day game-girl at her work

[JohnDough]

sup everyone, new member, have been lurking for some time finally decided to join... anyway had question about day game situation.

seems like the best tactic for day game is just coming out with compliment to show interest which tends to surprise many women as they arent really expecting it. well in my case this girl works up and tanning place and ive only seen her twice but both times she seemed real friendly, alot of eye contact, smiling, etc...more then just typical friendly worker, both times just real quick interactions, not really any convo. now my question is since she works here i know she gets hit on alot as there are alot of guy customers and it really seems like a compliment would just blend me in with every other guy there that compliments her. negging is not recommended as much for daytime (from what ive read) but i feel that would be better approach , what would be best strategy in this situation?

[Girl_in_the_Room]

I'll leave it up to the guys to say anything about actual approaches. But honestly, I think she's only doing the smiling nice thing because she's at work. It's her job. It doesn't mean anything more. And if you read too much into her PR skills too soon without significant interaction and talking beyond the immediate business, and "lurk" around her like you've been doing on the forum, you could be tagged as a "stalker" if you know what I'm saying. I'm guessing that is not the vibe you're going after.

[robbie_j]

i find the best opener for a girl at work is to ask them about a made up situation involving a friend in a similar situation. tell them that you have a friend A who has a crush on a girl in whatever industry (bartender, waitress whatever..) and doesn;t know what to do because they have no mutual friends., whatever. make sure to DHV and FTC because this NEEDS to hook cuz she's probaly too busy for multiple threading. after she answers, ask her if shes ever gone out with a client...when she expectedly says no, sarcastically tell her that shes obviously the worst person to ask and thank her playfully for wasting your time. if you;ve done it right (it took me a long time to figure this all out, but now it works pretty much every time) you can move into a new topic while shes trying to convince you that her opinion is worthwhile.

the trick is when youre telling your made up story, make sure to add a quirky detail or two about your friend to both DHV and make it sound not made up.

hoep that helps

[neils17]

i find the best opener for a girl at work is to ask them about a made up situation involving a friend in a similar situation. tell them that you have a friend A who has a crush on a girl in whatever industry (bartender, waitress whatever..) and doesn;t know what to do because they have no mutual friends., whatever. make sure to DHV and FTC because this NEEDS to hook cuz she's probaly too busy for multiple threading. after she answers, ask her if shes ever gone out with a client...when she expectedly says no, sarcastically tell her that shes obviously the worst person to ask and thank her playfully for wasting your time. if you;ve done it right (it took me a long time to figure this all out, but now it works pretty much every time) you can move into a new topic while shes trying to convince you that her opinion is worthwhile.

the trick is when youre telling your made up story, make sure to add a quirky detail or two about your friend to both DHV and make it sound not made up.

hoep that helps
i like this guys response its pretty smooth...especially with the FTC. Thats so much more beliveable cause in a work place of course u have no time to just sit and chat all day. BTW ...this working beauty is one of those "hired guns" Mystery mentioned on the tv show....his tecnique was flash game check this out and see if it helps http://www.vh1.com/video/play.jhtml?id=1569582&vid=175507

[Cockran]

YOU ARE THE PRIZE......
once you do the opener like Robbie J said....

you have her interest and she is just like any other pickup
just remember you have to be patient with a hired gun....you might have to work her three or four times before even getting a number.