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Cr8ton
09-13-2007, 06:19 PM
I have recently heard from my ex and told her I was visiting an old friend (one she happen to remember quite well for Highschool that had a huge crush on me) Immediatly her tone changes and she says I gotta go now ::click::! Then later she texts me saying "blah blah blah, oh i forgot I was mad at you", thats obvious as hell, I mean if u remembered before u sent the shit u couldve just not sent it. But anyhow I responded back in a Txt with, "Are you always this uptight?" And she said "Relationship wise, yes" I said "Well depending on the relationship I think you need to loosen up" Then she takes a good 2 hours and says this lame remark lol "Well Sorry i'm not a tenny bopper" (referring to the chick who I had been seeing). Now I am kind of stuck as to what to say back, my goal here is to maybe have her as a FB bc she lives close and its convenient, and I dont see this goal as being too hard at all, just wanted to know the best way to approach this next msg. I was thinking I could say "You know the cool thing now days is to call names, you must be pretty popular." or "Dont apoligize to me for who you are, just be happy with yourself."

Anyone have some suggestions on what I should say next, I felt I needed insight from others before I wrote anything else back, appreciate the feedback guys.

We takin Over
09-24-2007, 12:32 PM
Its obvious that she is jealous and insecure but tries to stay strong and put you on the back foot with that lame ass comment... I would personally ignore it as in active dis interest and when she gets round it tell her '' Its funny ... i can tell you jelous of her '' or any comment which D's HV and then WALK AWAY .. if she really wants cock she will come to you or become friendly .....

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10-08-2007, 02:07 PM
This is the better response "Don't apologize to me for who you are, just be happy with yourself."

After that she may or may not reply back to you. If she does do not text her back for a day. If she doesn't wait at least 7 days before calling/texting her.

When you shutdown communication (freeze out) like this it tells girls a few things:
1) I'm in control of this relationship, I'm being the man.
2) You aren't going to get to me that easily
3) I can live without you - once she realizes this she will put up with tons in order to get you back. (you are still a challenge)

when you do discuss this with her be matter of fact about it and let her know that being jealous isn't going to get her anywhere with you.

We takin Over as it right. If she wants you she will follow you.