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10-11-2007, 08:03 AM
ok... I am so confused what to do with my "success"
So, there is the prime girl (girl 1), girl 2 and girl 3.
Girl 1 and I are connecting, I have been on the most dates with her and spend the most time with her. Things are more physical with her (not f-closed yet and not in a super hurry to because of the other girls and my confusion right now)....
Girl 2 and I share a lot in common. I have taken things more on a "friendly" level and I kind of LJBF her with my comments but kept things flirty and kept kino going on throughout. Because of circumstances we have only had to "dates" alone but I have spent probably more time with girl 2.
Girl 3, had a date last night. First date and kiss closed (was planning on being friends with her actually, but, I got a much better vibe during the date than I had previously from her so she kind of grew up me).
So, that is the background info. I am kind of lost on how to keep dating girl 1 and 3 and maybe introduce girl "2" into "dating" vs. more friendly. I don't want to hide things but I don't know if these are the type of girls that would react well to me saying "oh, btw, I am dating other girls".....
Girl 2 I could see us being good friends but I am still attracted to her and really enjoy her company....I don't want to ruin things by starting something with her and then later deciding I like Girl 1 better or whatever.
To complicate things, for some reason I have set up "Dates" with both Girl 1 and girl 2 for tomorrow night! Just because of my schedule (I will see prime girl later in the evening).
I know that some people suggest to let people know upfront that you are looking for an open relationship. Wondering if it would be wise to tell girl 2 this prior to even attempting a kiss close?
So, there is the prime girl (girl 1), girl 2 and girl 3.
Girl 1 and I are connecting, I have been on the most dates with her and spend the most time with her. Things are more physical with her (not f-closed yet and not in a super hurry to because of the other girls and my confusion right now)....
Girl 2 and I share a lot in common. I have taken things more on a "friendly" level and I kind of LJBF her with my comments but kept things flirty and kept kino going on throughout. Because of circumstances we have only had to "dates" alone but I have spent probably more time with girl 2.
Girl 3, had a date last night. First date and kiss closed (was planning on being friends with her actually, but, I got a much better vibe during the date than I had previously from her so she kind of grew up me).
So, that is the background info. I am kind of lost on how to keep dating girl 1 and 3 and maybe introduce girl "2" into "dating" vs. more friendly. I don't want to hide things but I don't know if these are the type of girls that would react well to me saying "oh, btw, I am dating other girls".....
Girl 2 I could see us being good friends but I am still attracted to her and really enjoy her company....I don't want to ruin things by starting something with her and then later deciding I like Girl 1 better or whatever.
To complicate things, for some reason I have set up "Dates" with both Girl 1 and girl 2 for tomorrow night! Just because of my schedule (I will see prime girl later in the evening).
I know that some people suggest to let people know upfront that you are looking for an open relationship. Wondering if it would be wise to tell girl 2 this prior to even attempting a kiss close?