Amarok
10-28-2007, 04:11 AM
I've been casually looking and reading into Style's annihilation method and Mystery's Method and it works. The girl just left my place earlier and another girl I was gaming previous was near begging me not to go home with her. The details will ensue.
Girl 1, #1, I have been trying routines on her to get comfortable with and using/internalizing the Stage A and C techniques and hoping for nothing more but a good friend and an unconscious pivot. I like her but mainly as a friend.
Girl 2, #2, I just met tonight at a costume party where #1 and a whole lot of mutual friends convened. #2 I did a little magic trick at the start of the evening and totally ignored her the whole night. Did some small talk and told her she owed me a dance at some point. We danced and I did five questions and got her to get me a drink at which I told her I would get next rounds. (I drank earlier because I wasn't expecting anything of this night). After which I ignored her and made fun with the group and strangers I met that night and complimented their outfits. Overall being the life of the party. If anything, having a great time with myself in my frame.
When it came time to leave I found out by a friend that girl #2 had intentions of taking me home. Intentions I didn't even know of. Earlier I had built comfort with her at the smoking lounge and showed some DHV.
The trip of the story is that #2 took me and #1 home! Before I got in the car with both #1 nearly implored me not to go home with her. She suggested that I might have a "change of heart" and what not. Well, #2 took #1 home and I told #2 to take me to my house cause I had something I wanted to show her a funny video on my computer.
She came over, and in short, she watched the video. The irony of it all is that I started F-closing with her to the movie "The Tao of Steve". I didn't number close but I never care for numbers. Numbers are wood.
In all it was understanding the social dynamics and 1. showing no desire 2. doing something heroic (it takes heroism for an otherwise introvert to talk to strangers and have a good time), and 3. retreating (thank you tao of steve)!.
Never take the methods for rules, only guidelines as Style instructs. It is true. Understanding social dynamics will take you farther than sticking to routines and steps. I have so far to go but I have gone farther than I have dreamed already.
I never thought I would F-close at my parents home with my dad finding the spent condom in the John and flushing it (I played it off nonchalantly, it was embarrassing). Getting so far on top of being a student with a student budget and living at home is amazing. You see I was a total AFC and believed I needed money, great looks, and my own pad to dream of F-closing. HAHA! That went out the window.
Any questions please let me know. This stuff is amazing. Have fun.
Fools mate!
Girl 1, #1, I have been trying routines on her to get comfortable with and using/internalizing the Stage A and C techniques and hoping for nothing more but a good friend and an unconscious pivot. I like her but mainly as a friend.
Girl 2, #2, I just met tonight at a costume party where #1 and a whole lot of mutual friends convened. #2 I did a little magic trick at the start of the evening and totally ignored her the whole night. Did some small talk and told her she owed me a dance at some point. We danced and I did five questions and got her to get me a drink at which I told her I would get next rounds. (I drank earlier because I wasn't expecting anything of this night). After which I ignored her and made fun with the group and strangers I met that night and complimented their outfits. Overall being the life of the party. If anything, having a great time with myself in my frame.
When it came time to leave I found out by a friend that girl #2 had intentions of taking me home. Intentions I didn't even know of. Earlier I had built comfort with her at the smoking lounge and showed some DHV.
The trip of the story is that #2 took me and #1 home! Before I got in the car with both #1 nearly implored me not to go home with her. She suggested that I might have a "change of heart" and what not. Well, #2 took #1 home and I told #2 to take me to my house cause I had something I wanted to show her a funny video on my computer.
She came over, and in short, she watched the video. The irony of it all is that I started F-closing with her to the movie "The Tao of Steve". I didn't number close but I never care for numbers. Numbers are wood.
In all it was understanding the social dynamics and 1. showing no desire 2. doing something heroic (it takes heroism for an otherwise introvert to talk to strangers and have a good time), and 3. retreating (thank you tao of steve)!.
Never take the methods for rules, only guidelines as Style instructs. It is true. Understanding social dynamics will take you farther than sticking to routines and steps. I have so far to go but I have gone farther than I have dreamed already.
I never thought I would F-close at my parents home with my dad finding the spent condom in the John and flushing it (I played it off nonchalantly, it was embarrassing). Getting so far on top of being a student with a student budget and living at home is amazing. You see I was a total AFC and believed I needed money, great looks, and my own pad to dream of F-closing. HAHA! That went out the window.
Any questions please let me know. This stuff is amazing. Have fun.
Fools mate!