Currently friendly with the ex, attempting for a FB arrangement

[doug20000]

Hey everyone, I'm hoping some of you may be able to help me out here. The short version of the story is that I recently broke up with the gf, but we are on good terms. We can hang out and talk to each other easily. I'm hoping to turn this into a casual relationship but am not sure the best way to do this. There are a couple of possibilities floating around my head at the moment:

1) Some time when we are together just make a move and see what happens. If she asks what is going on or something along those lines explain to her what I am hoping for.

2) Or, just meet up with her and talk to her straight. Tell her that I want an open relationship, no strings, until we find ourselves with other more serious relationships, ect.

A couple of other items to keep in mind: she broke off the relationship, not me. I also have a suspicion she may have or is currently hooking up with an ex. I have absolutely no solid proof, and any time I have tried to bring it up she immediately gets mad, ect.

I look forward to you're thoughts and suggestions, thanks!

[adan]

just make it happen dude!

just hang out with her and dont bring anything up about your past relationship or anything like that, dont tell her straight up because she´ll feel like a slut for just hooking up with you , take her somewhwere, make her laugh and have a good time, dont forget to kino her so she knows where its headed, and then make your move.

And keep doing that untill she asks you "what are we" or whatever variation,
and then take it to an open relationship.

[Queue]

I agree with Adan, game her like any other girl. If you do it right she will be way into you and you can take it to the FB level if you want to.

Do not under any circumstances tell her straight out that you want an FB! This will happen naturally if she has already had sex with you, she will want more as you game her.