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kodax
10-06-2007, 11:11 PM
:confused: Ok guys. This is my first field report on this site. My wing and I ,Shade, went out tonight and well this is what happened.

We started at a party at my buddy's house and got us out a set. The first set we came across was a 4.5 and a 5, i thought a 5 is better than nothing right now. ( i had a little to drink) : ) we started talking. i asked her if she knows any good clubs in greenwood. she told me about a couple and from there i negged her and i found out she had a party at her house but alot of people had left by then. she then went inside to find out if it was ok if we came in a drink was beer we had left, but she came back out and told us that the other people were going to bed and were getting pissie. so we just said good night to them. so then we just went to my buddy's house again witch was like two houses down. got in there and they were about to go over to the same 4.5 and 5 girls house. they knocked on the door and walked in. About 15 mins later they came out saying that there house smelled like smoke and cat shit. so thats #1 shot down.

After that a new set came out of another house. I walked up and opened them. the girl looked happy that we saved her from the talk she was having with the guy she was with, but as soon as i was going to talk to the girl she got on her phone and walked away and went into the house.. my wing had the guy talking, but after the target left he would not stop. so we ended up talking to this shit head for like 15 mins. about nothing. #2 shot down.

So after that we were like fuck this its time to go home. we went into walmart to walk off our buzz so we could drive. After walk the buzz wore off, so we were walking back to the car and in the parking lot there was two really cute girls walking into walmart. i was like ok third times the charm. So i opened the set asking them about clubs and they started popping off club names. Which lead me to ask how old they were? They were 16 years old. Wow. I just said thank you and we walked off.#3 shot down.

All in all the night was shitty but it was good exercise in overcoming approach anxiety. Thanks for reading.

(o_0)
10-07-2007, 05:41 PM
that shouldn't have happened if the girl was only a 5. wasn't there but i think you need some work on your body language and your dhv's but don't over do the higher value if shes only a 5. prob low self estem as it is. 5's aren't a challenge hell you don't need game for 5's. there shouldn't be any approach anxiety with a 5! you and shade aren't geting over approach anxiety at all. because, 1. your gaming 5's, 2. your gaming girls that are hanging out at your buddies house.

you wanna get over approach anxiety? go open one of the dimes at your school that you have NEVER talked to before. i'm going to get with you and set up a goal list that you should work towards and in mid Nov. i'll let ya wing me if you got your shit together.

Hawkeye
10-07-2007, 06:26 PM
Be carfull negging 5's they'll get hurt as they probably get it a lot, 5's should only really be an obsticle but every ones got to start some where try to approach a least 7's or a cut 6.5 i prefer it as i see pick up as a game and its no fun when its not challenging, trust me picking up an 8 fells so much better then picking up a 5
keep it up!

kodax
10-07-2007, 08:18 PM
i dont have approach anxiety. its mostly *Shade* what that. but at the time a 5 was better than beating off. she had a nice face she just was too skinny. but i plain on going back out and giving it another go this weekend.

Decibel
10-07-2007, 08:22 PM
You may wanna try not drinking next time. You really should be sober when you're just getting started. The MM takes a lot of focus to apply it right.

kodax
10-08-2007, 01:30 PM
You may wanna try not drinking next time. You really should be sober when you're just getting started. The MM takes a lot of focus to apply it right.

you know i did not think about that. thats a good point. thinks

Deft9
10-08-2007, 10:08 PM
Wow I just realized that even generally uneventful FR's like this one can be interesting to read. I need to make sure I don't spend to much time at this computer and focus on my own game.

kodax
10-10-2007, 06:50 AM
ok guys. i went to get somthing to eat. this was before i got my job back so i was eating really really cheap. when i walked in i saw a girl that i have not talked to sence 10th grade. but i acted like i did not know her. i walked up she was doing to the same thing. but about mid way into me ordering she was like your names ........ right? i told her ya, do i know you from some were? ya we go to school together. then i said ohhh you were that plump girl in the 10th grade? ( she lost alot of wight). but i went on in with like one more neg and all that good stuff. i # closed her. she wanted to meet at the civic center and we did. we meet in her car... it did not get xxx but it was nc-17 for sure.