Approach now or wait?

[Top Dogg]

Hi there..

I need some advise. I really like a girl from work who's currently a manager in another team. She recently quit her job and her last day at work is on Thursday because she want's to focus on her study.

So, basically she has a lot on her mind at the moment but I am wondering if I should approach her now or for example text her after she's gone? And what's the best way to approach her.

We recently talked about the fact that we're both single, relationships and having kids yes or no. However, I didn't make any move :( I know she's desperately seeking but I'm not sure if I am her type.

What should I do?

[Techniq]

Since she's leaving, there are no repercussions if she says no.

And if you're anything like me, if you don't do it, you'll be left with regret of "What if" that will haunt you for years afterward.

Dont use text.. do it right then and there, in person. talk to her... a straight up, direct "Its in the last few days here I've discovered I've grown really fond of you, and I find you more attractive than ever" As if you just 'discovered' you were attracted to her. Then ask her to join you with your friends on a specific date for drinks/party/whatever .....and of course stay in touch.

texting is my pet peeve.. it really is. text is so weak, so beta. I hear about every guy talking about when he should/shouldn't text her.. those mind games will drive you crazy..

Just GO for it!

[Tim Strong]

whoa definately now... what good does it do to wait?

your sig is "You never get the girl you don't approach"

yet your question is......

come on man! by a player not a benchwarmer! go for it man

[Epicure]

What you should do is quit making excuses and quit imagining her giving you a negative response.

Just approach her and tell her that you wish you had more time to get to know her, tell her you would like to call her and just ask her for her number.

You have absolutely nothing to lose by expressing your intent and and asking her.

[Hustle]

What you should do is quit making excuses and quit imagining her giving you a negative response.

Just approach her and tell her that you wish you had more time to get to know her, tell her you would like to call her and just ask her for her number.

You have absolutely nothing to lose by expressing your intent and and asking her.

Money!

Dude, and I mean this with all the love in my heart: "Grow a spine, reach down and reaffirm you manhood, and go make a move!" Women want a MAN. Don't be a scared little boy. Walk up to her, look her in the eye, and speak as if you KNOW she is going home with you. In your mind its a done deal! Like the old saying "Act as if!"

For all future cases: if you ever ask yourself whether to approach or not, the answer is ALWAYS a resounding "YES!" And the time to approach is ALWAYS "NOW!"