Psych_
10-30-2007, 11:30 AM
This was a girl I was working to pick up from class. She opened me and I got her number and we made plans but they never fell through and I figured I lost this set.
Later on I befriended the head of security at Nikki Marinas and got invited to this corprate party. I call her and invite her and she's down and we plan for her to swing by...that's where this FR begins.
HBangel swings by my place for the corprate halloween costume party. I'm dressed as a Devil and she plans to go as an Angel. She brought two costumes for me and we did a little game where she models for me. I joke around with her and have her paint my nails black rewarding her with IOIs for passing the compliance test but also some teasing for fun.
We finally head out and decide to stop at a gas station for energy drinks. The whole ride on the way to the place we were having a great vibe. I did my dane cook impression which she loved and we both have a crush on ryan reynolds. Just lots of commonality building with tons of laughing and joking.
We get to the party and she's all nervous about being in costume but it turns out everyone is in costume so it's fine. They have us sign up for a costume contest, she showed signs that she didn't want her to do it but I figured it'd be fun and kind of made her (first mistake of the night getting all pushy for something stupid). We get in and start interacting with people and I meet up with Darwin who hooked me up with the party in the first place. She goes to wait for the costume contest which she didn't like and some guy flirted with her in line and got her number. Surprising to cause this guy looked like the poster boy for "nice guy" and didn't give off anything that I'd consider a threat. I caught her giving out her number and just laughed about it and called her a little player.
We got some drinks and started dancing, here's the thing though...the girl would just not chase. With everything I read it always makes it seem that you play the game and the girl reacts to it, but my experience is they play the game right back at you. If you start a jealousy plotline then they'll start one, if you do a takeaway they do a takeaway. Even dancing she would try and dance right out of reach and we had a little thing going where I'd try and get her to come to me and she'd try and make me come to her. Finally I just grabbed her and pulled her into me and we started grinding.
The party started dying down and both of us were pretty interactive with other people so we said our goodbyes. I then take her to the next party where my friend was celebrating her b-day. In the car she opened up big time telling me all this stuff about her (she said at one point she didn't know why she was being so honest) and we got to talking about sexual fantasies and it was just big time confessions and opening up which was great for rapport. She did have a few drinks in her though. I went for the kiss when we parked and got it lightly but she turned and said "we cant kiss" which was fine just meant it'd take more time.
At the next party I had social proof by everyone cause I knew a lot of people there. One girl named Andrea we both knew. She starts going at it with Andrea and I begin saying hello to everyone and meeting some new people. I have my friend Bobby do a few drinking contests with HBangel to get her loosened up and we hit the dance floor. It was hot cold most of the night. Sometimes I'd just be chilling with someone I knew by the side talking and not doing much but other times some good stuff happened. At one point HBangel gave me an amazing lap dance where she felt me getting hard and that just made her work harder. Another time she went to dance on the pole with Andrea then came over where I was sitting and we started making out. We definately started getting the vibe that this chick was "with me" but most of her attention was towards Andrea not me. Finally I decide to take her home and try to close at my place.
Right away she said she was gonna just come by and take off cause she had a bar mitzvah to get to in the morning. I told her I don't let people drive drunk and she should come in and sober up for a little while. She rejected at first but then said she could use the bathroom. We go in and I get her some water. When she comes out of the bathroom she pauses at my door hesitant to come in but I insist she has some water to sober up. She comes in and plops down on the bed after drinking some and goes under the covers and starts falling asleep. This girl was clearly not ready for seduction, she didn't show enough IOIs throughout the night or if she did they were to mingled with IODs. She was hesitant every step of the way to get to the bedroom and it should have been obvious that she needed more comfort building. If I just stroked her back and fell asleep with her without anything happening it would have shown that she could be comfortable with me and I wasn't just gonna go for sex at the first chance.
However I blew this...when she lied down I started giving her a massage on got on top of her. I then moved my hands down unzipping her dress to work her lower back. Then I started massaging her legs working my way up until I was in her inner thighs right below her pussy. She visibly got turned on and when I saw it she realized it to and jumped up saying she really had to leave. I realized my mistake and said we don't have to do anything lets just chill until you sober up, but she insisted she would be fine and had to go so I showed her out.
I pulled the trigger to soon and now it just feels things are awkward between us. Which sucks cause I have class with her. She also hasn't responded to any two text messages I sent her since then. Definite buyers remorse.
I keep trying to use attraction locations for comfort building and it never works but those are the places I'M most comfortable at. I need to figure out a day 2 idea that I can implement thats focused around comfort building but that's also fun. Also a place where it'll establish the theme of just her and me instead of interacting with other people. I learned that you cant just force seduction because of logistics, the comfort MUST be there.
Here's some pictures of that night.
http://fau.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2057341&id=33400331
Later on I befriended the head of security at Nikki Marinas and got invited to this corprate party. I call her and invite her and she's down and we plan for her to swing by...that's where this FR begins.
HBangel swings by my place for the corprate halloween costume party. I'm dressed as a Devil and she plans to go as an Angel. She brought two costumes for me and we did a little game where she models for me. I joke around with her and have her paint my nails black rewarding her with IOIs for passing the compliance test but also some teasing for fun.
We finally head out and decide to stop at a gas station for energy drinks. The whole ride on the way to the place we were having a great vibe. I did my dane cook impression which she loved and we both have a crush on ryan reynolds. Just lots of commonality building with tons of laughing and joking.
We get to the party and she's all nervous about being in costume but it turns out everyone is in costume so it's fine. They have us sign up for a costume contest, she showed signs that she didn't want her to do it but I figured it'd be fun and kind of made her (first mistake of the night getting all pushy for something stupid). We get in and start interacting with people and I meet up with Darwin who hooked me up with the party in the first place. She goes to wait for the costume contest which she didn't like and some guy flirted with her in line and got her number. Surprising to cause this guy looked like the poster boy for "nice guy" and didn't give off anything that I'd consider a threat. I caught her giving out her number and just laughed about it and called her a little player.
We got some drinks and started dancing, here's the thing though...the girl would just not chase. With everything I read it always makes it seem that you play the game and the girl reacts to it, but my experience is they play the game right back at you. If you start a jealousy plotline then they'll start one, if you do a takeaway they do a takeaway. Even dancing she would try and dance right out of reach and we had a little thing going where I'd try and get her to come to me and she'd try and make me come to her. Finally I just grabbed her and pulled her into me and we started grinding.
The party started dying down and both of us were pretty interactive with other people so we said our goodbyes. I then take her to the next party where my friend was celebrating her b-day. In the car she opened up big time telling me all this stuff about her (she said at one point she didn't know why she was being so honest) and we got to talking about sexual fantasies and it was just big time confessions and opening up which was great for rapport. She did have a few drinks in her though. I went for the kiss when we parked and got it lightly but she turned and said "we cant kiss" which was fine just meant it'd take more time.
At the next party I had social proof by everyone cause I knew a lot of people there. One girl named Andrea we both knew. She starts going at it with Andrea and I begin saying hello to everyone and meeting some new people. I have my friend Bobby do a few drinking contests with HBangel to get her loosened up and we hit the dance floor. It was hot cold most of the night. Sometimes I'd just be chilling with someone I knew by the side talking and not doing much but other times some good stuff happened. At one point HBangel gave me an amazing lap dance where she felt me getting hard and that just made her work harder. Another time she went to dance on the pole with Andrea then came over where I was sitting and we started making out. We definately started getting the vibe that this chick was "with me" but most of her attention was towards Andrea not me. Finally I decide to take her home and try to close at my place.
Right away she said she was gonna just come by and take off cause she had a bar mitzvah to get to in the morning. I told her I don't let people drive drunk and she should come in and sober up for a little while. She rejected at first but then said she could use the bathroom. We go in and I get her some water. When she comes out of the bathroom she pauses at my door hesitant to come in but I insist she has some water to sober up. She comes in and plops down on the bed after drinking some and goes under the covers and starts falling asleep. This girl was clearly not ready for seduction, she didn't show enough IOIs throughout the night or if she did they were to mingled with IODs. She was hesitant every step of the way to get to the bedroom and it should have been obvious that she needed more comfort building. If I just stroked her back and fell asleep with her without anything happening it would have shown that she could be comfortable with me and I wasn't just gonna go for sex at the first chance.
However I blew this...when she lied down I started giving her a massage on got on top of her. I then moved my hands down unzipping her dress to work her lower back. Then I started massaging her legs working my way up until I was in her inner thighs right below her pussy. She visibly got turned on and when I saw it she realized it to and jumped up saying she really had to leave. I realized my mistake and said we don't have to do anything lets just chill until you sober up, but she insisted she would be fine and had to go so I showed her out.
I pulled the trigger to soon and now it just feels things are awkward between us. Which sucks cause I have class with her. She also hasn't responded to any two text messages I sent her since then. Definite buyers remorse.
I keep trying to use attraction locations for comfort building and it never works but those are the places I'M most comfortable at. I need to figure out a day 2 idea that I can implement thats focused around comfort building but that's also fun. Also a place where it'll establish the theme of just her and me instead of interacting with other people. I learned that you cant just force seduction because of logistics, the comfort MUST be there.
Here's some pictures of that night.
http://fau.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2057341&id=33400331