Major Bitch sheild...(or so I think) any help/input will be appriciated!

[DarkPrince]

Okay, She poked fun at me in facebook... so i sent her a msg back.. Ive been trying to be all cocky funny throughout the conversation but now Shes starting to get on my nerves, Shes the one who started it.

please Read and tell me how to handle this hoe!(start from the bottom of it )

I got her to qualify herself a few times. i NEVER qualified myself. IF i did i didn't notice. but plz plz plz!!!

thank you :)
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Rachel: Type much?.... I don't....

you're the one who does a good job at making yourself look mentally handicapped.
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Me: why do you type so much? It's kinda sad seeing you all fired up about this.
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Rachel: WTF? Was that supposed to hurt? if anything your inability to spell sure does.

I probably have gotten further in life than you have or will ever get. You are merely a source of entertainment for me since I can't go out and party (due to tonsilitis).

And what's with the eye comment? or the starbucks comment?
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Me: awww poor baby wants her bottle! =)

your part of the star bucks crowd ain't you =P
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Rachel: yeah much cuter than you will ever be.
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Me: aww your still a baby :) thats so CUTE! *pinches your cheeks*
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Rachel: I'm a senior.
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Me: what grade are you in anyways?
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Rachel: that makes absolutely no sense...
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Me: lol what a hard ass, we arnt in class are we? 02.04.07 6:56pm Rachel: yeah... i have tonsilitis... i have nothing better to do.

what kind of male uses "like" and isn't gay?

you can't spell worth a shit.

again... when a male uses "like" it usually because he's "like gay!"
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Me: it took you 5 in to reply to my previous msg.
Walton, Wow, thats one school I'm glad I'm moving away from. like seriously, I cant shake anyone out of it. each year someone graduates form it, but peopel keep fucking drag me back in it!
like i have to go back in it this Sunday to see a couple of my friends in the fashion show!
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Rachel: wtf?

Dr. Hand is awesome! She's the sweetest lady alive.

How are you replying so fast? No super bowl party to go to? Probably because you're a pompous arse... if you even know what pompous means. You would think for such a big head there would be a brain in there.

I'm happy with the way I am. I have enough confidence that suits me. I never have a problem with guys or friends in general.

What kind of person puts up his own picture in a group anyways?! If anybody has security issues, it's you my friend.

boo ya.
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Me: maybe you should be full of yourself a lil bit =P, not that there is much to be full of hehe...

your so stuck with Dr.hand! get ready for tomorrow
Im more than sure shell tell you her catch phrase!
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Rachel: let's just say I'm not as full of myself as you... certainly the most unattractive aspect in a person.

and did you notice I'm not the only person to bring up the fact that you aren't attractive?

Well... you're the one who goes to Georgia Perimeter... that's worse than Kennesaw!
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Me: not as? come on babe! I sense some confidence issues with you :)im sure we can work them out. but i guess, its because you go to Walton. I hate that freaking school!
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Rachel: lessons for what?
because I'm certainly not as unattractive as you are. Lol
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Me: haha, Rachel, you should be taking lessons =P
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[Pulse]

I would say this girl genuinely does not like you...

[DarkPrince]

okay, now i think shes just being a bitch

shes got one of her other friends going after me.. this is just gay, and now i don't know how to dig myself out of this

IVE DONE SQUAT TO HER!!!! she started it. shes the one who opened ME!

[Nox]

Dude... she does not like you. And sounds like you're creeping her out.

You're over-using C&F. It's try hard. And it shows insecurity. Get something interesting to say to a girl. I'm not saying don't use it. I'm just saying use a couple lines of C&F and then move on to an actual conversation.

And she's giving you hints on your first impression. You don't spell good. You answer too fast, so she reads between the lines and finds out you don't have anything better to do. You don't sound interesting. Read carefully. It's all right there.

Read a book. Greek mythology is allways inspiring. Something philosophic. Get a center. A perspective to look at the world from. And then try to share it with a woman. You'll be far more interesting.

If you use nothing but C&F, you're just a shallow random guy, with nothing interesting going on.

Move on to the next girl.

"But... But... She opened ME"

Yeah. She opened you. 1 IOI. And then she's saying all this. 1000 IODs. Learn and move on.

[Dragon]

This isn't a flame, count it as constructive criticism, uncut*.

okay, now i think shes just being a bitch shes got one of her other friends going after me.. this is just gay, and now i don't know how to dig myself out of this

Dude, you chose for the interaction to become bitchy, your actions took you to this point. Its easy enough to say its HER being bitchy, but your not accepting the responsibility of your contributing. As of how to get out, how about a sincere apology?

Okay, She poked fun at me in facebook... so i sent her a msg back.. Ive been trying to be all cocky funny throughout the conversation but now Shes starting to get on my nerves, Shes the one who started it.


If she poked you on facebook...something had to compel her to do it, you've been doing C&F the whole conversation...one trick pony. It works in the beginning but it gets annoying trust me, you need to establish your REAL which you haven't. 1st shes qualifying herself..cool give her something about yourself, your doing a negative vortex of take take take from here...what are you offering (really?) since its not human..your hiding behind C&F. 2ndly TAKE the responsibility you made the interaction this way..stated it above, she only responded accordingly rightfully, but "shes the one who started it" shows your still a kid and outcome dependent.

[DarkPrince]

Well thanks for the advice. And at the time i wa sover at my freinds house when this happend, I didnt feel like Explaining myself to her (shes a highschooler in the group) I met her that instant, I dont even care for her...

I tried to cut the thred everythign negative she said, I cut the thred and tried to start a new one. O wells, Ill just ignore her and all her buddies who are just being complete dicks now.

than again, I do blame myself for this, but presonally i know it shouldnt effect me, but it has on a negative aspect.

o wells, thanks for the advice guys.

what would YOU have guys said or done in if you were in my shoes?

this truly has gotten me down. I don't understand why. but it has.
-Prince

[Nox]

If she is the one who opened you, chances are you already have attraction. So I would just use some banter, like giving her a nickname. Probably I would have used "Princess" for her.

And jut have a normal conversation. Most guys on the internet are creepy. Girls know this. Hot girls get opened and creeped out by online guys who are typing one-handed. So fluff talk IS OK, because a lot of people who pop out of nowhere are weird. You can even use this for some banter. "So... how do I know you're trying to rape me or something?"

Then probably I would have just move on to qualification, and set up some non-threatening day2. Keep in mind online game has a different time perspective. It takes more of it to build enough comfort to meet her. And after that you really need to keep up with the kino. Don't field test anything over the internet. If you sound just A LITTLE off or weird, that's it. She doesn't know if you are there to rape her. Respect her feelings man.

You don't neet to feel bad bro. Ok, so it didn't go well. Who cares? Do you depend on her validation?

I don't know the answer on your case. But you shouldn't. Now easier said than done, I know, because your emotions control your logic, not the other way around.

Listen man, I really feel like you need to KNOW that you're an interesting guy. That gives confidence. I'm interesting. I know this. Because I know what it feels NOT to be interesting. And I know how to become interesting.

So here's my advice. I truly believe this is the best advice I can give you right now:

Start reading about something you're interested. Find new perspectives. Start doing something you love, but found yourself givin excuses not to do ("I don't have time" yada yada yada). Stop reading about PU.

Do this, read 2, 3, 4 or even more books in a row. Don't quit halfway even if the book is crap. I can assure you after reading 2 or 3 books you will FEEL more interesting. You will feel intelectual.

I can suggest you a good start, a TD recomendation and I can truly understand why: Atlas Shrugged. It will give you a new perspective on things, and that's what you need. You need to open your mind.

Also, for a new perspective, I really recomend some stand up comedy. Bill Hicks (greatest comedian ever), Pablo Francisco, etc. Apart from the perspective, find out what makes them funny. Analyze how they turn things around. Look for the principles behind it. You will be able to be funny without the use of C&F.

Take care man, best wishes.

[Crash]

as far as i can tell that girl is probably attracted to you. she probably just doesn't know it yet.

usually if you don't like people you don't talk to them if you don't have to. period.

next time she's all bitchy you might even want to say "your bitching is cute and everything, but it's getting rather annoying now. why don't you cut the bullshit and show me your sweeter side?"

should she still be all bitchy you can say "you're attracted to me". should she deny it you can say "you're still talking to me..." cause seriously, if she hated you as much as she said she does she wouldn't want to talk to you AT ALL.

and about the chatlog: be more unreactive. you're giving her material by borderline insulting her. lines like you're such a cute baby work if she's ready to step into that role and laugh about it. she has to be in a positive state for this to work otherwise it just infuriates even more.

and judging by her reactions she's very reactive and probably too immature for you anyway.

[DarkPrince]

Thanks nox.
I am currently in a middle of a book by chuck palahniuk (author of fight club), but U'm gonna pick up the TD recommendation and read that after I'm done with this one) And to be honest, this is the only place i would read about Pick up.
also when you mentioned if i should have said "So... how do I know you're trying to rape me or something?", Thats wouldn't have gone so well in this situation.
but thank you for your piece i do appreciate it!

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Crash thank you,
Thats what i was thinking myself, but I'm getting the feeling shes doing it for the sheer entertainment value.

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currently there are about 4 people there now just "roasting" me... this is EXACTLY why i joined the community to avoid, and they are hitting it on the nail. this is not even about Gaming anyone anymore. they took a fun lil group and turned it into this.

if anyone has Face book check out whats going on now

facebook.com/group.php?gid=2238179438

o wells..
-Prince