When IT works and when I can't make it work?

[Dynamism]

It's a strange thing.
When I see a girl I'm interested in I automatically go into PUA mode and attracting her isn't even a problem.

But when there's a girl (nothing particularly interesting), it's almost as if I'm AFC, except for the neediness and approval seeking. I've tried to force myself, but I just can't begin the attraction process. Not that I wanted to get her, but I think it's a weird psychological thing.
Is that just me or do you guys also have that?

[Everest]

I do also have that. I always found that girls I'm attracted to are also far more attracted to me than those I'm not attracted to.

As long as you get the girl you want, that doesn't matter. But if you have to make friends with somebody you don't really like, it's a problem. The key for me was to find something - anything that i could like about them, where this person has a feeling you know. Is she bored? Well, I feel bored out of hell so many times. Is she just plain dump? Well, looking backwards I was wbAFC so many fucking times and wasn't aware of it also. We all have a lot more in common than we think we have.

I do not know anybody on this planet who can't teach me anything - even the worst ones are an example how not to be. ;)

Or did I go to far beyond you goal? :D

[Dynamism]

I do also have that. I always found that girls I'm attracted to are also far more attracted to me than those I'm not attracted to.

As long as you get the girl you want, that doesn't matter. But if you have to make friends with somebody you don't really like, it's a problem. The key for me was to find something - anything that i could like about them, where this person has a feeling you know. Is she bored? Well, I feel bored out of hell so many times. Is she just plain dump? Well, looking backwards I was wbAFC so many fucking times and wasn't aware of it also. We all have a lot more in common than we think we have.

I do not know anybody on this planet who can't teach me anything - even the worst ones are an example how not to be. ;)

Or did I go to far beyond you goal? :D
You were right on with that. ;) I've found the same thing (regarding your first two sentences). It's funny, because when I was an AFC the opposite was true.