where im at after 250 hours of club dancefloor game

[tasman]

what 250 hours of club dancefloor game taught me
just thought people might be interested to see what i learned from this much time on club dance floors since it seems most people dont do it that often,
also included what stuff ive ended up using out there.
i also tried not to write stuff thats already been said heaps before
all feedback welcome


what:
3 nights a week approx 10 hours times 6 months
me and my wing
no f-close first month just getting use to opening and talking
this month f-close every week of month cold approach in clubs



to loud to talk to more than 2 ppl at once
dance club so almost every1 on dance floor except big social groups usually older at table and heaps of ppl queing at the bar
guys form circles around girls all looking at the girls in the middle but none open them
girls dont seemed to get opened that much and if they do guys just grab them not much talking involved but a lot of ass groping
youll see ppl like that who have hooked up theyll be making out and all over each other or just dancing all over each other but never talking...
can tell when a girl is looking around and just wants to dance like a ho with first guy who comes up to her but will only dance with him for couple of mins
waste of time if you just dance with her
waiting in ques is gay
girls never come to clubs alone
start of night all girls on dance floor end of night way more guys
dont hit on girls to early let them have a few drinks and few guys hit on them first
to get them warmed up
girls are a lot more aggressive so for a lot of girls its either all on or you get blown out without really getting a chance to talk also girls rely big time on their friends so more often that not its a friend who blows you out not the girl you opened.



not really opening 10s
dont worry about dancing just approach i cant dance at all just worry about making sure your talking the whole time so no1 can tell you have no idea how to dance
if you ever have to dance just stand behind the girl and shell grind against you, all girls have it inbuilt into them how to grind against you, this is one place were big belt buckles are a pain in the ass and keep catching on them...

open 2 sets bigger sets still open alright its just way harder to get to f-close because so many more ppl have to like you for it to work.
dont isolate unless its from a big group 2 sets stick together
dont make out if the girl wants to just tease her dont let her get what she wants make yourself seem like a challenge.
talk to both girls or however many are in the set one at a time just make sure you go round and talk to them at some point introduce yourself talk some shit flirt with them try to do so pretty early on
dont introduce yourself to target though make her ask for you name later on
leave boring fluff questions to later on first couple of mins has to be interesting


18 year olds hell, older the better(in my country just have to be 18 to get into clubs)
girls with boring lives easier
girls who dont go out much very easy
dont kino too much just arm around lower back when you talk now and then if you dance just touch her neck hands etc
dont peck, make sure the girl leans in to you, does mean you dont hear what she says sometimes though :P just change the subject...
dont need a wing to distract obstacle i think its a better look if you can keep both of them occupied then your wing can turn up a bit later on if he wants to and likes the girl...
if you ask a girl what shes been up to tongiht 9 times outa 10 shell say dancing...


phone numbers are total bullshit just you bailing out keep going dont be a pussy
only get if she is leaving and dont expect it to go anywere
if you txt her the next day expect either no reply or will reply to txts to you mention meeting up then wont reply
still get it and try though since it only takes 5 seconds effort and occasionaly they go through
if you dont f-close on the night though your chances drop by about 95% no matter how far you got with the girl beleave me ive spent 4 hours straight with girls going real well making out getting on real well with friends etc then try to set up another meeting and theyre busy or already got plans blabla... dance floor seems really only for one night stands and a lot of girls will be in this mindset and neither of you will even attempt to get each others number.


first couple of mins very important
girls are usually always in groups of just girls and if you approach one girl all the rest will watch what you do just waiting to jump in and drag their friend away from you if the girl you open looks at them even a few times your fucked and theyre signalling to their friends to bail them out
can get some big rejections girls have lot of power on dfloor
but who cares shes not the only girl in town the next ones only couple of steps away
typical rejections include
pretend they didnt hear you, were having a girls night, shes my girlfriend, were going to the toilet/get a drink/smoke,
up to shoving you away before you even open your mouth, in your dreams, i dont want to talk to you, this is a dance floor its for dancing not talking,
who cares, NEXT
you do get rejected quite alot but its usually early on so you dont end up wasting time
on the other hand if she asks a question back real early you can be almost 100% certain shes interested...

[tasman]

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what sorta stuff i say:
if girl asks you what you been up to tongiht i say just been going around catching up with people, got lots of mates out tonight all round the place its good to see them and find out what theyve been up to... another good time for a story like
by the way dont ever hook up with a girl in a public toilet...
yeah my mate mickey mouse had been drinking with us until late saturday night when he disapeared and i hadnt heard from him since but apparantly he met this girl in the toilets of a public park when he was stumbling home drunk and they had started talking and one thing led to another and she ended up giving him a bj under a tree then went home with him and they got into bed and started making out and he thought hed repay the favour so he went down under the covers and started pulling off her pants when he felt something hard 2 seconds later his worst fears were confirmed when she said so what do you think of transexuals? ...

if a girl asks you what you do for fun or hobbies i say
martial arts(did about 1 month of martial arts lessons 3 months ago but can still talk about it and pretend im still doing it, tell story about how this week we did knees to the groin and we had to knee each other in the groin as hard as possible while holding these big red pads in front to protect ourselves and even with the pad there it sent massive shivers down my spine and was the worst thing thats happened to me all week... apart from that thing with the midget... na i cant tell you its a sensivitive issue :P... na you wouldnt understand...
i play guitar, story about the time i smoked pot with shihad
just started rock climbing, story about that...
gym, party, uni, painting, play drums, write electronic music ... blabla just have a big list and throw in some stories
just make it sound like you got lots on and know lots of ppl can easily get away with lying.



happy,playful,fun,teasing frame dont just ask big list of questions was guilty of that early on

ask her age, make her guess yours, convince her your 7 years older than you are, laugh at her for being so gullible, sometimes i forget to tell the girl im not as old as i said doesnt seem to matter
depends on the girl though i guess.
if she asks what you do say secret agent, can use callback humour on it, youve been spying on her so you know all about whatever shes telling you, you know how much trouble she is, youve got to keep an eye on her and keep her outa trouble...

push pull when shes into you like the standard what starsign are you, o :| well its been nice talking to you bye, start walking off, if you use to early she wont care your leaving
if she asks wahts wrong with her starsign just say its the worst star sign or *** are mischevious
look at that mischevious face :P i hate to think what your planning right now...

ask her if shes a good girl or a bad girl,
if she says goodgirl, o well it was nice meeting you, pretend to leave or your mum must be so proud of you...
if she says badgirl,yeah you look pretty mean or thats what they all say...
if she says a bit of both, im sorry im only really looking for bad girls... or whatever i can see that glint in your eye, your trouble...

ask her if you can see her phone then say thanks and pocket it

tell her your worried your sister might be a lesbian and she has just shaved off all her hair plus youve heard stories of her making out with other girls, how do you tell if a girl is a lesbian?
...and while your on that topic, how far has she gone with another girl, does she prefer blondes or brunettes,



later on stuff like
ask her what she looks for in a guy, is she flatting or living at home, get her to show you her nails, you can tell alot about a girl by her nails if shes got fake nails thats a very good sign she shaves or at least keeps very well trimmed plus is clean and will prolly be wearing perfume.


f-closing
tell her youve got plans for her tonight shell always say what
youll see.. and change subject if she keeps asking you waht youve got planned for her big ioi




to f-close i usually just say later on at approprite moment your coming home with me tonight...
(usually seem to end up at girls house though so have condoms in wallet)
of if she says were leaving now, say ok lets go...



girls seem to want to stay out till 4am ish even if they agreed to come home with you at 2am
theyre on your side now and will help to sort out logistics of f-close





to get her to ask you a quesiton just ask her hte question and shell ask it back to you





stuff to make friends like you

palm reading(really easy to learn just google it only need to learn the 3 main lines plus make up a sex line just choose a random line and make up some shit ie omg your sex line says your into bondage,
easily learn it in 1 hour have never had a chick not ask me to read her palm when i mention i can palm read) quite often friends want to be palm read as well

camera is prolly the best way ive found to quickly get a group to like you make sure it has a display on the back so you can show ppl the pics as soon as you take them
-ive got some mates in gayville that keep giving me shit aobut how the girls in goatsville are boring and dont know how to party so i need some photos to prove them wrong
try to find stuff to hassle them about the photo,



simple coin tricks make the coin disapear by palming it
for some reason ppl always assume it went up your sleeve










drinking helps couple of shots of tequilla, few wines, (with beer you gotta piss lots),
to much you dont remember, right amount you can talk forever about anything, more confident,

dont masturbate
asians isolate you from their groups early if they like you

problems=friends,

i hate girls wearing bright red lipstick and girls who wear those dresses that look like theyre made from tea-towels and you could dry your dishes with them

whats the last thing that goes through a flys mind when it hits a car windscreen?
its arse

ps what did mystery mean by saying avoid the dancefloor its a trap in venusian arts?

[cooliojones]

I like this, a lot of cool stuff here.

[Hawaii]

This post is very imformative and I like the ideas and examples. I plan on trying the techniques myself.

[apg96]

great stuff man, i just bookmarked it to come back to later. Just got my fake so next stop is the clubs.

[sunn69y]

Thanks man, cool to read, keep up the good work, plough through no matter what, may your journey be filled with lots of adventures.

ps to get her to ask you a quesiton just ask her (hte) question and shell ask it back to you


hte?

[Astonish]

I'm stoked to see someone really having a go at dancefloor game and trying to figure it all out. Its not impossible. Clearly tasman has knuckled down and is reaping the benifits. Thats fantastic man.

[Englishbob]

It seems quality of girl is reduced in dancefloor game - low esteem girls, girls who dont do much.

i guess it depends if your only gaming with pure intention of the lay or if your going for a quality girl.

To each his own

[dtroy]

Well done tasman,
Sarging the Dancefloor is not easy , and I'm still trying to fully figure it out.
Most of the guys try to avoid it, but I love clubs and dancing, and that's where I wanna sarge.

So, what you do is basically a direct approach, and then stack with routines ?

BTW, Here are some of the problems I see with dancefloor game:
-The girls got ADD.
-The music is loud.
-Opening a set of more than 2 ppl becomes a real challenge, simply because not all of them (if any) would hear you.
-It would be easier for guys (and/or friends) to AMOG/cockblock you .
-Stupid canned openers, or any other material that works elsewhere, would be useless out there.

You have to rely more on your body language (and have a high energy level) than on what you say.

Englishbob, I have to disagree with you. I don't think the quality on the dancefloor is any different than anywhere else in the club. Actually most HBs love to dancing, and at some point will hit the dancefloor.