption" that every guy in the world just want to have sex with her and they're not really interested in anything else about her.

So based on this Automatic Assumption she just blows him off. If a guy is "kinda cocky" in a fun way (not mean), she thinks: "wait a minute, this guy is making fun of me?! if he wanted to just fuck me, he'd try so hard to gain my approval and have this hypocritical nicey nicey behavior and buy me stuff. Maybe he's not just sexually just interested in me". Then that great guy who had loads of experience with women before her just eliminated that Automatic Assumption. That's why its important for a guy who meets a new girl to be cocky funny

U might think that this is a "manipulation tactic". But it isn't. See there is a phase after we eliminate this Automatic Assumption called "comfort building". This is the phase which takes two or three days or maybe even the same night (calculated in an accumulative of 4 to 7 hours of conversation) where the girl gets to know the guy instead of just hooking up with a stranger. The girl of course has the choice here to accept or reject the guy in this phase. So if its a mutual decision, its not really manipulation.

U know how girls say "He's a Great Guy", "He's a loser". The Venusian Gurus teach us a concept called "identity". Which means we have to have a life and build our own unique "Great Guy" lifestyle and personality compatible with just being ourselves instead of just copying a lifestyle of a Venusian Guru.

The ppl who girls call "Losers" might actually be a great guy and has an interesting life and personality, he just has no clue how to eliminate the Automatic Assumption then engage in further steps. So he either does some wussy moves or some stupid Johnny Bravo moves. That's why he can't go to phase 2 and actually hook up with the girl. That's why girls complain about great guys who don't have the guts to approach her. Its not that he doesn't have the guts, it's just that he doesn't know how to eliminate the Automatic Assumption and later demonstrate his "Value" or in girl language "Great Guy-ness" <=== I don't know if that's a real word :D

Anyway cocky-funny is just one way to eliminate the Automatic Assumption. The community discusses other tactics as well

Hopes this helps :D