View Full Version : The Power of Jealousy!
Moxie
02-03-2007, 04:13 AM
We’re in Tantra – the place to be on Monday nights in Miami. It’s Mystery, Matador, Lovedrop and I. Matador walks in with 4 girls from previous night's sarging. Soon, the girls are fighting for Matador’s attention and hanging on his every word. He kisses all 4 girls – 2 of them in a 3 way and the other 2 in plain site of the rest and they all accept it. At the end of the night he takes 2 of them home and fcloses a threesome. Tight.
How did he pull this off? The key word here is jealousy.
Using jealousy pays off big time, if you haven’t incorporated it into your game, now is the time. This needs to be installed into every set you do!
To get the maximum effect the game plan is as follows. When in comfort after you have successfully attracted and qualified the girl evoke an attraction spike through a DHV and then roll off (Remember to use a lock-in prop so she doesn’t go anywhere) and talk to another girl and sit back and just watch what happens to the first girl the moment the IOIs start rolling in from the new girl.
By demonstrating a willingness to walk away after she has clearly shown an interest in you, non-neediness is communicated in the most effective possible way. That’s value. Think about it for a second, when a regular chump in a club gets attention from a hot girl, especially physical attention, he gets greedy - he locks onto the girl for dear life and soaks up as much sugar as he can get - because he simply doesn’t know when the next time is he’ll get so lucky.
Additionally, when she feels her own reaction to your gaming another girl, it will cement your value to her and make her realize how she feels about you. She now KNOWS she wants you and she now feels COMPELLED to protect her investment before it’s too late and some other girl get to take you home. Congratulations you have just graduated from a guy she’s attracted to, to a superstar PUA that she’s got to have even if she’s gotta do some old fashion cat fighting for it. Respect!
Odyssey
02-03-2007, 05:28 AM
awesome material! jealousy is idd one of the key elements! :)
sting
02-03-2007, 09:09 AM
...Matador walks in with 4 girls from previous night's sarging. Soon, the girls are fighting for Matador’s attention and hanging on his every word. He kisses all 4 girls – 2 of them in a 3 way and the other 2 in plain site of the rest and they all accept it. At the end of the night he takes 2 of them home and fcloses a threesome. Tight.
Matador sucks. should have fivesomed them:)
seriously, - Moxie,
your points about the power of jealously are agreed with.
Could you expand a bit about its use in the situation you've described i.e multiple full closes - as opposed to encouraging the girls to get comfortable with one another as a means to the same end...i.e 3+closes?
cheers,
Sting
Moxie
02-05-2007, 11:58 AM
He should have 10somed! :)
Jealousy is a great tool in getting multiple full closes from one night's work. Remember the point of A3 is to get the girl to feel invested in you. Running jealousy only serves to cement this feeling of investment. If you run it properly after a tight A3 you will find you can virtually eliminate flakes.
Here's how you use it to get multiple full closes. In C1 roll off and open another girl and DHV - you want to start receiving IOIs - especially kino based IOIs - in plain site of the first girl. Then when you reinitiate the first girl she will be extra receptive and closing will be super easy. The set will just be "On" and full close can be set up via a bounce/timebridge. The good thing about jealousy is that it is self reinforcing - if you used in on one girl with another, it will also affect the other girl when you go back to the first. You can repeat this process with 3 or 4 or more girls (but don't be too greedy tricky you don't want to be handing out a million lock in props) girls all within plain site of eachother and because you have social proof the sets just fly open and increase your value across the board. Make sure you get the phone numbers of all the targets giving you IOIs, you can get a bunch of hotties that way - it's easy to forget in the flurry. Pick the one you like the most and bounce her out of the club - this will really have a strong effect on the other girls who you can timebridge and go for the full close later on. Hope that helps.
- Moxie
sting
02-07-2007, 09:30 AM
Moxie,
Specifically - I was asking about the role of jealousy in getting the THREESOME in a situation where you're with a number of girls who've already been screened and i.e the situation you described in the thread starter. and how it stacks up against a game of having the girls get along with each other
in a nutshell,
SITUATION - multiple girls (lets say 3) on a date and the sarger. the 3 have already been gamed - attracted, screened and befriended.
DESIRED OUTCOME - 3some
GAMEPLAN - (and this is my question)
a) Jealousy oriented game - where your setting the frame that they're against one another for you - and if so, how to take it from there to a cooperative 3some?
or
b) set the frame of "we're all happy together", for which you would previously qualify their bisexuality.
anyone has anything on this - all opinions welcome.
Sting
Cedar
02-07-2007, 11:04 AM
...previously qualify their bisexuality...
Assume bisexuality. Stop talking about it.
Vision
02-07-2007, 09:28 PM
Hmm... I've done this a few times but the biggest problem I run into is having major player vibe. How are you making out with multiple girls in one venue and not getting serious player vibe and ASD?
nForce
02-08-2007, 08:10 AM
As what the previous guy said.
I was out the other night, and another girl I was gaming was out (HBhalls), although I hadn't seen her yet, so I'm making out with a chick, I stop turn around and HBhalls is there, needless to say when I try and k-close the HBhalls later on after her seeing me kiss 2 other girls, she wouldn't kiss me, it's not like she said no, or even pulled away, it twas wierd, I tell thee
Vision
02-09-2007, 10:12 AM
This post is great in theory... but seriously, how aren't you guys getting major player vibe? Have you gotten major player vibe in the past? What are you doing that you can make out with several girls in one night? Are you spiking buying temp ridiculously high? This isn't detailed enough of a post to be useful.
Dante Rockwell
02-09-2007, 06:41 PM
ive gotten player vibes while i have been doing this.. its kool in a way because even though she thinks your a player, she still wants you regardless...thats the beauty of good qualification...
that it what i was doin all last night.. merged mutlitple sets, isolated and created jealousy.. got the '' player vibe'' negativity from my target.. disarmed the negativity...all was good
Slick
02-09-2007, 08:00 PM
Awesome post on jealously moxie. I'll field-test it -_^
JuiceTerry
02-10-2007, 03:52 AM
Jealously is SO potent. This is a good thread.
Actually, I was Day Twoing a blonde HB9 last week. This girl is smoking hot, so this naturally elicited attention from these two girls sitting right beside me at the cafe-bar we were in.
I keep forgetting how, because of social proof, if women see you with a hottie, they find you hot. every single time.
SO, they opened me and I proceeded to game, right in front of my day two. As I got reverse kino and shitloads of IOIs, I could see my Day Two was consumed with jealousy.
I mean - her pupils were dilated with a combination of sheer lust and at the same time, a volcano of passionate anger was brewing up inside her - as other women now clearly found me very attractive, her attraction towards me was amplified.
When I diverted my attention bacy to my Day Two, the hot two set that opened me in the cafe-bar proceeded to get jealous. Jealousy- its a win-win situation. I nearly slipped on the puddles of water that had formed under our table that night.
I F-Closed my Day Two that night and number closed the girl beside me.
Jealousy is a VERY POTENT TOOL in a PUAs armourery.
Admittedly I haven't been using it as much as I should have been but reading this thread has reminded me how effective it is.
JT
reason
02-14-2007, 02:30 PM
Ha ha ha - you're a bollox ;)
Kurt Jaydestone
10-07-2007, 08:11 AM
a would love to tell a girl that i have bi female friends who i kiss along with there gf's for fun when we go out
Dynamism
10-07-2007, 08:24 AM
There was a dance yesterday at school. I had a "date" (we wouldn't call it that, but that's that). She was acting like a typical hard-to-get one, and she looked like she wasn't having fun. I said to myself that I'd either have a shitty night or I'll have an awesome night. I opted for the latter. I ditched her and danced with about six or more other girls and an hour later when she saw me sweating like a pig suddenly she had a change of heart. Although in a way still surprised that I opted to have fun rather than sulk like the other guys she's been with.
While I was dancing with one girl my friend (who was next to me dancing with another girl) turned to me and said "Your date is looking at you like she's about to kill you." I didn't see that my original girl was there looking my way. The girl I was dancing with got a little uncomfortable (people are weirded out by the option of "multiple 'dates'") but I told her to just keep dancing. I said that if my girl doesn't like to have fun, fuck her. Then my dancing girl's like "that's right man, fuck her!!" That was the most hillarious thing ever.
Jealousy - Use it liberally. There's plenty power in it.
Kurt Jaydestone
10-07-2007, 08:45 AM
dannnnnnng
that chick got pwned
once these two girl's bff's were
at my finger tips begging for validation since i was a balanced guy compared to there o so loser lame boyfriends
i was popular and modest about the meger popularity i shared with me my brother and my social circle
we were the kids to wanna be in school since my social circle also link with my brothers social cirlce who really ran the school
since i was labeld alphonso' brother when ever called out by an alpha male or female
soo long story short one day before school at the local gas station
i was buying goodies becuase i was high on weed lol
and the two chicks came up to me one kissed me on the cheeck and the other on got mad and kissed me one the cheek as well
my social cirlcle was shocked and i was at ease since i was so confused and didnt care of how it happened as long as that social proof was seen by
my friends i
just laughed and blushed becuase i was to high to go back and kiss the girl back plus i didn't have game back then
but ill make sure my son is prepared for situations like this as i will be also
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