DeviousEnglish
09-16-2007, 12:45 PM
Hi guys
Im 23 and i live in England. I am completly new to the whole PUA thing.
I picked up a copy of "The Game" the other week and it completly blew me away. I recently came out of a 4 year relationship which has left me a little downhearted and wondering if i would meet someone else. ( i think this is quite natural after a long relationship). Im half way through the book and its made me a feel alot better about my situation and given me a totally new direction. Im you AFC and i have always been very nervous about approaching girls, talking to girls etc etc.
Right lets cut to the chase!
Yesterday i put together a cheat sheet of different openers, games, tricks that i picked up from books and off the net to use that night.
I went out with a friend of mine who i have a told about this book but he has yet to read anything.
I decided that i was gonna go to a few regular bars first and sink a few drinks before moving on to somewhere i was going to try and run a routine. However when i was at the first bar i had just finished running the Mind reading number game on my friend when the waitress came over and asked if we wanted anymore drinks so i said " No thanks, but do you mind if i try something on you" She said "OK" i said " Think of a number between 1 - 4, you got it?" she said " yea " i said "Three" she said "Two" i said " Shit, you must have something dark about you" She laughed and walked away to carry on working. The reason why i quickly treid this was i wanted to see if i could do it just off the cuff! Making sure that i had good eye contact, good smile and that i was looking relaxed and confident which i think i did quite well. Even though it didnt work! Fuck it dont matter.
After visiting a few more bars we decided to find somewhere that was a bit more happening so we went to a large bar that was open late and was playing chart music which usually attracts nice, young girls. When we arrived we went in making sure i was head up, smiling and walking with confidence.
We spent the next 30mins going to the bar and getting drinks and popping outside for a cigarette.
Then when we came back in i spotted a 2set not to far from the bar. One girl was HB5 and the other was a HB7. These girls came across as quite shy just kinda of looking around, not really dancing and not really talking. I turned to my mate and i said "go to the bar and a get us some drinks then come and find me" i decided i was gonna make my move. I approached them from the side as they were facing each other standing by a post with drinks holders. At this point i might mention the music was quite loud and thought this was gonna be a problem when i came in. Anyway i leaned in quite close so they could hear me and i said " Can i get your opinion on something" i think i had to repeat this a few times due to the music. HB7 said " Well, i know more guys that have cheated than girls" i said " OK, what about you?" The HB5 said " Well i guess guys, i agree with my friend i know more guys that have cheated" I tried to read how they reacted to it but i could'nt help but feel that they thought it was a chat up. Then i said " I only ask because i was getting my haircut the other day and i was reading one of those girlie magazines you guys like to read and it said that girls actually cheat more than guys do" Immediately the HB7 said " Well i kinda agree i just think that girls are better at hiding it than men" at this point i realised she had just said what i was gonna follow up with. From there i just continued to agree by saying " Yea thats what i thought, guys always tend to want to brag and tell there friends". They said a few things between each other and i said a said a few things but found myself wondering what to say next when i think i said " So how long have you guys been friends etc.. ( at this point i used a bit of kino and pulled them both in closer to do the best friend test!) which went a bit wrong because they didnt look at each other but i think i managed to pull it off! After that i said to HB7 " do you believe in mind reading" She said " No" it which i ran the number game Pick a number between 1 - 4 which didnt work! Then i tried it again with her friend but with the 1 - 10 instead and that didnt work! ( any advice ). oh yea i forgot to say! when i got the HB7 number guess wrong i turned round and said " you are obviously more intelligent than you look" dunno if this was a good thing or not! Anyway after my failure i moved on to the 5 question game which i thought would defo get them. I explained it to the HB7 and tried to get her to bet that if i won she would have to buy me a drink and vice versa. She wasnt feeling it or maybe didnt understand (loud music again) so i did it on her friend instead and i got her on the 4th question which i got a good laugh from! (was well happy about that) then did it on the HB7. I got her aswell on the 4th question but she wasnt as impressed! This girl basicly came across as very quiet and shy and just very unresponsive and dont think it was to much to do with me or my game ( however im aware my game is poor but certainly better than the guy who later that evening i notice tried to chat them up but only lasted 30seconds before standing there with a stupid drunk look on his face!) At which point i ran out of things to say and said " Its been really nice talking to you, but i better go find my friend".
So there it is! Im well happy i made my first attempt and im beginning to understand the angle. However im not sure my material was suited to that situation ( loud bar/club )
any advice or general comments appreciated!
Im 23 and i live in England. I am completly new to the whole PUA thing.
I picked up a copy of "The Game" the other week and it completly blew me away. I recently came out of a 4 year relationship which has left me a little downhearted and wondering if i would meet someone else. ( i think this is quite natural after a long relationship). Im half way through the book and its made me a feel alot better about my situation and given me a totally new direction. Im you AFC and i have always been very nervous about approaching girls, talking to girls etc etc.
Right lets cut to the chase!
Yesterday i put together a cheat sheet of different openers, games, tricks that i picked up from books and off the net to use that night.
I went out with a friend of mine who i have a told about this book but he has yet to read anything.
I decided that i was gonna go to a few regular bars first and sink a few drinks before moving on to somewhere i was going to try and run a routine. However when i was at the first bar i had just finished running the Mind reading number game on my friend when the waitress came over and asked if we wanted anymore drinks so i said " No thanks, but do you mind if i try something on you" She said "OK" i said " Think of a number between 1 - 4, you got it?" she said " yea " i said "Three" she said "Two" i said " Shit, you must have something dark about you" She laughed and walked away to carry on working. The reason why i quickly treid this was i wanted to see if i could do it just off the cuff! Making sure that i had good eye contact, good smile and that i was looking relaxed and confident which i think i did quite well. Even though it didnt work! Fuck it dont matter.
After visiting a few more bars we decided to find somewhere that was a bit more happening so we went to a large bar that was open late and was playing chart music which usually attracts nice, young girls. When we arrived we went in making sure i was head up, smiling and walking with confidence.
We spent the next 30mins going to the bar and getting drinks and popping outside for a cigarette.
Then when we came back in i spotted a 2set not to far from the bar. One girl was HB5 and the other was a HB7. These girls came across as quite shy just kinda of looking around, not really dancing and not really talking. I turned to my mate and i said "go to the bar and a get us some drinks then come and find me" i decided i was gonna make my move. I approached them from the side as they were facing each other standing by a post with drinks holders. At this point i might mention the music was quite loud and thought this was gonna be a problem when i came in. Anyway i leaned in quite close so they could hear me and i said " Can i get your opinion on something" i think i had to repeat this a few times due to the music. HB7 said " Well, i know more guys that have cheated than girls" i said " OK, what about you?" The HB5 said " Well i guess guys, i agree with my friend i know more guys that have cheated" I tried to read how they reacted to it but i could'nt help but feel that they thought it was a chat up. Then i said " I only ask because i was getting my haircut the other day and i was reading one of those girlie magazines you guys like to read and it said that girls actually cheat more than guys do" Immediately the HB7 said " Well i kinda agree i just think that girls are better at hiding it than men" at this point i realised she had just said what i was gonna follow up with. From there i just continued to agree by saying " Yea thats what i thought, guys always tend to want to brag and tell there friends". They said a few things between each other and i said a said a few things but found myself wondering what to say next when i think i said " So how long have you guys been friends etc.. ( at this point i used a bit of kino and pulled them both in closer to do the best friend test!) which went a bit wrong because they didnt look at each other but i think i managed to pull it off! After that i said to HB7 " do you believe in mind reading" She said " No" it which i ran the number game Pick a number between 1 - 4 which didnt work! Then i tried it again with her friend but with the 1 - 10 instead and that didnt work! ( any advice ). oh yea i forgot to say! when i got the HB7 number guess wrong i turned round and said " you are obviously more intelligent than you look" dunno if this was a good thing or not! Anyway after my failure i moved on to the 5 question game which i thought would defo get them. I explained it to the HB7 and tried to get her to bet that if i won she would have to buy me a drink and vice versa. She wasnt feeling it or maybe didnt understand (loud music again) so i did it on her friend instead and i got her on the 4th question which i got a good laugh from! (was well happy about that) then did it on the HB7. I got her aswell on the 4th question but she wasnt as impressed! This girl basicly came across as very quiet and shy and just very unresponsive and dont think it was to much to do with me or my game ( however im aware my game is poor but certainly better than the guy who later that evening i notice tried to chat them up but only lasted 30seconds before standing there with a stupid drunk look on his face!) At which point i ran out of things to say and said " Its been really nice talking to you, but i better go find my friend".
So there it is! Im well happy i made my first attempt and im beginning to understand the angle. However im not sure my material was suited to that situation ( loud bar/club )
any advice or general comments appreciated!