Innovation
09-28-2007, 04:31 PM
First off I am fairly new to the forums however I have been studying these arts for nearly 3 months, the whole time I have been in a relationship and I am looking for advice on how to use them to strengthen that relationship and bring back more confidence in myself.
The problem is that I feel as if I have lost all control, I feel almost whipped you could say. I am an attractive guy, I have never had problem talking to women and feel very comfortable around them, but for some reason with my current girlfriend I feel very vulnerable. Almost out of place, kind of like that one unpopular kid at the football players party kind of feeling. This has caused me to become insecure of our relationship, i have thoughts of her leaving or finding someone better, or just plain becoming bored of me. That and the friendship zone...my my I am the "nice guy" you could say and I can feel myself being pulled that way.
What I would love to do is bring back passion into our relationship as well as avoid that friendship zone and re-establish the confidence in our relationship I once had, I want that "I know she wants me feeling"
Thanks
Innovation
The problem is that I feel as if I have lost all control, I feel almost whipped you could say. I am an attractive guy, I have never had problem talking to women and feel very comfortable around them, but for some reason with my current girlfriend I feel very vulnerable. Almost out of place, kind of like that one unpopular kid at the football players party kind of feeling. This has caused me to become insecure of our relationship, i have thoughts of her leaving or finding someone better, or just plain becoming bored of me. That and the friendship zone...my my I am the "nice guy" you could say and I can feel myself being pulled that way.
What I would love to do is bring back passion into our relationship as well as avoid that friendship zone and re-establish the confidence in our relationship I once had, I want that "I know she wants me feeling"
Thanks
Innovation