Need help with a much younger girl - mPUA's advice only please

[Mojo]

About two weeks ago I decided to venture into unkown teritory for me, picking up a younger, younger woman. So I picked up this hot 18 y/o with a tight body that is, oh sooo niiiiice. My question is where should I take her out? I've thought maybe doing the nature thing, a hike in the park or picnic. Maybe dinner at my place after meeting her for coffee. Though I wanted to ask if any of the mPUA's that had experience with younger women is 1) is your game different (she is at a different maturity level than I am - I am in my early 30's) and 2) what activities would be good.

Thanks in advance! This community is awesome :)

Best,

Mojo

[Greystoke]

Why do you ask only for mPUAs advice?

I have dated several 19 year olds and i'm in my 20s. But you don't want my advice, eh? :rolleyes:

[Superfreak]

Does not really matter at all as long as you make it fun. Age is just a number only difference between a 30 year old chick and an 18 year old chick is the older one probably has more baggage that you have to deal with.

Basically it all comes down to how you make them feel when they are around you.

Re read that last statement again as it is one of the most important things in PU no matter what method or style you use.

[cigamxes]

Mojo,

I am in my early 30s as well and from my experience young women (late teens and early twenties) are not any harder to game than older ones. In fact I would say if anything they are easier since they have less emotional baggage. As everyone else has mentioned already, the same rules apply. What I would do first is not worry so much if this is going to work out or not. Think of this as a learning experience.

A couple of questions to clarify your situation:

1. Have you ever done a boot camp? I am respectfully asking this since I am confused as to why you are requesting feedback from mPUAs even though your post indicates a lack of experience.

2. Did you time bridge the last time you talked with her?

3. You mention that you met her two weeks ago and seem to imply that you haven't gone out with her since then. Have you maintained a connection since you first gamed her? If you haven't she is pretty likely to flake no matter what you suggest you do together.

4. Do you have an established day 2 agenda that you have successfully field tested with other women?

5. Have you qualified her? Does she know that you have a reason to see her again other than you think she's hot?

If you answered "no" to these questions and you are seriously interested in seduction you should seriously consider enrolling in a boot camp.


Become familiar with the basics of time bridging. You should never be satisfied with just getting a girls contact info. Also you are getting way ahead of yourself thinking about what to do. You have to lead women each step of the way. Think of seduction like crossing a river over stepping stones. You have to consider each stone individually in order to get across dry; you are trying to skip over stones my man and that's going to leave you all wet.

If you haven't done so, develop an established Day2 agenda. The most important thing is making sure you are in an environment where you and she are comfortable. Asking a girl you just met to spend the day hiking alone with you probably won't make her feel comfortable and will increase the chances that she will flake. In my experience meeting at a cafe is a much smarter thing to do. From there you can build more comfort and trust which is essential if you want to escalate.

Lead! Lead! Lead! Once things are going well at the cafe bounce to somewhere else fun. I always just ask to meet for coffee but I meet at a cafe where there are lots of fun things to do within a walking distance. After coffee I get them exited about helping me to pick out a cool piece of furniture for my living room. Or I bounce with them to a vintage clothing store and dress them up something ridiculous. If you are having fun together it so much easier to end up at your place for a drink a netflix movie and a ride on your cock.

Good luck and tell us how it goes in a field report.

[sting]

Why do you ask only for mPUAs advice?

good point. this doesn't help you in anyway - established mPUA's aren't going to jump to answer your queries and someone who might have something useful to say about the specfics situation might be put off from answering it.

i've dated girls (feels weird to call them "girls") older than me. the key is to hold your frame regardless.. same as always.
as in talk to a 30 year old (as a 20 year old) like a 20 year old... talk enthusiastically about your favourite cartoon as a kid, and she'll get into it. if she doesn't, reframe as her being too "granny", followed by the usual push-pull according to her responses ... etc, it rarely even comes to that.

i assume the same thing holds when the boots on the other leg (older man, younger woman). do your own thing, which presumably you did to get the day 2... don't cater it for her.
if you've set this up right - she's worried that she's too young for you. dinner at your place with wine sounds just fine. if something you say or do comes off "age gap" problem, just look at her - no words even necessary - screeningly as though she doesn't get it. she will

cheers,
and think about the benefits and non-benefits of screening replies in the title,

Sting

[Maverick]

Do something exciting. Her attention span won't be the same as a woman who knows what she likes. Keep in mind this is more in line with babysitting, so chuckee cheese may be an idea. :D LOL JK.

I've dated women from 18 all the way up to 30. Try canoeing/kayaking or rollerblading/skating followed up by something hot/cool at your house to drink (depending on whether of course). I love doing that as a first date.


Cheers.
- Mav

[Mojo]

Shit, you guys are right. I don't need your advie :p

This girl is sooo into me. It was quite easy. One of the connections I made was giving her a sense I really understood her at a deep level - which, I actually do. It was easy, I simply found out what her relationship with her mother and father was and then told her things about herself that no one could of known. It was a psychic experience for her. By the way, if you know the nature of her childhood relationship to her mother and father, you can understand what she is like. The relationship with her mother and father creates certain characteristics in her personality and behavior each and every time. Psychology - great stuff... though this is a bit more advance so I digress...

My main question is where should I hang out with this girl. I was hoping for some cool ideas. Though I know more about this girl than any of you and now realize I am the best to answer this question.

Cigamxes, I already know all the basics. I sincerely thank you for your thoughtful response.

The plan is to meet her at a bookstore, run a few sexually charged routines, bring her back to my place and f-close like any other chick. I'll write a lay report for you guys.

Cheerio,

Mojo

[tony77]

Hey I have dated as young as 19 and have just taken them to bars as well as the cinema where you can do things under the cover of darkness!

[cigamxes]

Mojo,

Any updates on the barely legal front? ;) I like your positive thinking, just don't get attached to this one if things don't work out. No need for scarcity mentality my friend. Also, one of the most valuable things I learned from MM is that you train your ego just like a boxer would train. No one wants to be punched in the face but in order to fight you have to learn how. Similarly in MM there is no way around getting your ego bruised through flakes, lost interest, blow outs, etc. The key is to realize this is not a reflection of you as a person but rather part of the learning process.

Ciga