Too much of a good thing

[kidfreedom]

So I'm at UNLV - been here for a few weeks after a move from Hawaii.

I'm sitting in the commons and a girl passes by, maybe 10 feet away and waves hi to my friend. She gives me eye contact, and I return it, but I'm sitting and I figure I'll see her around - she's a friend of a friend.

I've made a promise to myself to not have a serious relationship here, because I want to practice game to the point where I can teach it as a profession. However..

She is the exact physical representation of my "type".

5'2, Half-asian, half-white, light brown hair, and a radiating smile. I have a feeling if I game her, I'll eventually fall into a relationship - she looks like she'd make an excellent girlfriend.

Should I be afraid of falling into a relationship? Or should I just let the events unfold and go with it?

[Apprentice]

I think that depends on what you want.

Don't make any assumptions about her as a person without getting to know her- building a perfect image of a woman based on assumptions made about physical appearance is a dangerous game. You start to build in you own mind's eye a construct of what you think she as a person is like- that's unfair on her because you're asking her to then live up to your ideals and it's not going to do you any favours if you are keen not to pursue a relationship to put her on a pedestal of any kind.

I'd advise that you let events unfold.

The very worse that could happen- if you're not keen on getting into a relationship right now- if you get to know her is that you do in fact end up with a girlfriend or if it turns out you don't like her then you're not in a relationship and free to practice Game to your heart's content.

Sunny

[Dragon]

So I'm at UNLV - been here for a few weeks after a move from Hawaii.

I'm sitting in the commons and a girl passes by, maybe 10 feet away and waves hi to my friend. She gives me eye contact, and I return it, but I'm sitting and I figure I'll see her around - she's a friend of a friend.

I've made a promise to myself to not have a serious relationship here, because I want to practice game to the point where I can teach it as a profession. However..

She is the exact physical representation of my "type".

5'2, Half-asian, half-white, light brown hair, and a radiating smile. I have a feeling if I game her, I'll eventually fall into a relationship - she looks like she'd make an excellent girlfriend.

Should I be afraid of falling into a relationship? Or should I just let the events unfold and go with it?

Stop thinking...experience the moment. Whatever happens happens because you want it to. Its simple as that.

[dman]

omg, why they hell are you even stressing about this?!?!?!

You merely made eye contact ONCE, you haven't even fucked her once yet.

After you have slept with her is the time to wonder about this "problem", if it is even a problen. Doesn't sound like one to me!

[dman]

"old shit"?! Is merely a few days after the OP.

[Zealous]

for the love of god dont be such a noob. why dont u try to see if u can even game her, before wondering about being in a relationship.

1 sticking point at a time

u SOO need to do the newbie mission!