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husky
09-12-2007, 11:09 PM
so i was sarging at uni bar 3 weeks ago and i picked up this chick ,the next day we meet up again and i made a fatal mistake of pickup : buyer remorse. we didnt have sex though , i went straight from attraction to seduction )
she txted me the next day say she was busy couldnt answer the phone when i called her .so i didnt call her again, went out and pick up more chicks.
However now there is a HUGE problem emerged , she goship ( the hottie group) and now im like a total weirdo in their eyes
my inner game is also fucked , im totally locked out in my head , my peacocking skill is good so girls still looking at me or even approach to open me but my confidence is demolished,its like the girls can read it through my eyes , and they start showing IOD
can someone give me some hints how to get over this period, this is so screwed up for me

Sperkzy
09-12-2007, 11:32 PM
It's not a big deal.

That was one of Mysteries lessons in his book. Seriously though, where ever your social gathering is, I'm sure by a week or two it will be refreshed with new people and you'll be clear to go. Don't stress it now, you got one night of fooling around out of it, be happy!

And if you desperately want to get back in the field find another gathering just until the heat dies down at the other.

Trust me, it isn't "The end". Maybe you could find a way to play it as a good thing.

And remember to always stop yourself if you feel it evolving into the seduction stage to quickly. You had to learn the hard way. But good job getting there.

Session
09-15-2007, 11:02 PM
This obviously means your foundation of Inner Game isn't sound. Go to a new bar, meet other women.