Future Pacing my Isolating Ability.

[NextLevelUp]

I've been travelling for the past year and a half and one of the things I've noticed is that girls don't expect the average guy to be able to isolate and escalate properly.

Now I might be projecting this but I get the feeling that because they can't conceive of being dragged into a shower for sex (this is a hostel / dorm room environment) they don't help me to isolate as well.

So I've been experimenting with telling stories about my exploits to convey pre-selection and that I have the ability to isolate and escalate in a short space of time.

A couple of days ago I met a nice girl and when I dragged her into the shower her ASD went off and she mentioned one of the "off-handed" comments I made earlier.

Do you guys think that there was a more fundamental problem, not enough attraction?

Or should I not be talking are alluding to the logistics I've used in the past.

Also it might be an incongruency issue, I don't really give off a bad boy vibe and I tend to get into deep rapport with the girls I attract.

BTW the way the scenario is ONS's only, usually samed day f-closes.

[tannhauser]

when you are seducing a girl she wants to feel "special", and you want to make her feel that way.

A woman wants a man that can get any woman he wants, and she wants him to choose her because she has shown how she is somehow special. when you are seducing you might not want to talk about the other women you have seduced as this makes her feel less "special".

also talking about your exploits will make the girl wonder if you are a player.

If you want to future pace a better way would be like this.
tell a story about people or your friend doing it in the shower/hostel/park/ whatever and how some positive quality came about from it.

ex: my friend liz was travelling last year and staying in hostels. she just decided that she was going to experience as much as she could when she was in europe...even if it meant doing things that she normally wouldn't do, but she wanted to. honestly, I thought of her as a bit of a prude, but she told me how she had sex in a shower at a hostel with a guy named john-pierre or pierre-john, I cant remember.
she said that when she just felt a real conection with this guy (SP!) and knew that there was chemistry with this guy (SP!) and since she was exploring she was just going to do whatever felt good at the monent and live in the moment...wait....you don't know john pierre do you?

RT

[Englishbob]

I used to use Jean-pierre as an alias on exploits.
plus i know a liz from a year ago.

is she blonde with an exceptionally small waist
intelligent girl?

[tannhauser]

Englishbob,
it is her and she wants to talk to you!!!! Oh and BTW congrats on being a dad. she told you....right?

No, just kidding,
I made that story up, but I guess it is believable eh?

word!
~RTesq