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WeirdNordicDude
09-18-2007, 08:14 PM
Hey, well this is my first time posting( its a long post im afraid), kind new to the community thingy which have keept me up reading pretty late every night the last few weeks
Been reading the game(not finished yet), checking up other Pua stuff around the web etc
Pardon for the writing errors etc, my english aint that great i know.

Briefly (long)background story:
Nearly 1.5 years with no luck scoring after I had a breakup with my GF( were together for 2 years), getting addicted to MMOs, screwing over my social life totally and lacked of confident. I guess I hit the rock bottom of the sea!

So after another non scoring(living in a capitol city), though go-out-and-get-shitfaced-at-weekends summer i finally got into the college i wantet to:)
Ive decided, fuck it, its time for a change so i grew some balls and started sociallizing like a mad man in this new town from the very start( pretty small, like 7000 ppl living here, 3000 of them are students hehe). Ive become sorta of a story teller, funny guy that most ppl seem to like.

I suddenly got more populare and interesting than ive ever been before, got the confident back way up. got no worries talking to girl now, though I only hit them on them while out on the local student club at nightimes( need to practice to sarge women, not only have usual friend kinda conversation on daytime)

So ive had sex for the first time after 1.5 years the very first week i came to this place, which even gave me a bigger boost in my confident. the 2nd one up here was just this very friday, could be pure luck hehe. Im having a blast of my life tbh, meeting new girls often and increasing my social circle.

Ok so heres the thingy

Few weeks ago , i guess about three, at the club ive meet this beatyful8(i'd say 8, if not maybe 9) 18year old girl, (im 22 myself, I dont look a day over 18though:P) she was visiting her sister, she lives in a pretty big city about 2hrs from this town. We had a good conversation going, ended up kissing and fooling around at the club and an after party at her sisters place for many hrs. Though it was many ppl there, and i felt upon the situation that it was inappropriate to ask here over to my place(about 100yrds away), or maybe i just didnt have the guts for it right there. which ended up me going back to my place alone, though i got here numberxD.

So the next day(sunday), I woke up and had recieved a msg on my mobilphone oly saying a cute nickname in Norwegian(I live in Norway) with ! her sister had given me while we fooled around at her place. She had travelled back to her home 2hrs from this town.
So i replied something cute and silly cant remember what, and started texting eachother the following week regularly, i think it was like several times a day or so, just talking really interests and such.

So the next friday I went out just having fun with my friends and classmates I just got the idea sending her some erotic msgs for fun sake, just to see her reactions hehe.

So I went on with a little story of what could have happend if we both had gotten back to my place the last saturday. It was pretty detailed, about me foreplaying her from kissing her neck, adding some funny comments here and there, to giving her oral stimulation. I think i sent a package of 6 msgs in total :D There I stopped and wrote, "can u figure out the next part for me?"

After i sent it and waiting abit I though " what the hell have u just done", though i pretty much laughed about it tbh. So 20 mins later she answered something like: "pulling your face up from my vagina(wasnt that word but hard to translate it from norwegian to english), kissing your chest up to neck, while sticking my hand down your pants..." I think we wrote eachother about 2-3 erotic msgs over the night, after a while it got late and i had spent the entire evening at the club sitting in a sofa having sex by text messeging. So after a while the "goodnight sleepwell", msg came

The next day, saturday with no excuse to dont go out we still kept msging, no erotic stuff this time just friendly funny shit. I doubt that my imagination could come up with more things that hadnt been allready told the night before, couldnt be to dirty stuff either hehe. About midnight she msg me and said "aw we could hav fooled so much around and regreted it the next day". As i was really liking this girl more and more by now, I asked here what there would be to regret and it evolved into beeing a sorta serious but nice conversation over the next msgs. I was just beeing sincere to her and told her what ive felt about her, and the last msg she sent to me that night she said she couldnt wait getting back to the student town to meet me again:D

After this wierd, funny sex msg weekend, I felt as i was on top of the world, just pure happiness tbh.
Suddenly the replies from her msg started getting fewer and slower. Suddenly it took her 1 day to reply then 2 and 3. The last thing she wrote to me was asking for my email adress so we could chat on msn and then it went all quite after i sent her it.

After 5 days without any words from her I(i didnt write her earlier because i guess i didnt want to sound like needy or something), wrote her a friendly " sup in your world atm", msg while i was woking in the bar at the student club.

Now, she is coming back to the town visiting her sister, prolly going out, in the last month of october, which is in the weekend in next week. I know this because i have a pretty friendly relationship to her sister, not like we hang out or something, but talk frequently.

Whetver i like it or not I am prolly gonna see her anyways at the club.
I have abolutely no clue at all what i am gonna do tbh, if u have taken ur time and read this whoooole long story of mine, which I by heart swear is 100 % true. Please give me an advice:)

Should i like suddenly send her a msg in the midlde of next week? - if no reply again then what?

Just wait untill i hopefully meet her at the student club?( its about 98% chance that i will, no kidding such a small community is this hehe)

Just forget about her? there are other fishes in the sea, i know I just had one last friday and it was just pure, friendly and fun sex with nice i guess bout 6 (very cute thoughxD) girl ive been talking since the very start of my stay in this place, though. We were abit drunk i guess, but we are totally cool about eachother and the conversations re going well, though the subject sex havent come up again - prolly makes me sound like a total asshole for writing about this girl and sex msg story that been going through my mind lately while i recently screwed with another one.

I just cant get it of my mind that i might get the chance to meet this really fun and great girl again. I am young i know i wanna live my life at the max atm and just have fun, from my former and only GF ive learned that long distance relationships just dont cut the edge tbh. But neither if i had the chance again to meet her would i just screw with her(if that might wouldhappend who knows :?) I would show her a good time, hang out whenever she was her, just enjoying life.

So ive been sitting writing for toooo long now, im a man/boy that cant express myself while writing with just a few words as you might see if u havent fallen asleep in the middle of the text that is hehe. Im going to bed now i have class in 3hrs lol, though i must say i feel abit reliefed about telling total strangers about my life experience the last one and a half month. i hope you have enjoyed the reading and can give me contructive feedback.
Ladies and gentlemen, the board is yours! (or something like that :P)


Sincerely ----WierdNordicDude--- <----(regret the username abit now lol)

David24
09-18-2007, 11:02 PM
try to make sure that you are talking to many people and especially girls in the club when u meet her.. that way the pre-selected switch in her will be flipped on, and then suddently youre gonna be attractive to her agian=)

Just remember: What ever happens always think: its no big deal, its no problem... just chill be laidback and dont try to look like youre too into her=)

btw: fett aa se flere norske her=) lykke til mann! PM meg

peace

WeirdNordicDude
09-19-2007, 01:15 AM
thx for the feedback guys, I really appreciate it :)
i prolly would have sent her a msg someday soon, but ill stick to ur advices and go for a fresh start over again, will be funny to see how she reacts to that hehe

Think Ill write a field report when i have had some progression, good or bad ill write it down! (hopefully its good) will be in about 10 days or so.
Meanwhile im going back to my hometown this weekend, think im gonna see if I can charm girls in the big alienised city and compare it to the small student town i live in now. Will be good practice anyways:D Gotta seriously try to pull of some daytime sarging aswell so it suits this weekend perfect:)

If anyone else got some advices, bring em on:)

WeirdNordicDude
09-21-2007, 06:07 PM
Small update!

Well talked with 8's sister yesterday, and she asked about my weekend plans, as i was going to my home the captitol city oslo in norway i told her so.
"Too bad she replied, my sister is coming this weekend...".
Oh well, it doesnt change a thing, except i got more time to wait I guess, so i dunno really know when the field report about this girl is coming. Ill try to keep u guys updated about about the situation, if u wanna know whats happening :)

So it was my first night out here in Oslo for ever so long. Abit disappointing tbh, after going to a stad up show with pablo fransico. Me and a friend went to this "mature", bar where most the ppl where atleast 10yrs older than me hehe. After getting some drink I hooked up with a beatiyful asian dancer and her gf. Didnt go to good tbh, after a while a band entered the stage the music got to high and it was impossible to try and keep a serious conversation. I lost the girl hehe, so me and my friend went for another place like 10 mins down the street.

We went to Friday's, met some old friend there and i started scouting around for some girls to entertain:D
I found a table with 4 girls, and started cracking some silly jokes about myself, telling funny stuff u know.
So i kinda got stuck where ive allways been in this big city tbh, seemed like noone of the girls showed any big interest at all. Its got damn annoying, not that affects my good, joking and humurous attitude, but it just seem like everytime i go out in this city its like entering PlanetHell with ice cold women that are just to serious that no man could ever light their fire or make a joke to crack em up :S

I got one more night out here in this city, im not looking for some "pussy action" or anything tbh, I just wanna come into a grp show em a good time and be a fucking silly/funny dude they can have a good laugh about later hehe.
I guess my problem is that when i actually realize that i have sat myself down between a grp of "noone sexual creatures", i have a hard time just saying: "nice to see ya all, have a good time" or something or that i lack of making a good conversation at all to make any of em interested in me. They were all pretty good looking and all but its like when I sit down with em I gotta run the whole conversation, like a freeking interrogation or something, asking questions about them and their lives all the times. Im not making them uncofertable or something, atleast thats what it seems like and im not walking away from them with a bad feeling, its just that when i sit there taling with em i get all booring answers that leads to nothing. Maybe im asking the wrong questions or saying the wrong things, I just usually do the same as i do at my new home, but there i get ALOT more attention there and i just cant figure out why...

Im currently reading MM but aint got any serious material, just usually opening with the good things that pops up in my head and trying to live by the 3 sec rule hehe.

So i guess ill ask u guys for the answers for my problems! What the hell is wrong in the big cities? Have women watched so much standup shows and sitcoms that they are immune to pratical jokes? How do u get out of a serious topic when u where the one that brought it up?(example, ah so ur studying X, what is your long lasting dream to accomplish by studying X bla bla bla?)
Was i just unlucky with the set i approaced?(I didnt have any of thoose women in my "sight" or whatever) But they had been sitting down for so long with no guys at all heanging over em, why wouldnt they appreciate it once one finally did?:S

Well I guess I just came out this night as another chump hehe, though i though i wouldnt. Im gonna have to work on alot though i guess failure is a big part of this game hehe

WeirdNordicDude
09-22-2007, 08:00 PM
Another Update:P

Well I went back to Fridays, where i went yesterday and had a bad times making conversation with the ladies hehe.

So today me and some friends went back there, me and my mate started of pretty bad, trying to make some good conversation with some 30 yr old girl, about 8 yrs older hehe. It didnt go to well, so we started scouting around and found another set of ladies and i meet this beatyful 22 yr old, same age as me:D. We had a good conversation, abit intimate about here "previous", boyfriend and stuff, and ended up kissing all night long at the night club. As we were leaving the place her girlfirends went like "c'mon, take him back to ur place, his gourgeous", and shit like that:D So I guess we went of ny kiss closing and im supposed to talk to her tommorow and arange a meeting between us :D

Ofc im hoping for a final closing with her then but i guess i have no expectations whatsoever hehe. just hoping for the best.

Wish me the best of luck and ill write a small field report what happend tommmorow if she is interested in seeing me:)