Babyface - Insurmountable Sticking Point??

[diao]

I know there are lines to counter any shit tests HBs might throw at me for looking younger than I my real age - 19. But I'm thinking about something deeper.

I was just talking about this with a friend. We were saying how babyfaced ppl have pretty much an insurmountable obstacle especially when dealing with chicks of the same age or older.

I'm well groomed, not ugly, have decent fashion sense and pretty confident of pulling a 15, 16 yr old chick. I find them immature though. Chicks my age or older are difficult. I feel its cos I have a babyface.

We all know that chicks look for Survival Value in a guy. A young babyfaced man isn't going to come across as giving a sense of security. I can go to the gym, but my face isn't going to look any different unless I go for plastic surgery.

We agreed that babyfaced guys often get LJBFed the most. Even if they're really fun to be around and good conversationalists, women still don't feel a sense of security - that she is with a Man.

a guy can use as many negs as he wants to try build attraction, for example, but if he looks like he's 17, a 20 yr old chick might just think 'haha what a cheeky little boy' or something to that effect.

[claudius]

Looks don't make a man. If you think your babyface is a problem, girls will sniff out your insecurity. That's what's turning them off. Not the fact that you have a babyface. But that you're insecure about it.

[diao]

I didn't really think about my babyface before today when I had that chat with my friend. A female friend was also there btw, who more or less confirmed what we said. Though she did mention that its not a hard and fast rule.

[claudius]

Stop caring about what other people think. What they're saying is that it's abnormal for someone with a "babyface" to date older/older looking women. You can overcome. Go out, sarge, write a FR, and then have other guys on the forum critique. They'll teach you how to lay older girls.

You can't change the fact you have a babyface, so accept that. You can change how you view yourself and how you react to others reacting to it. Which will help you get laid.

[Sheek]

Work out. Get big, and you'll look older.

Either that, or wear 2 t-shirts under a tight sweater. The t-shirt sleeves will inflate your biceps, and make you look a bit bigger. I used to do that a bit when I didn't work out.

[ride]

Effe that, having a baby face dosent holds you back! I am 27 and look like I am 20. I date girls from 19-40. If you think it is a problem, it is. The problem like claudius said is in YOUR head. Change your style, wear edgier clothes. Work out, take martial arts. Do whatever it takes so you FEEL like a man. The women will feel it too and the issue will be gone.


Ride

[brravvo]

are you kidding?

i too have a baby face (thank god) but im 21.
it doesnt really matter.
you have to learn how to play it off, i think baby face is a good thing.
If you dont, then learn how to use it.
automatically you are different, which is a plus.

JOKE about it
tell her how you can sneak into a movie and pay the children's price if and when you shave.
there is aslo a song by some rapper it says "is it the whip appeal? or my baby face?" hahaha you just have to use it.
bring it up, seem confident, tell them that when your 30 you'll look like your 23.
tell them how your baby face makes you look innocent.
gets you out of trouble.
how your cheeks are adorable.
cocky-funny.

just dont over do it. throw it in their once in awhile. :D

[sleepyboy]

there is aslo a song by some rapper it says "is it the whip appeal? or my baby face?"

i think its clipse or lil wayne u speak off.

"bitch doesn't wanna fuck me she wants to fuck my car." - UGK

[Nox]

That's a limiting belief. Style is short. He got a taller girl.

That's not an exception. He's not the only one, I'm 5'8 and I once closed a 6' tall girl.

It's not a big deal, unless you think it's a big deal. This is not theory, this is something that you can see out there. The guys who don't care are the ones who get laid. So stop caring about the babyface, because really man... nobody else cares unless you do.

Who needs a strong "man" face when you have the balls and the attitude of Tony Montana or some other alpha male, leader of man?

If that does not convince you... welll... grow a full beard.

... unless I go for plastic surgery.

I really, really hope that's a joke.

[diao]

Yeah don't worry man, I'm never going to get even a piercing or a tatoo in my life. That plastic surgery comment was just an expression.

[DietCoke]

I can understand where your coming from on this question. Simply reply with something like oh believe me hun, when were 50 youll be so happy you slept with me tonight and I overlooked your childish remark and we got something great going because god knows women fossilize after 25, and your gonna need someone to balance out the ugly.

Dont hate on that. Just something that came off the top of my head while waiting for my show to come on. I know it's shit. but eh, play around with it and you might have a good retort for that statement.
DietCoke

[SONICBOObs]

Oh man..stoppit. You're taking my threads. Used the same words too. Not cool ;)

There was a thread on another site that said that ugly men just can't get girls. I mentioned how it could actually be worse to be too pretty or too "babyfaced" in some situations. At least ugly guys and older guys can dress well and be seen as a sexual threat (and NOT a rapist.)

I personally like women that are older than me, but I have a face that says "Hey Im 12!"

I even have a body frame that you'd think would counter that, but it always makes it harder for older women to dig you. Believing you're at a deficit with women your own age because you got babyface = limiting belief. But with older women it is a factor. No one wants to shabang with someone who looks like their kid.

Just like any physical setback, it can be overcome with great game or certain kinds of game...or just even the way you style yourself. I have long hair and it makes me look younger. I like the long hair though, so I keep and it makes things more challenging.

Of course having a babyface with older women IS an actual "not her type" setback, but of course it can be overcome.

Work the game like a crazy fox.

[SONICBOObs]

You do realize Im being sarcastic and am saying we think alike.. context.