(o_0)'s sarge reports...

[(o_0)]

While i am not new to this subculture as i like to call it... this is my first post. i plan on listing all my sarges under it (which i have a few good ones so far ;) )

i moved back to the states a few months ago after spending three years in England. I had no idea any thing like this existed at the time. Well, one faithful night after a lot of drinking my best friend and i were talking about my freshly ended ended LTR with this british girl and how i was confused on why i was having so much trouble picking girls up and how i was just looking for that one *special* girl that i could have a serious relationship with. I also was telling him how i wish i could just go up to random girls i didn't know because waiting on one to come to me just wasn't working... basically i was the posterboy for AFC's everywhere.

well, after i finished my whining session my buddy said "look man, i haven't told any one else about this but for the past few months i've been reading on how to pick up women." the first picture that entered my mind was some 300 pound 13 year old ordering how to books out of the back of his D&D monthly magazine.

He could see the look in my eyes so he goes on to tell me about how theres a method to the madness of picking up girls and he tells me this story about how he lost a girl he was trying to hook up with at the beach to this fat kid. instead of being mad he wanted to know how he fucking did it! so he asks the kid and he tells him to go buy a book called "the game"... Few months later and there we are. he gives me the book and tells me to just read a bit and see what i think. needless to say my cognatent biasis soon went away and i was hooked... belowe is the journal of my sarges. hope you enjoy!

[(o_0)]

After reading the first few chapters of the game i couldn't wait to get out there and try some openers out and see how they worked! I started on my friends just to see how people react (i was using the montel show opener) i really couldn't believe how much conversation could be generated out of it so i inched foward a little bit and wanted to try phase shifting on this girl by shifting the conversation to being adventourous. it was starting to go well and i could see attraction building so i used a neg straight out of the book (because i didn't know my own at the time) and then started kino.

At this point i really didn't know where else to go because i hadn't expected my first few times out to go that well so i hadn't read that far ahead! i started to freak a lil and just asked her if she would like to meet up sometime. (i know i know sooooo AFC'ish but i didn't know :rolleyes:

so that was my first sarge ever and i got a number close. ohhh almost forgot, she was a HB6 BUT my scale is really high, like i may have seen a handfull of HB10's in my life. most are only up to 8's with some 9's here and there. aka jessica simpson:9, keira knightly: 10 in love actually..but as low as a 7 in some movies.

[Syph]

Hehe I dunno if your scale is high then mine is like really high.
I saw one hb10 in my life.

Looks like this is going an interesting thread though, gonna keep up to it.

Edit: btw I didn't get your signature at all.

[(o_0)]

fter that first sarge, I made a conscious decision that i was going to change my life. I realized that i could make myself into the person i wanted to be, the person i was inside. I started really thinking about who i was AFTER i was comfortable around a girl and what kind of image i really wanted to portray....

so i changed my hair, bought new clothes, started working out more than i already did and, i kept reading the book. I started sarging just to sarge. I wasn't even looking for hook ups, i was looking for flaws in myself and areas of my game that I needed to work on. It seemed like every thing i was wondering about myself and starting to second guess i would research and find out it was just another AFC trait and something i had to change or outgrow. At this point, i felt like i was ready to actually go out and try to really throw some game...

This is the story of my second sarge.....


The friend who got me into PUA and i went out to this sports bar in my home town (i live about an hour away in Augusta GA) well we get a table and start game planning on what we are going to do and what we want the wing to do so we were on the same page. (This is a good idea if you’re new or your wing is new so you don’t fuck up a good set, but do it before you go out...)

There’s about 4 more guys we are with so we go join them to drink a few before we start. I really needed it because i was def still in AFC land and my approach anxiety was off the charts.

After a couple of drinks i see some old friends across the place so i go talk to them since i haven’t seen them in years. As we are talking i notice this HB8 nearby getting hit on by these two guys. her body language was screaming LEAVE!! and i laughed to myself and thought i could do better. Well about 5 mins later i see one of the guys from my previous table trying to hit on her and he got the same treatment. A few mins later i glance over and she's just looking out into nothing and i seize the chance....

(o_0): :smiles: what are you looking at? You look like you’re lost? (kinda neggy)
HB::smiles: "no I’m just waiting on my friend. (another girl who was talking to a couple of the guys i knew)

(o_0): i go into the montel routine and my wing walked up at just the right time. she lets her guard down a bit but i can tell she’s still got that shit up. I noticed she was wearing these shoes with straps that criss crossed up her legs so i neged her on it with "wow those look really comfortable" and that was all it took.

HB: haha, you must really not know how to talk to girls!

(o_0): its just that i know we could never work because we're to much alike, we would fight all the time and i would win" (here she tried to lower my value but i used a disqualifier that in my opinion lowers her value at the same time .

HB: I’m heather, what’s your name?

(o_0): I’m ........ so where are you from (no southern accent)

HB: I’m from vt., i go to college here.

(o_0) oh that’s cool, I’m here visiting friends but i live in Augusta. I'm in the Navy (def a DHV for girls not near any bases. they love a man in uniform)

so then i try and make her qualify herself and i ask "so do you have any thing else going for yourself besides your looks or are you just one of those cute (this is a neg to a girl) sorority girls?"

HB: lol, well actually i'm the president of the zeta sorority.

wow, let me tell you right now... between having my foot shoved down my mouth and her value just shooting through the fucking roof i didn't know what to say....so i just try to play it off like i don't think its that big of a deal.

also, during the time we've been talking three different guys from my group have come up and said something like "dude come fucking drink" or "hey man we got shots waiting on you" i could also feel myself starting to get nervous and i didn't want to lose the ground i had already gained to i said...

(o_0) haha, thats cool. well i really need to get back to my friends. it was great to meet you, we should hang out sometime.

HB: yea we should! here’s my number, next time your in town give me a call! "

(here’s a closing DHV i came up with) i said "ok here just put your number in my phone" and handed her my iphone. wow, girls love this fucking phone. BUY ONE!!!. so she went crazy about it for a sec. put her number in last bit of kino and i walked off.

I went back to my table and everyone was just looking at me in amazement. The guy that tried earlier was like "damn dude good on ya, i got shut the fuck down."

I couldn't believe it, this was only my 2nd night out to really sarge and i number closed this beautiful blonde who is the president of a fucking sorority!!!!


follow up......................

this was a Fri. night... i waited two days and txt'd her on mon. ended up meeting up for drinks with some friends , took her back to a buddies for somewhat of an after party and I Fclosed her that night. Now I’m not like one of the guys on the PUA show, I’m 22 and had been with 9 girls, (10 after her) but right then i knew there was no turning back. ... I will write a follow up to this in the morning because it holds a lesson to be learned that i learned the hard way. Plus more sarges to catch you all up to where i am now..... Hope you guys enjoyed and hopefully my story will help some of you out with your game.

[doobio]

very interesting info! nice catch dude and thanks!

[Hollywood]

I'm in the same boat, just turned 24, double digits with the ladies, but I've always lacked the inner game, while proabably taking advantage of average social skills and my ability to pick out good fool's mates.

So the MM has really helped me not improve or change my inner game, but strengthen it, and the results speak for themselves. I have yet to get shut out of a set.

I think you are getting the same kind of feeling from this. I like knowing what will happen before it happens and that makes me feel in power. power is a good thing, just don't abuse it ;)

[(o_0)]

First, I’d like to say I really agree with set catcher. My inner game was in shambles. It always seemed like I would come alive and have that alpha male confidence only after I knew it was a sure deal, but the MM has changed my inner game in my outlook. I used to put girls on a pedestal and I would be so intimidated by a hot girl that I would never go up and imitate conversation. This was because on the few occasions I did try, I would get shut down every time…. That’s because I was using the AFC game like, “hey, I saw you from across the bar and thought you were really cute. Whats your name? and then be all about her and kept asking questions.” Until I would ask if she wanted to go dance or for her number. Yeap, I def needed help all around. Any way, on with the post….

As I said in my previous post, I Fclosed the HB8 the second day. Before she left we had made plans to go see a play the next weekend. After going from a serious relationship to nothing for about two months to a HB8 I def had a bad case of oneitis. She was all I could think about and I wanted to have a LTR with this girl. Well I couldn’t take it any more and I wanted to know if she was interested so I wrote her this e-mail…. This is def what not to do. Haha…..

(this is an excerpt from the e-mail I sent her… this was the bad part)

last but not least, basically i just wanna know if you have preintentions for any thing that could be relationship wise. i know you said you just broke up with a guy you'd been with for over three years, and i don't know if your just looking to go out and have a good time or what but if you know your not in the market for a bf I'd just like to know so i know where i stand... on the other hand if your not ruling the chance of a relationship out then i want you to know thats really what i'm looking for. I'm a bit tired of the shallow pointless relationships and from what time little time we've hung out i can tell i really like you and i would love to see alot more of you.

After I sent it I knew I had made a mistake, and I had! Needless to say she responded back with exactly what I thought she would “I don’t want to rush into any thing blahh blahh blahh.” And when the weekend came she e-mailed me with an excuse that she couldn’t go with me that night… I already knew it was coming so I didn’t mind that much. I wrote her back and said “actually I was about to call and let you know I can’t make it either. I just got called into work because somethings gone down.”

Moral of this story is know what oneitis is and don’t be that guy at the time I had never heard of oneitis. Then I got on the forums and found out…

[(o_0)]

I really wanted to get my mind off the HB8 so I decided to go sarge that shitty feeling out of my system. A friend I work with invited me over to drink at his house that night so I figured it may be a good place to start.

I go over, and there’s a red headed HB6 that I notice right away, but act like I don’t. after a few minutes some of us went outside to smoke and she came out with us. I use the montel opener on my friend that invited me over and as soon as she interrupted to put in her two cent’s I pointed at her, made a weird face, and said “is she always like this?”

She laughed and pushed me in the arm. I looked at her and she flipped her hair with her hand. I knew I was good so far. So we started talking and I did the phase shift to adventure. I found out she had a boyfriend who was in Texas at the time.

Well at this point I no clue what a BF destroyer was, but I had started reading “The Art of Seduction” and I knew about Casanova being an ideal lover so I decided to play the part. I empathized with her and told her about a long distance relationship I had once had…

Later in the night my buddy asks if I was going to stay since I had been drinking. I said yea and the HB6 said she was going to stay too. Fast forward a bit and everyone’s gone and she is on the laptop talking to her bf while I’m out smoking. I come back in and she says to come over. Then she takes a pic of me and her cuddled up on the couch and sends it to her bf! I said I wanted to write him and finally she let me. I wrote “hey man your GF is really fucking hot. Hope your liking texas. Hate to run but we’ll talk to ya later.”

I closed the laptop and she looked stuned like she couldn’t believe I just did that. After that we went R rated on the couch all night but I couldn’t seal the Fclose. In any case it was a great night in my book and def got me over the HB8.

[Dox]

Wow. Keep it up bro, I'm really enjoying these FR's, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. The amount of energy and detail you put into this makes me feel like I need to step up my game a bit more lol.

[Hollywood]

After that we went R rated on the couch all night but I couldn’t seal the Fclose.

Some girls consider this to be "just exploring" I've had the same experience with a girl who's bf was out of town, I could do anything I wanted to her except f-close. crazy bitches haha

[lazarus paradise]

haha this reminds me of me right after I read the game. I was using the montel opener but I changed it to jerry springer. Jerry springer seemed to generate more conversation and laughs. I did the same AFC thing in a email to, with the same results you got!

[(o_0)]

so i had a date set up with the sorority president to go see a play and she backed out saying that her roommate had just had surgery and she had to stay with her until she her parents got back in town, (her roommate really did have surgery.) so she backed out... i didn't hear from her that weekend or all the next week. By this point i knew i had fucked up and started doing research in the forums.

I came across a great thread about oneitis and evolved my game to make sure i didn't put myself in that situation again. Well now it’s Fri night and I’m beating myself up over what i could have done differently and realize this is def. AFC behavior and who cares if it went wrong? I just made a break through in finding out about oneitis and should be ecstatic! So i go sarging.....

*my sarging has taken place in my home town so far due to two friends leaving soon, one just went to boot camp two weeks ago and one just left this week for another trip to the sandbox.*

Well i go back home and meet up with my friends and we head out to a popular local club/bar. As soon as i walk in i see the sorority president (now known as president) with some guy at the bar. She doesn't see me so i look in the other direction and start talking to sets randomly as i move past her so it doesn't look obvious.

It goes smoothly and a few mins later my wing comes up and says "heather said she saw you and for me to tell you she said hey."

I told him "what ever, i really couldn't care less."

After we drink a few and go over our game plan while talking to other friends and my wing sets out on the first set of the night. He opens the two set (HB6's) and moves through A1 very well, A2 was sooo easy with this two set. They warmed up like they had known us forever. So we are moving into A3 and the president walks up behind me and nudges me.

I look back and she smiles and starts up small talk about how she saw me come in and how she liked my clothes etc. we talk for a few mins but I’m a lil standoffish because i def don't want to look needy or like the AFC i portrayed earlier that week. So i told her I’d come find her later but i had to get back to my buddies.

I turn around and the two girls are gone. Have no clue where they are OR my wing! My wing walks back up and I’m like "dude what the fuck happened with the two set?! This shit was going great!"

"I went to the bath room; they said they would be here."

I'm not tooooo bothered about the set because there were alot of girls out so i tell him i got the next set and i want him to pay attention to my neg delivery and how well i multithread.... two set, HB6's again. We are now moving through A2 and the president come up and starts talking to one of our targets!!!! She knew them from somewhere because they were both like HEY!! she asked them something not pertaining to our conversational threads, so in an effort not to lose the value I’d gained by just standing there like i had nothing better to do i turned around and started talking to some randoms at the bar to fill time. Once again, when i looked back over the girls had turned and was talking in a huge group of people so now i was starting to get pissed.

(o_0): dude, do you think she’s doing that shit on purpose? That’s twice now she’s closed a set down for us.

Wing: idk man she had reasons both times to come up, let’s just try another set.

(o_0): ok, look over there, there’s a two set of HB7's sitting a lil away from the bar. Lead the way" they def had there bitch shields up and it was really obvious they didn't wanna be hit on.

So i say "hold on, you gotta be tactful with these two." our buddy mike was near them at the bar. So i told him "lets go talk to mike, I’ll say fuck that kinda loud and then you glance over shoulder and ask there opinion (talk show opener again here)

Wing: ok! Let’s do this!

the first fucking thing he does is go right up to the two girls from straight ahead and gets in there face and says "what would you do if a talk show called you blahhslkanasdlfnadslfn " it was obvious the girls were a lil freaked out by this drunk ass bombarding them like that and shut him down on the spot.

While this was going on, i just went over and started talking to mike. After my wing got his ass shut out he came over and i went off on him over how he knew better than that shit and it hurt me to watch lol. About that time though this nonHB4 went up to the two set and was talking to them. I told my wing i could save group and for him to hang back until he could tell i was well into A2.

the nonHB4 comes up on the other side of me to order a drink so i use an indirect opener that i came up with, which I’d rather not share at this time because i still don’t have loads of my own material and unique stuff is a must with the show on vh1 now.

so any way, i open this girl up at the bar and shoot two strong DHV's a neg that i correlate into her bringing me into the rest of group... i start talking to all three girls and I’m going through my pattern and i see the girl i originally open look over my shoulder, shake her head no with a confused look and make the hand signal like "no YOU come over here". I looked back and it was none other than the fucking president trying to call this girl over! All of these girls were in the sorority as i had found out a few mins before and it turns out its the same one as the president. i knew right then i was done. :mad: the president came over pulled a move to draw the one girl away from the group that i swear came right out of "the game" and started talking to her really close. i knew what was happening and i was right, a friend yelled for me to come over because they had bought me a shot and by the time i got back i went to re open the set and i got these terrible looks!

later that night the president txt'd me and basically beat around the bush that she was mad i didn't try to talk to her near the beginning of the night, but then i asked if she wanted to come over to where i was to "hang out" she said she was at another party and declined. i really couldn't work out why she would decline at the time but now I’ve just chalked it up to wanting to have the ball in her court.... wanting to run how it ended. Haven’t talked to her since.

more to come, damn this was a long one. But i learned some lessons through this night and i think there are some more i have yet to decipher but that’s the game.

[TheCoolerKing]

I think I might remember you before.

Weren't you real annoying to people here and you were banned before?

I remember you tried to start shit with me one time.

[(o_0)]

haha def not me bro, while i've been reading the forums for a while i just started adding to it since i think i have info that will help others out. if your skeptical you can check my profile info, hawaii can verify who i am as well. just talked to him on the phone today actually.

[(o_0)]

its a fri night and a friends invites me out to have some drinks at this sports bar. I've known him for a while and this guy could really be a king of pickup if he wanted. he looks like the rock and dresses like matador, but he’s had a LTR for a few years now and is pretty much waiting till she’s finished with college then get married. even though he's spoken for and a faithful man; he makes a great wing without trying!

ok, so on with the report... he invites me out so i get there and he's there with his GF and there is another GB7 at the table. I had never spoken to her before but i had seen her at my buddies work and knew she was a co-worker.
she's got that emo/punk girl look, short black hair, black rimmed glasses, and pretty pale. with a really feminine tattoo going down her arm kind of like a sleeve but not solid and its just flower blossoms. she looked like a hot suicide girl. (which she later told me she is planning on doing once some photographer gets back from somewhere)

so i walk up to the table smiling and trying to show really high confidence. i say hey to my buddy and give his GF a hug, while ignoring the HB7. after i sit down the convo goes something like this...

(o_0): so buddy, why don't you introduce me to your friend? that would be the polite thing to do.

buddy: introduces us

(o_0): (I do my catch look *explained at bottom of post*) and say, its nice to meet you. (give a nod towards buddy) you can dress him up but you can't take him any where.

HB7: laughs, its nice to meet you. *touches her hair*

(o_0): to GF, so how do you know each other?

even though I already know, I do this to bring GF into convo. she tells me through buddy and HB tells me she works with my friend.

so I asked a few questions to build comfort, just stuff like oh cool, how long have you worked there etc....

well GF interrupts me by grabbing my arm and saying "shut the fuck up bitch!!!" which is an inside joke that i think is about to bring my game down fast!!!!!

*note* how elicit are we allowed to get in our posts? because i'd like to write about the inside joke as its a pretty funny story about a HB9 1/2. someone let me know and if its cool I’ll post it up.

so I respond with "ohhhh lets not bring that up."

buddy: hey man, lets make tonight interesting. I’ll give you a dollar for every number you get tonight up to 10.

(o_0): (i really want to game the girl that’s at our table!) well, I’m really not just looking for some random hookup man, but if you wanna lose 10 bucks I’ll take your money.

buddy: ok man lets see it.

(o_0): I’ve got all night, I’m going to have a drink.

HB: I’ll take a vodka/cranberry

(o_0): haha, no thanks. I don't buy drinks for girls, but you can buy me one.

she looks at me with her mouth gaped open like she cant fucking believe what i just said. then, it turns into a smile and she said "ok, but your buying the next one."

as if on que the server came up and she ordered my drink (vodka/redbull) and I felt like I may be giving her a lil to much attention so I cat string it and start talking to the GF and buddy.

she goes to but in when I was talking...

(o_0): tilts head and smiles, points, is she always like that

HB: gives a smiling astonished look like "is this guy really saying not nice things to me!?" and hits me in my arm.

now I know from 1st grade that hitting is a plus so I smile and say. "ok, you wanna talk? lets play a game."

I put my hands out for her to puts hers in them, but she doesn't. she looks up at me straight faced and says "I just want you to know I’m not giving my number to you tonight"

honestly, I don't know how I didn't freeze up but I didn't. I knew this was a shit test because she had loads of confidence and I could tell she wanted a guy that was def. an alpha male and that would take charge. instantly...

(o_0): whhoooaaaa, sweet heart.. I don't remember asking for it, and trust me.... your not my type. we are too much alike... we would fight all the time, and I would win.

then I TAKE her hands in mine and tell her to close her eyes. (I could see in her eyes that this lil episode and def turned her on) so I run the cube on her and then she starts asking how I knew that etc etc... at this point I thought I should leave the table for a while and DHV going and talking to other people at the bar to show I’m socially accepted.

when I come back we all chit chat a lil more and I do the esp number game on buddies GF and HB7 trying to neg me on my peacock item! this is a planed item I wear for this reason and after I tell my "bracelet story" DHV spikes are off the charts, and puppy dog eyes all around every time.(this is really good if a cock blocking friend tries to call you on it because it melts girls hearts every time) **this is my favorite fucking move but I’m going to share it because its money and I’ve already held back my opener from the last post.. so the bracelet DHV will be explained at bottom of post..***

now, the bar is closing shortly so I say we should go to a club that’s open and buddy and GF can't go but she says she'll take me. so we bounce to the club. once we get there she is trying to cat string me! so I told her I had to say hi to some people and to find me in a bit.

then I open up this HB8. I open her and use the exact same pattern I used on the first girl and things were going great. I was escalating Kino and HB7 come over and sits down beside us!

i decide to play it off like its nothing and introduce the two. the punk girl tells me she’s about to leave. so i stand up and walk away with her. i made a decision to stay after the HB8 well, because she was a HB8...

(o_0): it was great to meet you tonight (pull her close and give her a hug) we should meet up next time i'm in town.

HB: yea you too! and kisses me on the cheek. and yes we should. Here is my number...

now i really can't describe how this night really went down because I’m not Neil strous lol. but this girl was giving me shit tests, hoops, and trying to lower my value all night but it was like a kung fu movie fight, for everything she said or did I had the right response or action.

so she left, I stayed with the HB8 and continued my pattern. we didn't have as much time together as I would have liked due to the club closing and having no viable place to bounce I decided to end it without going for a kiss or fclose because A3 was slow going with this one.

(o_0): I had fun and we should hang out next time I’m in town,

HB8: let me give you my number, you HAVE to call me.

(o_0): do my iphone DHV (which always goes well)

then she puts her number in my phone, calls her phone from mine and says "just want you to know im serious"

to fill you in on her, she was 20, a sorority girl (from a different one from the president thankfully) 5'10 with KILLER legs and just all around a solid 8. unfortunately I let to much time go by without calling her so I’m just going to wait it out and hope I meet her in town again.

in this sarge I really got down and dirty with shit tests. I really think if I had failed just one of the tests she would have dropped interest in me right then and there. so stay strong and remember to be the man they want, not the man they SAY they want.

[Conquest]

I'm really enjoying your posts and it's giving me alot of confidence for tonight. I'll write up about my progress later so you can see how much progress I've been making but overall a big thumbs up.

[kodax]

got to say. you really need to step your fucking game up.. lol. nice. i like reading your post. but i think you have a little more posting to do. you are behind.

[Funkid]

great posts bro, keep it up

[Stryker]

Keep on kickin the doors down. Great posts. thx

[(o_0)]

been so busy i haven't had the time to sit and write a nice FR last couple of weeks but i'll keep them coming.

[kodax]

its cool. but i really like reading all of this. keep it up and you can be my wing next weekend or something.

[(o_0)]

wow, sat night was the first time i've done an honest sarge in MONTHS. i couldn't tell you why but i i just fell off. not rejection after rejection, i just stropped all together for no real reason.

things have been uber slow as well, although i've turned down a few. i've only f closed ONE girl since the sorority president.

in fact i think i know why i quit. i was having problems with trying to set up second meetings and got bored with it. so if any one has any awesome info on that then please share. I just got some (from another site shhh) that i think should be fucking awesome for that but.... the important thing is i'm back in! so if ya learned any thing from my previous posts or just liked them there will be more to come.

I can recall at least three nights that would be number one how to's if i had them on video and i may write the sarges up for them if i have time coming up but i[m def going to hit the sarging again and writing about them.

[(o_0)]

I'm back!!! just got out of almost a year long LTR and hmmmm, i guess i'm feeling a little bit of oneitis at the moment. i need to get out and sarge... Any one around Augusta ga or greenwood sc up for some sarging? i thought about starting mini bootcamps for cheap for some looking to get into the game. Did one for free a few months ago and i must say i have amazing teaching skills when it comes to this stuff.


EDIT: ok, I've talked to a few of the guys that were present at the mini boot camp i did to get some feedback and they all said i was AMAZING/ FUCKING RIDICULOUS at teaching the material, and correcting thier problems. so, i've decided to start running a few 2 1/2 day boot camps including going over looks/clothing choices, 5 hours of "classroom" and two nights out for $250. I've found a business that specializes in hidden camera equp so i'm going to be buying the gear needed to record in game for corrective feedback and teaching purposes.... SO, is any one actually reading my post and taking something away from it? If you guys actually care and want me to continue/restart my postings i will, if not i wont waste my time! haha. so if you enjoy reading my stuff be sure to comment and let me know.