Royas
09-16-2007, 07:25 AM
Hi,
First off you need to know this thread hasn't got anything interesting in it. No really, nothing original, plain and probably badly written (English is my second language). I wrote it here because it would be lonely on my hard drive. It's a boring field report of a young man starting out his game and is mainly for myself. I felt the need to write what happened but hey...maybe someone hasn't got anything better to read for the moment and probably can relate to a few things that happened, anyway here it is.
So I'v been reading all kinds of material since july (started with DeAngelo stuff and eventually discovered and got hooked by Mystery and his method). Reading and not practicing until last night. I had a little game before hand, I would appreciate myself as 80% AFC if that makes any sense.
So I have all this knowledge in my head, I'm psyched up, made a friend read some to eventually build him into my wing. Tonight was the night we would make the decision of improving ourselves and our lives, if we opened sets it was on, if not then we would dwell in Afc and yes, shame.
I'd been reading and watching a few videos all afternoon, got my "routine" planed and made a sheat in my backpocket. I planned to go through the entire attraction sequence (A1 to A3). For a first night it was more than enough.
I knew where I wanted to practice and already had AA-nothing new here, then my friend calls and invites me to join him and his friends to a distant nightclub. The idea seemed good, I could get lots of practice and also meet and socialize with his friends.
So I meet them over there, psyched up, have a nice golden shirt (my idea of beginning peacocking), cool jeans and looked handsome and fresh- was in a great mood and eager to start off.
As I get introduced to the group (mixed group with couples and singles) one of the girls, pretty petite brunette in a sober red dress asks me where I'm from.
So bear in mind, my head is filled with the method from those many books and videos, she's a healthy woman so I automaticaly respond in a cocky playful attitude.
I keep a straight face, look her in the eyes, stand proud : "Well I come from over there (thumb points backwards), was in a car a minute ago".
She looks at me impassive then asks the same question.
"What do you mean ? Where are you from ?"
"That's a boring question. Tell me, what's your favorite color ?"
"Huuh, black."
"Wrong, red."
"I don't get it..."
"Well, didn't it occure to you that question might hurt me, somewhere deep inside..."
She slightly frowns. I'm thinking I'm cool, then the group heads to the club, pay our way in (lucky me goes through without paying, pure coincidence one of the bouncers is my neighbor) so I wait for them inside.
My friend comes in first, looks rather bothered and tells me, "dude I don't know what you said but my friend's didn't appreciate what you told them".
I don't get it, what the f*** did I say ?! Apart from the girl I teased a little as if she was my sister, I was polite.
I'm confused but never mind, I'm in a good mood, didn't have to pay and I'm gonna open for my first time :)
The group and I find a place, take a few drinks. The music is blasting out, crappy techno-electro whatever, really loud though. I chat a little with the guys and ask my friend to watch me open a set. There were many but as I saw mixed sets (so that's guys and girls) I saw a huge wall, gonna have troube plowing thought that but one thing at a time.
I take a few steps, notice a 3 set leaning on the bar, turn my head, body facing out and engage.
"Hey did you see the fight outside ?" Two of the girls lean in, the music is dreadfully loud.
"No"
"Well these two chicks were fighting over a guy name George, haha what kind of name is George ? Anyway it was really violent and the bouncers separated them."
They nod, one of them looks rather interested, didn't look at the other one (makes me realize I forgot to keep eye contact).
I take a step as if leaving, "oh by the way, I have a question"
(forgot to use a time constraint :( )
"a guy stays friends with a ex girlfriend, is that cheating ?"
"No" she shrugs.
"ok thanks...yeah but, well this is a double question actually. I have this friend he's dating this girl for over a month, they're doing great she's always at his place. Recently she found a box under his bed with a shit load of old love letters and photographs of his ex's and she's really mad, what do you think about that ?"
Not only I had to repeat a few phrases because of the music but one of their friends hands them drinks, the girl I'm talking to turns her back and talks to others (revealing this was a 5 set) and the second girl who was close by leans on the bar purposely ingnoring me.
I ask her, "what do you think ?"
Shrugs.
OK, I tell myself, well never mind, music's shitting the whole thing anyway. (although I'm troubled it went so bad, hence find myself writing about it the day after :confused: ).
"Hey, do you believe in spells ?" I tell her.
"No" she says, looking bothered. Never the less, I'm here to practice I don't care.
"Give me your hand...no the other one". Now I didn't know what I was doing, I think I wanted to take her place lounging on the bar, anyway I tried to make her spin, and she did, reluctantly with a <what the fuck does is this weirdo doing ?>. But she just spinned and didn't move as I tried to take her place (indeed, very embarassing). I smile weakly and left, I had clearly freaked her out...
I opened my first set : wouhou :D
First I blamed the music for how it turned out, then my total lack of skill but that was still better than not trying so I won, great for me.
My friend/future wing tried with an adjacent set, did rather good and ejected.
Neither of us tried anything more of the night, music was just too damn loud and we talked about where to practice next and what we did wrong.
Chatted with his group from time to time.
I tried Mystery's parallel finger's spell (the one he teaches Pradeep in VH1's PUA). I just wanted to practice, turns out it didn't work, and her boyfriend was behind her, cool stuff...
Then I wanted to try something else with another of the girls in the group, <5 questions game, ordinay chat>. But still I remained in that playful teasing attitude wich never made her smile and eventually made her walk off.
Later my friend told me both girls were a little weird but never the less I was clearly coming off unfriendly to them, something completely opposite of who I am. I now realize I could have easily befriended these girls by ordinary talk and maybe pepping in a few interesting stuff or remarks but I just started off too...weird I guess.
Better luck next time, hopefully I'll be writing about some form of a success !
First off you need to know this thread hasn't got anything interesting in it. No really, nothing original, plain and probably badly written (English is my second language). I wrote it here because it would be lonely on my hard drive. It's a boring field report of a young man starting out his game and is mainly for myself. I felt the need to write what happened but hey...maybe someone hasn't got anything better to read for the moment and probably can relate to a few things that happened, anyway here it is.
So I'v been reading all kinds of material since july (started with DeAngelo stuff and eventually discovered and got hooked by Mystery and his method). Reading and not practicing until last night. I had a little game before hand, I would appreciate myself as 80% AFC if that makes any sense.
So I have all this knowledge in my head, I'm psyched up, made a friend read some to eventually build him into my wing. Tonight was the night we would make the decision of improving ourselves and our lives, if we opened sets it was on, if not then we would dwell in Afc and yes, shame.
I'd been reading and watching a few videos all afternoon, got my "routine" planed and made a sheat in my backpocket. I planned to go through the entire attraction sequence (A1 to A3). For a first night it was more than enough.
I knew where I wanted to practice and already had AA-nothing new here, then my friend calls and invites me to join him and his friends to a distant nightclub. The idea seemed good, I could get lots of practice and also meet and socialize with his friends.
So I meet them over there, psyched up, have a nice golden shirt (my idea of beginning peacocking), cool jeans and looked handsome and fresh- was in a great mood and eager to start off.
As I get introduced to the group (mixed group with couples and singles) one of the girls, pretty petite brunette in a sober red dress asks me where I'm from.
So bear in mind, my head is filled with the method from those many books and videos, she's a healthy woman so I automaticaly respond in a cocky playful attitude.
I keep a straight face, look her in the eyes, stand proud : "Well I come from over there (thumb points backwards), was in a car a minute ago".
She looks at me impassive then asks the same question.
"What do you mean ? Where are you from ?"
"That's a boring question. Tell me, what's your favorite color ?"
"Huuh, black."
"Wrong, red."
"I don't get it..."
"Well, didn't it occure to you that question might hurt me, somewhere deep inside..."
She slightly frowns. I'm thinking I'm cool, then the group heads to the club, pay our way in (lucky me goes through without paying, pure coincidence one of the bouncers is my neighbor) so I wait for them inside.
My friend comes in first, looks rather bothered and tells me, "dude I don't know what you said but my friend's didn't appreciate what you told them".
I don't get it, what the f*** did I say ?! Apart from the girl I teased a little as if she was my sister, I was polite.
I'm confused but never mind, I'm in a good mood, didn't have to pay and I'm gonna open for my first time :)
The group and I find a place, take a few drinks. The music is blasting out, crappy techno-electro whatever, really loud though. I chat a little with the guys and ask my friend to watch me open a set. There were many but as I saw mixed sets (so that's guys and girls) I saw a huge wall, gonna have troube plowing thought that but one thing at a time.
I take a few steps, notice a 3 set leaning on the bar, turn my head, body facing out and engage.
"Hey did you see the fight outside ?" Two of the girls lean in, the music is dreadfully loud.
"No"
"Well these two chicks were fighting over a guy name George, haha what kind of name is George ? Anyway it was really violent and the bouncers separated them."
They nod, one of them looks rather interested, didn't look at the other one (makes me realize I forgot to keep eye contact).
I take a step as if leaving, "oh by the way, I have a question"
(forgot to use a time constraint :( )
"a guy stays friends with a ex girlfriend, is that cheating ?"
"No" she shrugs.
"ok thanks...yeah but, well this is a double question actually. I have this friend he's dating this girl for over a month, they're doing great she's always at his place. Recently she found a box under his bed with a shit load of old love letters and photographs of his ex's and she's really mad, what do you think about that ?"
Not only I had to repeat a few phrases because of the music but one of their friends hands them drinks, the girl I'm talking to turns her back and talks to others (revealing this was a 5 set) and the second girl who was close by leans on the bar purposely ingnoring me.
I ask her, "what do you think ?"
Shrugs.
OK, I tell myself, well never mind, music's shitting the whole thing anyway. (although I'm troubled it went so bad, hence find myself writing about it the day after :confused: ).
"Hey, do you believe in spells ?" I tell her.
"No" she says, looking bothered. Never the less, I'm here to practice I don't care.
"Give me your hand...no the other one". Now I didn't know what I was doing, I think I wanted to take her place lounging on the bar, anyway I tried to make her spin, and she did, reluctantly with a <what the fuck does is this weirdo doing ?>. But she just spinned and didn't move as I tried to take her place (indeed, very embarassing). I smile weakly and left, I had clearly freaked her out...
I opened my first set : wouhou :D
First I blamed the music for how it turned out, then my total lack of skill but that was still better than not trying so I won, great for me.
My friend/future wing tried with an adjacent set, did rather good and ejected.
Neither of us tried anything more of the night, music was just too damn loud and we talked about where to practice next and what we did wrong.
Chatted with his group from time to time.
I tried Mystery's parallel finger's spell (the one he teaches Pradeep in VH1's PUA). I just wanted to practice, turns out it didn't work, and her boyfriend was behind her, cool stuff...
Then I wanted to try something else with another of the girls in the group, <5 questions game, ordinay chat>. But still I remained in that playful teasing attitude wich never made her smile and eventually made her walk off.
Later my friend told me both girls were a little weird but never the less I was clearly coming off unfriendly to them, something completely opposite of who I am. I now realize I could have easily befriended these girls by ordinary talk and maybe pepping in a few interesting stuff or remarks but I just started off too...weird I guess.
Better luck next time, hopefully I'll be writing about some form of a success !